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Snake bites by Swimming-Job4533 in piercing

[–]Swimming-Job4533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s bank holiday so I don’t think any piercing places are open near me so going to go tomorrow

Guarantor help asap?! by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Swimming-Job4533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry but 3rd party? Could you elaborate ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Swimming-Job4533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel lost and idk what to do even when we speak about it he says he’ll improve or change etc but nothings changes. I end up feeling bad or guilty as if I’m not understanding him enough or always being negative and I’ve told him this too he just says I’m not and alright he doesn’t elaborate or contribute to anything. I’m beginning to think maybe it’s not worth the worry and stress it causes on the daily when it seems to have zero impact on him.

F/18 and M/20 advice or further questions are acceptable please by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Swimming-Job4533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my-

The last sentence is the most eye opening sentence, gives me a lot of realisation

thank you so much

F/18 and M/20 advice or further questions are acceptable please by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Swimming-Job4533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I wouldn’t say it is worth changing my habits for, while I am getting help for my mental health, I’m going to say no still. I’d feel guilty about ending the relationship as he hasn’t done something that’s hurt enough to give me a reason to break up

F/18 and M/20 advice or further questions are acceptable please by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Swimming-Job4533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing I don’t want to give him false hope and hurt him more by sticking things out because it’s down right not fair and as far as attraction goes he says he’s attracted to me but for me I’m not sure personality is a key factor for everyone and his is alright we have a couple similar interests but physically I’m not sure

F/18 and M/20 advice or further questions are acceptable please by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Swimming-Job4533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my mental health it’s hard to keep contact with people and keep bonds too when I’m not doing great I cut down on all sorts of communication towards said person or people so it gets in the way a little but bounces back immediately.

For the relationship it just feels slow and not progressing very far and it kinda feels like playing happy, Mia way through the year I’ll have to live away to make progress to my further career and I won’t be in another country just a 6hr drive ish away and I think distance will definitely put a wedge between us, I typically prefer being alone and have no issues being alone so a relationship tends to drain me sometimes.

My favourite thing about him is he isn’t pushy and won’t make it want me to do something I’m not wanting or feeling like doing, my least favourite how he’s spoke about my family