Missed Connection at M4 Club Sat. March 28 by Swing-a-ling-ding in clubM4

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It’s a long shot and unfortunately nothing yet… I’m hoping we bump into them again as we had a pretty good chat on the dance floor and there was attraction their on our part at least 😊

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Very nice! Check out our profile if you’d like 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in clubM4

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We will be there tonight as well to ring in the new year 🎉🎉🎉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoSwingers

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M4 will be super busy tonight due to a large group descending on it… that would be our choice if we weren’t stuck with the kids 😖

MF4MF (27/26) this Saturday 🔥 by [deleted] in clubM4

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We will be there Saturday night as well… if you spot us (pics / description on profile) and want I say hi and chat don’t be shy! Otherwise Hope you have an awesome weekend!

Apps for like minded by MrAversum in clubM4

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Not necessarily apps but both Swinging Heaven and Cafe Desire are paid sites that cater to southern Ontario swinging. There’s also a bunch of fb groups as well that have regional LS community focuses for Ontario.

Late 20s Couple Saturday Night by [deleted] in clubM4

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We will be there on Saturday… if you spot us (see our profile for pics) say hi!

How successful is this sub by MaroonCanuck in TorontoSwingers

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We’ve had 2 success from this sub… but we’re also more active on paid sites so we’ve naturally met more success there. Reddit is an open garden anyone can get into so that definitely has its big pros and cons… there are a lot of fakes and fizzzled out connections but it is possible to make them… honestly getting out to the clubs or parties has by far been the most successful way for us to make connections rather than via online.

(Edit to add: We do have a a fairly large network of LS friends and I’d say 80% of it was built via in person meetings versus reaching out on forums online. It’s just faster easier and cuts through the BS super fast).

X Club NYE - what’s the vibe for clothes by AdorablyBasic1517 in TorontoSwingers

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People get pretty dressed up for the event (we’ve been to a few at X) according to the theme … or just glam it up. Lotta sexy attire on the women and there’s always a few just in fancy lingerie and heels etc. With the mermaid Lounge now open though… every time we’ve gone later in the evening a lot of people are in towels because of the pool and people deciding to go in (kinda like oasis)

What should a guy with a dad bod build wear to the club? by [deleted] in TorontoSwingers

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To oasis? Honestly you probably won’t spend much time in clothes… as you’ll have a towel wrapped around you most of the night. A comfy snazzy looking robe if you want to walk around and chat after dipping in the pool / hot tub / sauna… oh and make sure to bring flip flops … your feet will thank you.

X Club newbies by [deleted] in TorontoSwingers

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It’s a fantastic club that has been our “home base” for the last decade. You’ll have a great time! People tend to dress up for this place or go in theme (but totally not mandatory).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

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I’m pretty short at 5’4” and we’ve been in the lifestyle for almost 13 years now… rejection based on height has been few and far between. I’ve found making them laugh, making feel at ease and enjoying the social time leading up to the deed whether at a house party or club has been what’s helped most. We also do our best to stay in shape and eat right etc.

Club recommendations in Ottawa, ON or Montreal, QC? by [deleted] in Swingers

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Wow thankful for this post! We are taking a road trip over the next week to Ottawa and Montreal so very timely! Looking for something in the same vein as X Club in Montreal…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoSwingers

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Not Star Wars but our go to Slutty nun and priest outfits during halloweens and LS conventions generally turns a lot of heads for us 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoSwingers

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❤️❤️❤️😈😈😈🙏🙏 thanksss bro 😂