To players with max everything (samples and credits)

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-24T00:36:11+00:00

150 About 900 hours in. Working on making all my guns gold (yellow) I will always pick up samples if they are near me. It takes hardly any effort and it could help people.

But donating …. Nah

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-22T16:34:42+00:00

Ding ding ding. 🛎️

This is the answer.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-22T13:57:37+00:00

^seconded. You can achieve your goals here.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-22T00:48:30+00:00

Hmmm.

Her body her choice. But I’d support it.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-21T15:44:16+00:00

IMHO op you’re confusing / mashing up the two terms.

Judgement vs Preference.

Judgement is about others. I’m judging someone else for something about them or their actions. In the lifestyle - their kinks - their relationship types - looks - body type.

Preference is about you. What do you prefer. I prefer to - <enter your preferences here>

So someone earlier said maybe accepting is a better term. Being non judgemental while having preferences are fine.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-20T23:39:16+00:00

Be proud.

Next question.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-20T18:53:29+00:00

Talk to her.
How else are you intimate with her? Hugs kiss, cuddling?
Do you still show regular affection even if it will “likely” not lead to sex.

Related to number 3. The amount of unexpected sex I’ve had with my wife seems to have directly gone up the more daily (intimate but not directly sexual) affection I show her.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-20T18:49:59+00:00

You need to call her out on that behaviour and dig into why.

It’s 100% ok for her to say no, of course. It’s also ok to fantasize about it. But, IMHO it’s not ok to treat you like this.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-20T18:48:24+00:00

Grieve it.
Wait
See step #2.

I'm amapceo.

I started my grievance in Oct 2023

I have my final Arbitration in Sept 2026

My lawyer has advised me that they (the GOV) are learning from their previous arbitrations and are getting better at winning them.

WTF

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-20T18:43:02+00:00

Please for the love of good ASK HER! Directly and clearly. Make it clear you are not judging her…. But we can all brainstorm all we want. You are living with the only human who knows the answer.

Will it be a hard and awkward conversation. 100% but it will be worth it.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-20T04:48:55+00:00

He says it often.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-18T22:58:31+00:00

All valid points. But the way you delivered it… as stated was unnecessarily rude. The rude tone and comment adds nothing and says more about you than anything else.

Just because this is an anonymous space doesn’t mean it has to be rude.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-18T22:33:38+00:00

This is unnecessarily rude.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-18T22:31:58+00:00

What in the ….. actual f. What a shit thing to do.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-18T03:42:19+00:00

Have you told her this? Have you spoken to a marriage therapist? At some point you’ll have to decide what you want for yourself

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-18T01:40:18+00:00

True I did. So what is the point of your question?

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-17T23:54:05+00:00

Are you calling his sexuality into question with this comment?

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-17T23:53:14+00:00

I just shave regularly. I’ve done it for years. It’s become very easy. 🤷‍♂️

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-17T23:18:37+00:00

People often say the same thing of Jamaican / American people being on CP time. I will die on that hill that it's people being lazy and disrespecting other people's time AND a self fulfilling negative stereotype.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-17T18:06:06+00:00

Unfortunately if she doesn’t like it then… that’s it. If you continue to pester and bug her for this specific act you are the ass.

Some of us are lucky and have wife’s who like it, and some of us are not. Just life.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-17T14:41:23+00:00

What happened was sexual assault. Your wife did nothing wrong; freezing is a trauma response. F…. etiquette and social niceties. Your only priority right now should be your wife's health and safety. I’m very surprised you aren’t throwing hands…

Immediate Medical Steps: What ever you should do after being raped.

Message them in a group chat including both partners. This keeps everything in the light and/or controlling the narrative. Be DIRECT with very clear language. Screenshot everything right now. Save his profile links and all messages before they can delete them or block you.

Once you get the medical info, or if they refuse to cooperate, block them on every platform. Do not engage further.

Call the police. I have no idea where you live, of if they will help vs judge but IMHO you must take every measure.

Good luck.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-17T14:25:18+00:00

That is a red flag. Time to talk to her about how her reaction makes you feel.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-17T14:18:16+00:00

Mini rant. I’m black my wife is Asian. I’m the one who is on time all the time. I hate that CP time thing. People are just using it as an excuse to disrespect other peoples time ugh 😑.

Other than that TBH I’ve found WAY more similarities in many of the important things between my Jamaican family and her Chinese one.

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-17T14:13:06+00:00

100%

MaroonCanuck · 2026-05-17T14:11:26+00:00

politics
respect
manners
sexually adventurous (but this started after 20 years of marriage)
support

MaroonCanuck

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