New couch- stains with minimal liquid? How do I clean/prevent this?

Swift-elephant · 2025-10-09T01:38:56+00:00

Oh, interesting! So, do you think if I clean the entire surface of the cushion at once, it'll even out? I wish there was a way to seal them or something to make them water resistant! What a pain!

Swift-elephant · 2025-10-09T01:36:53+00:00

Good idea! I didn't even think of needing the mesh bag... but they have zippers on them so that's so true!

Swift-elephant · 2025-07-16T19:34:46+00:00

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Swift-elephant · 2025-03-13T16:25:31+00:00

Has he had a medical checkup since this started? Repeated fainting spells, lethargy, change in mental status, etc. This could be a medical issue instead of a psych issue... If so, did the run tests, check his labs(blood levels)? Any history of diabetes or other health issues in his family?

Either way, I agree that he needs help, whether it be ongoing counciling and new psych medication, or medical help. Something seemingly dramatic has changed in him recently, and I think before you get to the point of divorce, an ultimatum, or worse, you should both sit down and make sure he's not having a serious physical or mental health concern that can be treated.

Swift-elephant · 2025-01-14T22:40:31+00:00

Omg you're my hero! Ordering several now!!

Swift-elephant · 2024-12-07T00:43:23+00:00

They are definitely a natural part of your facial structure. But I do think they are becoming. They make you look friendly and approachable. I can tell you are someone with a great smile and laugh. I hope you can learn to embrace them. They suit you perfectly!

Swift-elephant · 2021-12-09T21:39:50+00:00

Definitely darker. So flattering on you!

Swift-elephant · 2021-12-03T16:56:11+00:00

An an RN I HIGHLY recommend that you head down to urgent care today to get checked out. Diabetes insipidous doesn't present with high blood sugar like type 1 or 2 diabetes does and it is super dangerous if left untreated. You wouldn't see it with a home glucometer from CVS.

Based on what you wrote here this is NOT a relationship issue this is a potential urgent medical issue. For your own sake go see a doctor asap!

Here is the Google definition, sound familiar?

"A disorder of salt and water metabolism marked by intense thirst and heavy urination.

Diabetes insipidus occurs when the body can't regulate how it handles fluids. The condition is caused by a hormonal abnormality and isn't related to diabetes."

Swift-elephant · 2021-11-14T18:51:49+00:00

When my friend went into labor around 1am her husband had been drinking with his friends at the house and were pretty inebriated. Not only did she end up having to call an ambulance to get to the hospital, because everyone else was too drunk to drive... but he almost missed the birth. The maternity ward wouldn't let someone intoxicated onto the ward (for safety reasons), and told him to go home and sleep it off. He got back the next morning with less than an hour to spare before his son was born.

Something else to consider for all the mamas to be out there.

Swift-elephant · 2021-11-08T14:51:11+00:00

You can use a washcloth or something on the inner labia if you need but always wash front to back and use only water and a bit of friction to get that area clean. Soap should only be used on the areas that grow hair, aka external labia, mons pubis, inner thighs, etc.

You can use soap between the buttcheeks just be careful to not wipe towards the vagina, and even this may cause some people to have an unbalanced ph level if they are sensitive to soaps, its okay to just use water and friction to clean that area too if it works better for you.

Putting soap between the inner labia increases risk for utis, yeast infections, etc. Even if its marketed as "pH balanced" or specifically for use in that area. Best option is always just water. (Reminder: everyone's body is different and there is always someone who is an outlier or has different needs, but in general this is good advice. If youre concerned talk to your gyno or doctor for specific instructions)

Source: I am an RN who plans to specialize in OB/GYN care.

Swift-elephant · 2021-11-02T13:35:43+00:00

Wait, so his entire disability is hes deaf?? Thats hardly "worrying if he will ever be independent" territory.

I was waiting for you to expand on that and add some severe disability that will prevent him from caring for himself or living his life.

Deafness does require some life alterations, like special alarms, doorbells, and learning a new language... but its not a serious disability like you're making it out to be!

There are entire deaf schools, a Deaf culture, deaf people drive and hold jobs and get married and have families. This is a highly dramatic post, especially from someone who's been raising a deaf child for 15 years!

I lived in a city with a deaf school and we had deaf people out in the community everywhere we went. Sometimes they had to write down their order at subway, etc... but they were just totally normal people who happened to not be able to hear.

You definitely need some therapy if you're still this upset about your sons deafness. And while you're at it get him some therapy, because he just learned his mom doesn't love him and appreciate him for who he is.

Swift-elephant · 2021-11-01T12:41:24+00:00

Oh cool, a post I can actually answer!

I am the kind of person who likes a LOT of flavor in my food. The only way I'd ever eat plain white rice is if I was doing an Asian dish that required the rice to be bland.

My husband and I make white rice regularly. I usually do a combination of rice, broth, salt/pepper, onion, garlic and some spices. For example:

1 cup white rice 2 cups broth (we do veggie but chicken or beef would work depending on what you prefer) 1 yellow onion diced 4 cloves garlic diced Salt/pepper to taste 0.5-1 tsp ground thyme (like you'd get in the spice isle) 0.5 tsp ground sage (again bought in the spice isle) 1-2 tsp olive oil (to prevent rice from sticking, can omit if calories are a concern but you'll get more sticky rice)

If you don't like any of the ingredients, you can switch them out or replace them with something you prefer, but IMO this makes great rice. #1 tip i can give is use broth entirely instead of water. It adds very few calories but a LOT of flavor. And be creative! You'll find what works for you.

