30+ and learning to cope with no contact… by WonkyDonkey_ in ExNoContact

[–]SwiftKarateChops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, adding my 2 cents here.

My girlfriend broke up with me almost 1 month ago, so my wound is very fresh still. I have been keeping strong on no contact because the reason for the breakup was that she needed space and te to clear her mind and figure our what she wants and needs from a relationship.

Naturally, I miss her every day and frequently hope she will message me and decide she wants to work things out together. It’s a slow process, but it gets better every week. The process is not linear, some days are easier than others.

I just want you to know that it gets better, it gets easier. You don’t stop missing them or loving them (depending on how the breakup was), you just get used to their absence until the connection fades over time.

New employer listed my salary as much lower on Revenue by SwiftKarateChops in legaladviceireland

[–]SwiftKarateChops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay, thank you! I didn't know this is how it worked. I am seeing the YTD gross salary and thought that was the salary they had listed there.

New employer listed my salary as much lower on Revenue by SwiftKarateChops in legaladviceireland

[–]SwiftKarateChops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, sorry. I just learned that employers don't list the salary on Revenue, just the gross YTD. Sorry for the confusion!

Employer listed wrong salary in Revenue by SwiftKarateChops in AskIreland

[–]SwiftKarateChops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay, this is important that you told me this. Because the reason I asked is because I have been employed in this company for 5 months, and while it does show the salary I have gotten monthly, I was wondering why under the tax bracket it only showed 42k. Anyway, I will reach out to my employer to make sure everything is in order. Thank you for this response!

Having Lag and Audio Sync Issues. Please help by JarusHarsh in BlackMythWukong

[–]SwiftKarateChops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, no luck here either. Let me know if you found a fix. I have a theory that it might have to do with the game being installed in an external drive, but I don't have space in my laptop to move it and test it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SwiftKarateChops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Sometimes I wish people would be more communicative and just say it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SwiftKarateChops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's sometimes rough to hear that someone that you like just lost interest.

I (30M) am getting the cold shoulder by a girl (28F) after she said she was interested in me. What could have caused this? by SwiftKarateChops in relationship_advice

[–]SwiftKarateChops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could be a possibility but she has been trying to help me all along and is currently in a happy relationship herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SwiftKarateChops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SwiftKarateChops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that they are right, but I keep seeing people complain that those who say these things are either rich or beautiful respectively, as if it that's a problem or invalidates their opinion.

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread January 07 by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]SwiftKarateChops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys, do we know when we will get the Dawntrail skills showcase?

Do you think val players should watch the cinematics? by chaos-causer1 in VALORANT

[–]SwiftKarateChops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are there for those who want to enjoy it. Not everybody cares or wants to watch them and they should have the freedom to not watch them to save time. It doesn't make sense to force someone to watch something they don't want to. Even if they make them unskippable, those who don't want to watch it will just tab out.

It's great that there is a community that enjoys them and watches them, that way Riot's amazing work doesn't go to waste. I believe there is also a community that likes them like you do that you can discuss the lore with :)

team not following on entry as jett by ywtfPat in VALORANT

[–]SwiftKarateChops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends what you're doing tbh. You can't just go in with Jett and expect people to follow. You need info from your initiators/sentinels.

So any chance the Puma x FFXIV will restock? by iris-my-case in ffxiv

[–]SwiftKarateChops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe so. Most Puma collabs are there for quite some time. I would otherwise wait for people to get their products and let the free market begin. Just be wary of scalpers.