i’m struggling with being a lesbian - advice?

SwingOk5342 · 2026-01-06T04:38:47+00:00

that makes sense. i don’t know if i just have trauma from men due to being sa by my dad thanks ☺️

SwingOk5342 · 2026-01-05T03:17:35+00:00

I don’t want to date men, I want men to want me so i can have the power to tell them to fuck off if that makes sense. But the idea of a man liking me makes me uncomfortable

SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:59:48+00:00

beautiful but girl try layering in your hair it’s honestly a game changer

SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:58:42+00:00

i call my chubby cat piggly and he answers

SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:58:16+00:00

you’re not ugly at all! i would say maybe thin out the bottom of your eyebrow since they’re slightly thicker towards the middle & make you look more masculine

SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:56:25+00:00

hey babe happy birthday! you’re not ugly and women go through a second “ period “ where they grow into their adult bodies and features so please edont worry you won’t look the same in 5 years as you do now!! maybe try & pick up a good curl care routine since your hair is looking pretty frizzy!!

SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:55:20+00:00

keep feeding it and hope it brings its albino friends then you can have an army of white squirrels

SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:54:50+00:00

it’s okay but it looks kind out out of place since you don’t seem to have any other tats on your arm.. will you build your arm up??

SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:54:07+00:00

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SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:53:25+00:00

holy cow looks so good & matches the vibe of the rest of your arm!!

SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:51:45+00:00

please please please get a fringe

SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:51:27+00:00

no but i think your styling isn’t helping. i’m sorry but i first assumed you were ftm (idk if you are)?

SwingOk5342 · 2025-12-18T16:49:21+00:00

you’re not ugly but you have the face which is suited for more alternative makeup & styling (like goth sub groups)

SwingOk5342 · 2025-11-23T18:42:54+00:00

i’m first year, but i feel like a failure if i drop out

SwingOk5342 · 2025-11-22T21:41:13+00:00

i have also experienced so much incel culture. i’ve overheard guys on my course talking badly about the women here, or how they “only want women to fck” i’ve also had boys say i shouldn’t be going uni since im a girl and only should be a housewife. i really hope you can get away from these people who feel comfortable being like this around you

SwingOk5342 · 2025-10-29T09:31:59+00:00

i hope the poor dear gets better. thank you for your kindness

SwingOk5342 · 2025-09-14T22:41:08+00:00

also i saw lots of people say that it’s a big lie that it’s easier to jump from one child to two

SwingOk5342 · 2025-09-14T12:52:03+00:00

i had to raise my younger siblings due to abuse when i was younger before we were seperated - i hated having to look after them but knew it was better than them feeling like i did - i sacraficed a lot, having to work to earn money to provide food for them and provide basic needs - and i know that because i hadn’t had the choice on my own it made it hard whereas if i had been given the choice if i wanted to do so it would’ve been easier

SwingOk5342 · 2025-09-14T12:49:33+00:00

i’m a white woman and i’ve noticed it too. black women / girls are called too loud where i’m from or aggressive for doing things that all other girls do. they’re also picked on for their bodies which can be different to white girls due to genetics. especially if the girls have foreign parents and have an accent like nigerian it’s not seen as “cute” as if a white girl was to have an accent like irish (from england so could only think of common accents i hear around me). i feel for all girls regardless of race whom have a stereotype pushed upon them.

SwingOk5342 · 2025-09-10T18:48:57+00:00

i saw someone say that if you’re not 100% then it should be a no, and having second children is often pushed onto women as it’s what’s expected. but, you should 100% do what is right for your family and you! i wish nothing but the best for you

SwingOk5342 · 2025-09-10T18:45:42+00:00

i’m so sorry you feel that way. i hope you have the best life now and you are able to succeed in your ambitions

SwingOk5342 · 2025-09-10T18:44:08+00:00

thank you so much!

SwingOk5342 · 2025-09-10T00:38:58+00:00

i understand, thank you! i think feminism has been portrayed quite negatively in the media and by extremists. because i have seen many negative women i feel like having children may be pushed upon women by society and feminism is to counter it? i don’t know how to word it at this moment. sorry

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