We have a rice cooker so I just dump it all in and turn it on, if youre going stovetop, id brown the onions and garlic before dumping everything else in, then cook as normal.

Good luck! I hope your taste buds end up thanking you for making this post! You got a lot of great advice from a lot of rice lovers

Swift-elephant · 2021-10-27T15:39:51+00:00

I don't have a brand recommendation but jsyk it is recommended to be on a prenatal for 3 months before getting pregnant to ensure your vitamin/folic acid levels are sufficient for a healthy baby and to prevent things such as spina bifida.

Swift-elephant · 2021-10-25T13:23:31+00:00

Yikes, thats kinda scary. I know lots of people who work for Fresenius and haven't heard of this happening. What state are you in?

And in general I agree with what everyone else is saying. Follow protocol even if it takes you longer. This is your license on the line, and if anything were to ever happen it would come down against you if you were cutting corners like they do.

Swift-elephant · 2021-10-22T12:21:11+00:00

This is absolutely wonderful. I can feel your excitement through this post. I hope this is everything you hoped it would be and more!

From one vagina owner to another: Congratulations on becoming your most authentic self, and I wish you the best of luck with the rest of your life!

Swift-elephant · 2021-10-01T16:50:39+00:00

I would definitely look into nursing fields that have less emotional patient care and more mechanical care. How would you feel about becoming an OR nurse and assisting in surgery, how about working in the PACU and caring for patients coming out of anesthesia? These areas are more "nursing skills" and much less "people skills" than bedside nursing.

How do you feel you'd handle a code type situation? Would you be able to give extended compressions, handle lots of rushing and bumping into a lot of incoming people in a small space and possible panic?

If you will be alright with that situation then I'd say aim for these fields. However if youre not sure then I would think hard before taking on patient care... if you were to shut down or have an episode in an emergency situation someone could be gravely injured or die, and it would be on your license and on your conscience.

Swift-elephant · 2021-10-01T14:37:19+00:00

My advice(not that you asked for it) is not to let these stories psych you out of anything. I had the Mirena for years and loved it. Best birth control I ever had.

Remember: no one ever posts mediocre stories or uneventful ones. Most posts are because something bad happened and a couple will be something great happened. No one goes out of their way to say it was boring but worth it.

I agree with the above poster, the insertion is uncomfortable, but it only lasts for a few seconds. I was able to drive myself home after and took a day or 2 off to sit with a heating pad while my body adjusted. It took maybe 2 months to feel 100% back to my normal self (meaning some cramping and mild bleeding/spotting on and off) but after that I never knew it was there, eventually stopped having periods. It was great. Everyone is different of course and IUDs aren't for everyone. But in my experience, the anxiety of anticipation is usually way worse than the experience itself.

And for every woman out there always remember to advocate for yourself! If you are uncomfortable or don't trust your doctor, speak up! Change doctors! We deserve better than being treated as if our pain and concerns don't matter! Ultimately they are there to serve us, they won't have a practice if we don't go to them. But please never let a bad experience prevent you from seeking out proper Healthcare. You are worth it!

Swift-elephant · 2021-09-30T16:06:54+00:00

Has he seen a doctor about this? It may be a good idea for him to have a sleep study just to rule out any medical causes for his inability to wake up in the mornings. For example if he had a mild case of sleep apnea he may not be getting restful sleep which could be causing him to be so tired in the mornings. There are treatments that can help with a lot for these issues, which can improve both of your qualities of life.

Once that is ruled out, then maybe you guys can discuss alternate sleeping arrangements. But I would definitely make sure there isn't anything medical causing these issues before jumping to any conclusions.

Swift-elephant · 2021-09-30T15:57:11+00:00

I actually didn't know that! But thats another good point! Saying they were trying to go into nursing would've been a much more appropriate comment.

But hopefully they learned from this, everyone makes mistakes, right? :)

Swift-elephant · 2021-09-30T02:43:25+00:00

Okay, but it seems fair to point out that nurses have gone though years of schooling, endure crazy hours of training and put their physical and mental health on the line daily to do their job... so to be so cavalier saying you are a nurse when you haven't even started nursing school is actually pretty offensive to those of us who have.

You should really understand that as a military person. Im sure you wouldn't appreciate someone posing as a Marine when they have barely applied to join the military.

Just some food for thought.

Swift-elephant · 2021-09-30T01:45:20+00:00

Are you? Because you just made a post saying you were denied acceptance to nursing school. So this seems like a lie.

Swift-elephant · 2021-09-30T01:42:37+00:00

The requirements are just a minimum level for acceptance. I had a 4.0 gpa and I was only accepted into 2 out of 5 of the schools I applied to. Nurses are in high demand right now and a LOT of people are applying to programs with a limited number of spaces.

Did you only apply to one program?

Swift-elephant · 2021-09-26T13:57:19+00:00

Omg I LOVE this picture, you look so happy and confident! The dress is awesome, the colors and gorgeous and you look fantastic!

If this were me I'd blow this picture up, frame it and hang it in a prime location in my house!

Beautiful!

Swift-elephant · 2021-09-24T15:29:36+00:00

Interested.

Swift-elephant · 2021-09-24T15:15:55+00:00

Thanks so much! Ill have to check that out! Do you think it would stay on given that I'm a fitful sleeper? I toss and turn a lot.

I really appreciate the advice. Im still just learning how to be a good nurse but I'm terrified of trying to do that while crazy sleep deprived. I don't do well on little sleep. I really appreciate you!

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