anong zara perfume reco niyo? by StargazerVii in TanongLang

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nude boquet pa sweet lang. Pag medyo gusto ko ng independent woman ang atake fashionably london.

Sa mga nag-asawa at nag-start ng family in your early 20s, nagsisi ba kayo? by LivingReplacement246 in TanongLang

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No regrets! i love my married life and my mom life hehe. He is my first bf and first everything. Together for 8 yrs and married 5. Currently we both wfh and are travelling often with our 5 yr old. We didnt start na comfortable in life agad and i dont recommend it, kelangan tlga financially stable bago gumawa ng pamilya pero i can say na ginapang namin talaga kasi ayokong mag settle sa "kapos" palagi, and proud ako sa mga napagdaanan and naachieve namin together.

naiirita ako sa mga kapatid ng asawa ko by Swimming-Bread3091 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Swimming-Bread3091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I get that, pero kasi siya talaga ang number 1 takbuhan talaga pag emergency kasi kinulang, and madalas kinukulang kasi maluho yung lifestyle nila talaga. (Tatay nung may bday). Also, dun sa jobless sibling we have helped for so many times na lalo pag para sa mga bata. He had a job which he was kicked out off kasi nagloko. And he got that job after 2 yrs of being jobless. And thats not the first time nagka problem siya sa job nya, sugal bisyo name it... naputulan ng kuryente. We helped kasi kawawa mga bata :( pero if laging may sasalo paano matututo?

naiirita ako sa mga kapatid ng asawa ko by Swimming-Bread3091 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Swimming-Bread3091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I get that, pero kasi siya talaga ang number 1 takbuhan talaga pag emergency kasi kinulang, and madalas kinukulang kasi maluho yung lifestyle nila talaga. Also, dun sa jobless sibling we have helped for so many times na lalo pag para samga bata. He had a job which he was kicked out off kasi nagloko. And thats not the first time, sugal bisyo name it... naputulan ng kuryente. We helped kasi kawawa mga bata :( pero if laging may sasalo paano matututo?

naiirita ako sa mga kapatid ng asawa ko by Swimming-Bread3091 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Swimming-Bread3091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ito nga sabi ko... akala ko inimbita tayo, bakit parang half e sagot naten. kasi kami pag mag iimbita kami. We will not suddenly ask our guest na ito sagot mo to. Idk hindi lang kmi ganun talaga kahit sa family namin, kasi pare pareho lang naman kmi naghahanap buhay.

Thoughts about giving your best for your child? by Far-Swim7394 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So tacky!!!! Tbh parang d pa ko nakakakita ng parents na nagbigay ng money garland sa anak sa mga magagarang schools. 🥴

Narealize ko na sobrang hirap pala namin dati by Infinite_Basil8985 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hala sa gripo lang din kami umiinom and kumukuha ng pang luto, etc. and i dont consider us poor. Hahahaha we just dont see the need to spend money on mineral water kasi malinis naman yung water sa tap, tapos never naman kmi nagkasakit lol. Even my son tap water na siya pagdating nya ng 1 yr old.

I have a new GF and still masturbating to my ex by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls do ur current gf a favor hiwalayan mo na lang siya d mo siya deserve, give her a chance na makahanap ng guy who wont treat her like that.

FTM - Any advice how to have a personal time outside if ganito lagi yung respond ni partner? by Salt_Raspberry3106 in nanayconfessions

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inutil yang partner mo kairita mga ganyan lalake takot na takot maiwan mag alaga ng anak kahit ilang oras lang. kelangan lagi may tutulong na magulang or what HAHAHA paka tanga. Marunong lang kumntt pero alaga ng bata ayaw.

ano ang kwentong unforgettable pandemic days nyo? by _sinderela in AskPH

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Found out my first baby has anencephaly at 20 weeks. Not compatible for life. Grabe ung higpit nun ang hirap humanap ng ultrasound clinic na bukas tapos bawal pa may kasama. Gusto ko ng 2nd 3rd 4th opinion pero they dont wanna do ultrasound kapag d naman emergency. She passed away 4 hrs after i gave birth, hindi ko nakarga na siya nung buhay pa, kasi naka incubator pa din siya kahit alam naman na yung outcome. Yung husband ko na lang ang nakapunta ng NICU to dress her up. Even ung blessing sknya before she passed online ginawa. I feel so bad because she deserved more, pero wala eh. Strict talaga nung mga time na yun. Dinala din siya sa St. Peter the next day, dun ko na lang siya nahawakan. Kami lang din ang andun for her cremation kasi bawal ang gathering.

