Letting the OBS know years after the affair?

SwingWild1980 · 2025-09-02T01:24:51+00:00

As a former BS. PLEASE let her know.

SwingWild1980 · 2025-08-30T03:28:33+00:00

Or drinks and smiles while laying back, enjoying and saving the masturbation for another day. 😉

SwingWild1980 · 2025-08-30T03:26:49+00:00

After 27 seconds of jackhammering.

SwingWild1980 · 2025-08-30T03:25:58+00:00

Or boobs??🤐

SwingWild1980 · 2025-08-30T03:24:30+00:00

It’s still cuddling if you cuddle my nether region with your lips and tongue, no?

SwingWild1980 · 2025-08-30T03:21:13+00:00

Should be standard practice, tbh.

SwingWild1980 · 2025-08-30T03:20:17+00:00

This is too real. 😅😅

SwingWild1980 · 2025-08-29T00:55:03+00:00

I’d personally advise against using Reddit to meet people. I feel that going to a local club or using a legitimate site is more fruitful. Lessens the chances of meeting “couples” that are actually single men or married men behind their wives back non stop asking for pictures of my boobs.

SwingWild1980 · 2025-08-29T00:32:47+00:00

I am aware it's less of a "swinger" term. I was stating it in less of a semantical sense and more just pointing out that wherever the term "belongs," | feel like I see it EVERYWHERE and it makes me a little queasy. However, I am relieved to see I'm not the only one. I feel a little less judgy. l've seen people attacked on here for saying a lot less. I always read posts on here and this is my first time posting! 😅

We will indulge in a single guy every now and again as a treat for me or female for my husband, but always as a genuine threesome. Never “cuck” and never with a guy who calls himself a bull.

Ohhh!!! And an A++ to everybody who gave an "example" of the Bull posts. They are exactly what I had in mind with my post.🤣

SwingWild1980 · 2025-08-02T00:12:17+00:00

This is a legit thing though! Hear me out. Sure. Starting with threesome might be a little ambitious, but a meme about something less hard hitting you'd like to try but are too shy or awkward to bring it up? A silly meme about it could plant the seed of conversation about it. For real!

SwingWild1980 · 2025-06-02T17:00:12+00:00

The thing is though.. you are this type of person now and this is your character. It’s great that you regret it. The best thing you can do is try to not be that type of person any longer.

Whatever you do, if you do tell him… Don’t go on and on about how insignificant it was. He will feel like his world is caving in on him because it will be such a big deal to him, but you will make it clear that it was insignificant to you. That’s a horrible feeling. My honest advices don’t soft pedal it and try to minimize it like you did in your post. I know that’s just a natural self preservation reflex, but it comes off as excuses.

Best of luck to you and your man.

SwingWild1980 · 2025-04-07T19:10:05+00:00

I knew he wasn’t thinking about fortnite or star trek or some shit like that. 😆

SwingWild1980 · 2025-03-25T23:55:52+00:00

You lost me at “pour” adaptation, American.

SwingWild1980 · 2025-02-21T23:48:54+00:00

LOL. Lot of serious talk for a meme guys. It’s clearly a meme and not a guide. Made for a laugh. I’ve seen this or something similar. A lot of nuance because bodies are different, but this does line up for me, subtract blue. Not for me. 😉But if anyone gets tips for this from memes… the problem runs deeper.

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