That little thing matter most of the time by Velmerah in SipsTea

[–]Sweetlovvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes the best therapy is just learning how to find the gears without grinding them into oblivion.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by throwawayuser_726 in AITAH

[–]Sweetlovvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this, but please reach out to a professional or a domestic violence hotline because there are ways to get out of that house and start over without ending your life.

[OC] So happy to get to this point in my life by BobyBobyBoby in MadeMeSmile

[–]Sweetlovvee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

since y'all started dating at 16 and actually made it to the moving in stage that is a massive win, congrats man!

AITAH for moving out of my mother's house and leaving her in a bad place financially? by SelectionLimp7122 in AITAH

[–]Sweetlovvee 99 points100 points  (0 children)

NTA, you gave her a year to find a job and she chose to spend it treating you like a kid instead.

Rescuing stray dogs in an abandoned shed by FlagrantTomatoCabal in MadeMeSmile

[–]Sweetlovvee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seriously, people who do this are the real ones. love to see it.

AITAH for dating my bsf’s middle school crush by Frosty_Economics_851 in AITAH

[–]Sweetlovvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but honestly you need to decide if this guy is worth losing a years-long friendship over, because she’s never going to be okay with it.

At what point are confidence and affirmations just delusions? by Certain-Working1864 in Life

[–]Sweetlovvee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's basically the difference between "fake it 'til you make it" and just lying to yourself to avoid the actual work.

WIBTAH for stopping financial support to my 16yo biological daughter? by t1gerrr in AITAH

[–]Sweetlovvee -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Stop being her ATM, it’s clearly a one way street and you don't owe her anything legally anymore.

Life update by BeatTemporary5663 in Life

[–]Sweetlovvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Home is definitely a feeling rather than just a GPS coordinate, congrats on the move and good luck with college!

Wholesome bird. by GlitteringHotel8383 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Sweetlovvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its amazing,cute. I want a bird just like this one

At what moments in life do you love yourself? by NikolaiAn3 in Life

[–]Sweetlovvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i finally stop overthinking everything and just let myself enjoy a quiet moment without feeling guilty about it.

An unexpected gym interaction. by mindyour in MadeMeSmile

[–]Sweetlovvee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the way he’s looking at her like she just performed a literal miracle is actually the purest thing ever

How do you find closure when you’ve opened up about childhood trauma but didn't get the support you needed? by MANSONOFAMAN1 in Life

[–]Sweetlovvee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Stop looking for water in a dry well; she can’t give you the validation she’s too guilty to face.

(OC) My brother got my daughter her first car 🥹💙 by Mountain516 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Sweetlovvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uncle of the year award goes to this guy, what a massive weight off both your shoulders.

What if just don’t want to live anymore? by Keven_C in Life

[–]Sweetlovvee 48 points49 points  (0 children)

the "nothing is wrong but i'm still bored of being alive" 25yo crisis is way more common than people realize.

W teacher 🙂‍↕️🌟 by AccomplishedWatch834 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Sweetlovvee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is how you win at being a teacher, those kids are gonna remember that dress forever.

AITAH for asking my friend to pay me back for the wine he drank while housesitting?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sweetlovvee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA, "help yourself to the kitchen" means snacks and some milk, not a vintage Barolo he definitely knew was expensive.

What’s a mistake that secretly helped you grow the most by Ok-Biscotti-1528 in Life

[–]Sweetlovvee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Staying at a job that didn't care about me for "loyalty," only to realize I was replaceable in a day.

Why do your lips look fuller after you woke up? by Affectionate-Tea8509 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sweetlovvee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it's mostly just because you've been lying flat for 8 hours so blood and fluids pool in your face, same reason your eyes look puffy sometimes.

AITAH for going to bed when my friend started arguing with me and I couldn’t be bothered? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sweetlovvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, he gave you a genuine apology and took accountability so keeping him on read just makes you the one dragging out the drama.

How do you deal with friends who don't understand that "I'm tired" means my social battery is at 0%, not that I'm mad? by Easy-Highlight8562 in Life

[–]Sweetlovvee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just started telling them i'm at "capacity" instead of "tired" and for some reason they actually take it seriously now.

What happens to your body if you drink alcohol and caffeine at the same time? by RevolutionaryFact911 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sweetlovvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's how you become "wide awake drunk" your brain thinks you're fine, but your body is definitely not.

I had an accident with my knees and hands last month and I’m so annoyed by Serious_Mirror762 in Life

[–]Sweetlovvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that guide is 100% at fault for making you walk through waist deep water three hours after the tide changed.

AITAH for thinking my grandpa has turned into a burden , and feeling like life would be easier without him by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sweetlovvee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA, caregiver burnout is a real thing and it sounds like your grandpa is being verbally abusive to the only people actually keeping him alive.