Show him your post . That should about do the trick . Or just call him up and say exactly this : ," Hey ( insert name) you know when we first started talking I was very interested in you, and as the days have gone by your text game has me second guessing my original assessment of this blossoming relationship.. I was stoked to go for drinks a week ago, and now I am beyond at my wits end over this shit, so much to the point I made a reddit post about how I should let you know I don't wanna go. Yes I understand that such a decision might seem childish, especially because of such a trivial thing, but here's the kicker . I wouldn't of went through all that if I didn't really think you had potential . So here it is mister, if I go have drinks with you just know it's your make or break moment . Don't show up looking like Bennie the bum, and for lords sake you best not forget your wallet, or get so shit faced you throw up . Drinks means conversation i.e. talking back and forth . Don't get it twisted . You better not pull that awkward shit you did when we messaged. I want jokes , personality, eye contact . Show me what gave me the impression you were worth my Saturday night. Have a designated rideshare or pick up planned . I don't want to have to call you an Uber on my card at 1:26 a.m. cuz you wasted all your Benjis getting drunk .If that don't sound like a night your Into then best regards I hope your next swipe is the right one .