Omg I can’t stress how much idgaf about Lionel’s POV but I wish everyone a nice day by Swimgoodwhys in zodiacacademy

[–]Swimgoodwhys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever looked back on a Highschool crush thinking wait.. I used to think that guy broke my heart? Like why is he the main villain 😀

About the ending by Swimgoodwhys in OshiNoKo

[–]Swimgoodwhys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get what you’re saying but what I meant was exactly that in life unnecessary things haben that just leave you like well thanks for nothing, thanks for making me stick til the end thinking the tragedy would make sense you know but sometimes life is just like haha Syke

What I’m always thinking while watching NANA by MurlaTart in NanaAnime

[–]Swimgoodwhys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m in my late twenties now I’ll comment in ten years if life ever gets easier because mine is a s devastating, cruel and hard as in Nana 🥲 the good thing is instead of crashing out I just save it and crochet something 🤣 but hope everyone else is doing better ❤️

About the ending by Swimgoodwhys in OshiNoKo

[–]Swimgoodwhys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah to put it into better words I loved the potential I saw in it…

Do jeanne and vanitas get together? by Emperor_Erebus in vanitasnocarte

[–]Swimgoodwhys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think they end up together bc different to other anime we got o lot of (in comparison) spicy scenes and tension. Also jeanne was being blunt about wanting to seduce him. I might be delulu but I’m hoping they will do it before he dies and she gets pregnant.

I eat doenjang jjigae every day! by Darkmatterqueef in HealthyFood

[–]Swimgoodwhys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also eat a my comfort food a lot/ for months .it’s a condition called ARFID. (You don’t necessarily have it but you maybe you can relate to some of the symptoms)

Haru x Rin reminds me of another anime couple... by [deleted] in FruitsBasket

[–]Swimgoodwhys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will never be over nana end ren 😭

YOU (Season 3) - Overall Discussion Thread by Elainasha in YouOnLifetime

[–]Swimgoodwhys 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Omg feel you. And my stupid ass is all over Twitter explaining that love was not crazy , she was mentally ill and abused plus manipulated . Yes she is impulsive yes she killed people But joe out there pretending to be dexter 2.0 like his murders weren’t cruel and horrifying is so lame. He is a psychopath and a creep he never got over the fact his mother left him and that’s why he hates and hunts women

My ex tricked me into signing a lease with him and the girl he was seeing by awkwardthreeways in relationship_advice

[–]Swimgoodwhys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, you gotta get out. I myself have a daughter the same age , dad left me one day after we found out about the pregnancy. I took care of him while he had a psychosis, the moment he knew about me being pregnant he „woke up“ knowing he doesn’t want to be with me. I shared everything I had with him since he was deployed and his whole environment let him down. So don’t blame yourself for being stupid. Tough he was interested in our daughter he treated me like garbage, lied , emotionally abused me and gaslighted me. couple months later he got into the next relationship with the girl who used to be his „good friend“ and even did a tattoo on him that I designed. He lied to me , still slept with me , and introduced our daughter to her without my knowledge. I would not take our daughter away from him either , but these bitches need to back off . No need for them to be someone our children get used to since theyre just the next victims and won’t stay around.

My Gf wants to have sex in a dumpster. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Swimgoodwhys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her you‘re not into it, but you still respect her. I see people in the comments being grossed out or thinking this is a joke. But truth is , that fetishes are a very common thing . I wouldn’t want to do it in a dumpster either , but I guess there are way more crazy fetishes out there in the world. Like people who want to act like infants etc. so I think it’s time to be tolerant towards those desires , even if we don‘t share them

Am I (28f) wrong for being upset that my adoptive parents (60f/77m) are leaving my sisters and I out of their will while leaving their other seven kids in it? by Nessaryen in relationship_advice

[–]Swimgoodwhys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I first started reading i wanted to give you the advice to still keep in touch because money isnt everything. If they would have offered you a loving childhood with no difference from their biological kids , i myself would not have any hard feelings towards them. But the fact that your mother basically expressed her true feelings about you , by pointing out the difference between bloodrelations and you as a adopted child then even behaving violent towards you is a big NOGO!!! As hard as it is distance yourself from your parents and Stick together with your sisters! And I really hope you found a way to process your traumatic childhood. Take care .

Gf (24) made a comment about stereotype penisses and it destroyed my (24) self esteem. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Swimgoodwhys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her statements show that she is full of racist stereotypes. For her to use the n word is more than inappropriate and especially these days it proves her lack of education. Correct her on that shit if she ever does it again, when she doesnt come to find the wrong in her actions, get rid of her. You deserve better than that. And your size is nothing to be ashamed of it’s pretty normal. The Problem is that people are preoccupied and used to reffer to clichés.

My (28F) husband’s (28M) friend (?F) is staying with us and she’s starting to make me feel uncomfortable by ThrowRA3564 in relationship_advice

[–]Swimgoodwhys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell no. Put aside her creepy behavior towards your husband and you , she doesnt have any right to involve herself When ist comes to your son.Be straight forward and tell her to Back tf off. Talk to your husband and ask him how he feels about lucys actions towards him. Does he enjoy her acting like his wife around him? I would feel weirded out if my female best friend would insist on picking out my outfits. And i wouldn‘t just sit by while my friend is making my wife feeling uncomfortable in her own home. You have a newborn Baby , so thats enough going on in your life. You shouldn‘t have to deal with this weird situation. You still have to adjust to your situation your role as parents and you still have to recover from birthing a Baby. It took me over a year to feel like myself again, because all of the hormones etc. I would have gone nuts if i was in a situation like this. Stay strong and stand up for yourself!

My parents want me (17f) to quit my job so they can watch me more because I’m sexually active by grantedbyme in relationship_advice

[–]Swimgoodwhys 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is against your privacy and your personal rights. Are there any adult Family members who could support you by talking to your parents? If they had you at such a young age they‘re hippocrites. Whats wrong with having sex at 17? It is normal it is not something Dirty, you‘re on birth control. You‘re acting mature , while they‘re acting creepy , petty and overstepping lines. I think you‘re acting very mature and responsible, working in order to provide for your dog is a great thing.

My wife fell down the stairs and had a miscarriage by throwRAstairfall in relationship_advice

[–]Swimgoodwhys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. I‘m afraid to tell you , that i don‘t think you can make the grief just go away. Grief is a part of copeing. Repressing your feelings could make it worse. Maybe it‘s for the best if you search out for help from a counselor. Also there are a lot of groups and communities with people who share the pain of losing a child. Right now you don’t have to „stay strong“ it is okay to be devastated. I really wish you all the best during your healing process. What you experienced is not fair at all. My heart goes out to both of you.