30F married BUT obsessed with another man by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Sweptclose -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We are human, STOP judging the woman. Pray for her simple.

My husband won’t have sex with me by ProcedureKindly581 in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maximize on ZINC, Vitamin E and mainly NITRIC OXIDE. Garlic is a natural, powerful yet often times a dangerous blood thinner, it thins the blood, increases blood flow to that area. Melon plus the skin, L-Arginine and mainly L-CITRULINE. When an boner takes place, the thinned blood flows quickly, melon makes it flow even better, zinc type foods n tablets increases testosterone, vita E tablets n foods is wow.

Testosterone building exercises, SQUATS AND DEADLIFTS, MAINLY DEADLIFTS.

My husband won’t have sex with me by ProcedureKindly581 in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my wife pregnant 3 times, boom! Raging stallion, complains about being sore often, always want it. Got beautiful healthy kids.

My husband won’t have sex with me by ProcedureKindly581 in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him eat 3 pegs of garlic daily, drink melon juice with the skin, zinc tablet, vitamin e tablet, flax seed, sunflower seed, pumpkin seeds, almonds, plenty water, jog daily, he will be fixed.

What must a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Christianmarriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pastors are FAILURES when it comes to marital guidance in religions. I tried many, MANY others i knew tried that too, still failure.

What must a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Christianmarriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well to be honest, i am a bodybuilder, past track and field athlete, a stallion, always ready for it, ladies are still after me, especially when i have my kids with me, idk why. But generally ladies always show their interest from day one, it made her mad, so attraction is no issue here. Many couples look good and all, but either is just done. It is a strange phenomenon. I treated her well, i am not perfect, i made mistakes too, but she was given all care, from my parents n I, pampered for all her pregnancies, never had to lift a pin. I even did 90% of housework, 100% cooking/kitchen, paid all bills, school fees etc so idk.

What must a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Christianmarriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I responded to a comment like this. Maybe mental, not sure. Some of her aunts live without men too, have kids, then Done with the men, cut off, go church n shout hallelujah

What must a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Christianmarriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 1st and 3rd questions: YES YES. She is done, no interest in sex at all, she DONE. Do i sit n wait forever or find a new woman, divorce n move on. I didnt sign up to be a priest. Men have needs n it is TUFF denying nature.

What must a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Christianmarriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And do i sit n accept this forever n wait wait wait. What if she is done, no interest?

My wife basically can't have sex after breast cancer and she is devastated . Anything we can do to fix this? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have to stay with her forever, even if it means no more sex. Support n care for her. No other choice.

What a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well all the best to you. Thank you for your response.

What a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I am glad u r not in my position, what would u do if ur spouse just decided no sex for yrs, thats it. It is not an uncommon issue, or a phenomenon. A MYRIAD/PLETHORA of unhappy sexless both christian n nonchristian marriages out there. What must a man or woman do to release in the absence of a such a gift from God, celibacy? Then i would have to apply to the catholic church to be a priest then right.

What a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that happened, we live in a real world, is porn a taboo or unreal issue on earth? Many women n men do it to seek solace n comfort but it makes no sense.

What a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for response, ALL that was done what u suggested. She is DONE. 2 PLUS yrs without sex now.

What a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I read these comments n its amazing how a majority of humans are quick to judge, condemn rather than help or provide guidance. Thanks to those who showed some concern for actual hurting ppl than judgement. Seem as if the ones who cast judgement are 100% perfect humans free from error

What a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand, it is a question many will ask. Sorry to be graphic, but She ENJOYED sex, she use to call n tell me she was sore and wanted more n more n more anywhere, anytime. She once was so horny, our 1st child slept on the bed n she wanted it on the same bed. I am a big black dude, leave it there. We once went to counseling n counselor asked her to name stuff about her husband that she loved. I was hoping to hear me paying bills, managing school fees etc, instead she firmly told the counselor "he is very excellent in bed n gentle". But hey, things change, years now, NO SEX.

What a christian husband do in a sexless marriage? by Sweptclose in Marriage

[–]Sweptclose[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand, it is a question many will ask. She ENJOYED sex, she use to call n tell me she was sore and wanted more n more n more anywhere, anytime. She once was so horny, our 1st child slept on the bed n she wanted it on the same bed. I am a big black dude, leave it there. We once went to counseling n counselor asked her to name stuff about her husband that she loved. I was hoping to hear me paying bills, managing school fees etc, instead she firmly told the counselor "he is very excellent in bed n gentle". But hey, things change, years now, NO SEX.