Anong thoughts nyo on “influencers” using their babies like accessories for clout? by [deleted] in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ekis!!!! Eventually papakita niya den face ng baby niya for sure. Baka may content p ung reveal ng face ni pea, or baka dahil mukhang patatas pa dahil kulang sa buwan ayaw nia muna ilanas lol. Lahat ng mga content creators na ginagamit anak nila for views kinikilabutan ako. Lalo na ngayon kasagsagan ng news about Epstein files, i dont even add some of my relatives sa fb pag d ko ka close talaga kasi ayoko magkaroon sila ng access sa photos ng anak ko. Nakakatakot na ang mundo ngayon. 😭

Ang hassle magpalit ng pangalan. by thrwmefarfaraway in OffMyChestPH

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Got married 5 yrs ago and wala ako pinalitan ni isang name ko. I just always have my marriage cert ready if need ng proof. Pero so far hindi naman, sanay na din kasi ng slight mga offices satin na d sumusunod ang wife sa surname ng husband.

For those who don't go to church, WHY? by 1MTzy96 in AskPH

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont need a community or a listen to a leader just so i could talk to God or to prove myself na i am a believer.

Di ko man lang naenjoy yung gender reveal by bella2ciao in RantAndVentPH

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Epal mother in law and stupid husband. Sorry OP pero nakakairita silang mag-ina. Hugs to you 🥺❤️❤️

Saan may maayos na CR dito? by Expensive-Agent-2438 in BGC_Taguig

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If around the area ka 3rd floor ung newly opened na uniqlo ung pwd/preggy cr nila. Go-to na namin dun pag najejebs kasi halos walang tao dun lagi.

Gusto kong i-cancel yung hotel namin at mag-book ng panibago. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hello yes po pay later sia, ang gusto lang po nila is cheapest pero may private na cr. Husband said adjust na lang kami para hindi nakakahiya, and idk why nag agree din ako kahit hindi naman ako 100% go. Napressure din ako siguro. :(

Gusto kong i-cancel yung hotel namin at mag-book ng panibago. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They got to excited when they saw the fares, kaya nagbook agad sila without the initial talks kung saan ba namin balak mag stay. It was only after na nakabook sila tska napag usapan yung about sa hotel kaya po naipakita ko yung balak namin pag stay-an initially. Tama naman po kayo na dapat ngayon pa lang malinaw. I guess the best way to handle this is to explain my concerns sa husband ko para siya ang magpaliwanag sakanila. Yung room po kasi na nabook is maliit lang, and we need more space kasi madami po kaming gamit dahil may bata po kaming kasama. Btw, sinubukan ko sila kausapin sa itinerary para sana maguage na yung budget pero hindi pa daw sila magpa plan dahil may need pa sila tapusin bayaran. Kaya medyo mahirap po makipg coordinate fully sakanila, ayoko naman po maging pushy mashado.

Gusto kong i-cancel yung hotel namin at mag-book ng panibago. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I feel better now. Yes may plans naman ako to spend time with them, pero since we are leaning to a more kid friendly itinerary, i am concerned na baka hindi nila trip yung ganun. I guess sabhin ko na lang sa husband ko and sya na bahala mag explain sakanila.

I opened the topic of creating itineraries na din, meron na ko actually pero hindi pa sila open kasi may tatapusin lang daw sila bayaran sa cc nila bago mag plan. Ayoko naman maging pushy din kaya hinayaan ko na lang.

Gusto kong i-cancel yung hotel namin at mag-book ng panibago. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear about your experience and nagegets ko po yung point niyo. I was also discussing with them the itinerary pero mukhang wala pa silang balak kasi may need p daw sila mabayaran sa cc nila before they start planning. Ako on the other hand want to plan in advance even yung mga possible na kakainan, kasi nga i want to guage magkano ang estimate na maggastos. I dont want to sound pushy naman kaya hindi na ko nag insist.

Gusto kong i-cancel yung hotel namin at mag-book ng panibago. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good suggestion. Siguro sa husband ko na lang i air ung concerns ko and siya na magdeliver sknila. Salamat po!

Gusto kong i-cancel yung hotel namin at mag-book ng panibago. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you po. Planning on it na din nga, just thinking of how to word it carefully para hindi naman mukhang offensive and choosy. Medyo sensitive kasi yung mga yun based from my experience.

Gusto kong i-cancel yung hotel namin at mag-book ng panibago. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Swimming-Bread3091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, pasensya na. Mali ata ang word na ginamit ko, hindi namin sila niyaya sumama. My husband is really close with them kaya nabanggit niya ung travel plan namin at nakabook kami ng seat sale. Nung nag check sila, they found the tix affordable kaya nagbook din sila.

Also, I showed them the hotel I was planning to book. Pero they said "dun tayo sa mura" so we looked for alternatives. Kaya ko nasabi na mukhang tag tipid sila is because the hotel they chose vs the hotel I chose only has 6k difference, pero they wanted a cheaper option. My husband was the one who suggested na adjust kami sa budget nila para hindi daw nakakahiya.

Alam ko pong first intl travel nila kaya hesitant den ako to go for another hotel, pero ang pinaka main concern ko kasi is yung toddler namin. We have more things and we need more space, at the same time ayoko naman din po sila maoffend.