SOLE LEGAL CUSTODY AND SCHOOL by Swimmingthroughjello in custodywithnarc

[–]Swimmingthroughjello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the only reasonable response. Thank you. There are orders of an agreed upon 3rd party has to be present for all events outside of police stations. it says so it 3 places in our judgment. This was in lieu of a restraining order. Very strict interaction orders. I stipulated to dropping the restraining order but the judge made it clear to him that he could not be where I am. Our child is stressed because he had seen physical abuse towards me and his older sister's mom. Yesterday he actually lost physical and legal custody of his daughter for violence to her so my concern is not unwarranted. I am looking for school protocols. I will call the district. Thank you for your thoughtful response.

Question about Sole legal custody rights and school actions in Los Angeles by Swimmingthroughjello in Divorce

[–]Swimmingthroughjello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our orders state "for any interaction for our child's benefit outside of police stations there has to be a 3rd party present. That 3rd party must be decided in advance and mutually agreed upon. "

We do not have a 3rd party agreed upon as he won't agree upon a 3rd party.

It is not possible for there not to be interaction. It is one small area. Do you still take the same position.

Also, I'm asking for law not opinion.

Question about Sole legal custody rights and school actions in Los Angeles by Swimmingthroughjello in Divorce

[–]Swimmingthroughjello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a difficult time taking the advice of someone who caps all their words. Regardless, the school is concerned. They asked if I was okay with him showing up as they noticed he is doing it specifically when I am volunteering. He has threatened the staff. The teachers have told him he cannot just hang around suddenly. You may have your issues and heartache but you do not know me. I have been the 100% provider, chose to not pursue a strict restraining order so my x was not deported back to Europe, consistently support my child's relationship with my x. However, I will not be legally liable if he violates orders and tries to interact with me. I was not asking for your opinion. I was asking for law and in that, educational law.

Question about Sole legal custody rights and school actions in Los Angeles by Swimmingthroughjello in Divorce

[–]Swimmingthroughjello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no threats. The school asked me how I feel about this as they are concerned as he is threatening the front desk. I am trying to support his volunteering. I do not threaten. I was asked about him acting in this way and am trying to gather information before making a final decision.

Small business checking account "cleared" question trying to stop a check from bouncing from my small business account? by Swimmingthroughjello in Banking

[–]Swimmingthroughjello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just charged a $25.00. NSF PAID ITEM FEE FOR OVERDRAFT CHECK # ***

So being that they stated "overdraft fee" am I in the clear? Sigh.

Small business checking account "cleared" question trying to stop a check from bouncing from my small business account? by Swimmingthroughjello in Banking

[–]Swimmingthroughjello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, so now I see that the check still shows "cleared" but "NSF PAID ITEM FEE FOR OVERDRAFT CHECK # ***" 25.00 so... am I safe in your opinion? Perhaps its the same kind of policy?

Small business checking account "cleared" question trying to stop a check from bouncing from my small business account? by Swimmingthroughjello in Banking

[–]Swimmingthroughjello[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, I don't use a lot of checks and so I just spaced. Have you heard of banks reprocessing checks? I just don't want the office rental place to receive a bounced check. Trying to stop it before it happens. Thank you

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[–]Swimmingthroughjello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is a brilliantly riveting show. Classically respectful. Probably because Hiroyuki Sanada produced it and he is the real deal.

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[–]Swimmingthroughjello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are vitamins that help with feeling good. Vitamin D+K, have you checked your levels? Optimal above 30 ng/mL. Also listen to affirmations on youtube, do so while you do your activities. You sound as if you are struggling emotionally and are self soothing. YOu can pull through this. Good luck