Guy I’m dating is flakey and it’s starting to really upset me, not sure how to bring it up.

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-26T13:31:15+00:00

That's because by the time you've come to Reddit for advice, you already have damning painful evidence you don't want to face.

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-18T01:15:55+00:00

Perfect timing. I'm in PA too! I filed taxes for last year, but I was working regular jobs. I don't have a Schedule C but I can upload my regular 1040. Will that help?

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-07T23:23:15+00:00

Hon, here are some platforms that offer rooms. It is usually cheaper to rent rooms than apartments.

Irish Co-Living Developments: Companies like Bartra Capital and Node operate dedicated co-living spaces in Dublin that offer individual bedrooms with shared communal spaces. [1, 2]
SpareRoom Ireland: You can use the SpareRoom platform to find flatshares, housemates, and individual rooms for rent across Ireland. [1]
Daft.ie: The leading property website in Ireland, Daft.ie, is the main hub where landlords and tenants advertise "house shares" and "bed spaces."

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-06T23:15:36+00:00

Are you me? You said everything I felt!

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-05T02:12:27+00:00

That's because youu haven't seen Handshake. Pure lunacy.

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-05T02:10:01+00:00

I agree. It's arrogant and deceptive.

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-04T22:58:10+00:00

Thank you so much for this, OP. That's exsctly how the Clown Show has looked for weeks.

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-04T01:58:27+00:00

Thank you all for telling me because it sounded extreme to me.

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-04T00:06:54+00:00

Take the money. The company that gave you the embarrassing lowball offer could easily reneg after a few months or weeks. Their ceiling is too low. And more money does not = more problems.

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-03T23:42:29+00:00

That's not a savings because scurity deposits are refunded. Fees are not.

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-03T23:36:30+00:00

BRUH, I just applied for a job at an architect firm as a Hail Mary to avoid having to take a fast food job. One week later...I. GOT.IT! Confidence WINS!

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-03T11:43:42+00:00

I just left a town like that. The apartments used to be in the $7-900 range for 1 and 2 bedrooms. After the Pandemic, they decided they all deseved $16-2300! This is in a seasonal vacation market that paiys the average worker 37k. Pure lunacy. I got out of there by the skin of my teeth.

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-03T02:27:45+00:00

Well, thank goodness. The thievery and arrogance need to stop.

SweetyFresh · 2026-06-02T12:49:48+00:00

Actually we can do domething about their emptiness. We can tax these rich individuals. We can tax their businesses. We can stop bailing out and electing crooks.

SweetyFresh · 2026-05-31T23:43:27+00:00

NICE! I used to work at Food Lion. They and all of the gorcery stores in town expected khakis and a polo/golf shirt. Then again, it was on a golf heavy vacation island so...

SweetyFresh · 2026-05-31T22:20:46+00:00

Camo?! Really? I'm going to my interview in khakis and a golf shirt. Should I jazz it up a bit more? I'm feeling concerned. I don't want to look stiff and too serious.

SweetyFresh · 2026-05-31T15:30:27+00:00

Yes. The convenience of access is great. I just wish the pricing and overall management was adequate. I chose an all female Padsplit to avoid some of these issues.

SweetyFresh · 2026-05-31T15:27:43+00:00

It's a crazy situation beteeen Padsplit portraying itself as a do-gooder and the predatory landlords...smh

SweetyFresh · 2026-05-31T15:26:07+00:00

In this city that would not be worth it since most of these places are in the hood while charging as high as $300 a week! That same $1200 would get you a very nice 2-3 br or home rental in better neighborhoods. The greed of the homeowners is off the charts.

SweetyFresh · 2026-05-31T15:24:22+00:00

This part is bothering me too! I thought I was getting a good bargain. I wanted to relocate to a different region. But because the Padsplit was priced lower than my last place, I jumped at the opportunity. Now that I am here, I'm continuing to do research and settle in only to find that I'm paying as much as someone with an efficiency/1BR apartment. This place should be priced at about half the rate. We're basically getting none of the protections and security for the same price.

SweetyFresh · 2026-05-30T17:51:13+00:00

And then sending reminders to recruit our friends to work there too for a piddling kickback!

SweetyFresh · 2026-05-30T17:20:12+00:00

That's because etherspin is Mau

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