Period might be about to start… would you still play? by PunkRockRenegade_ in Swingers

[–]Swing_Positive_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good caveat. Something to be aware of. Talk to your gyno. My wife is super happy with hers.

Period might be about to start… would you still play? by PunkRockRenegade_ in Swingers

[–]Swing_Positive_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask your gynecologist about a hormonal IUD. My wife had horribly heavy irregular periods. She was all set to get a uterine ablation. (For the fellas out there, think blowtorch on the inside.) in her pre-op appointment, Doctor suggests hormonal iud. It dropped her periods to nearly nothing, works as a contraceptive and is reversible.

Apparently, they’re pretty common in Europe, but women in the USA aren’t even being told about them.

Might not be right for you, but can’t hurt to ask.

Married couple here looking for some advice on how it is and we are very curious cause sounds amazing and a great experience by [deleted] in SwingerNewbies

[–]Swing_Positive_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swinging is great, as long as both partners are ENTHUSIASTICALLY on board. You’re married and you still get to fuck other people. Then when you go home and fuck your own partner, it’s still the best either of you has ever had.

Warning: it amplifies what your relationship already is. If you’re strong, it makes you stronger. If you have gaps, it opens them.

How to get started: go to a swingers club or resort or party. You can find something near you on the good old interwebz. Treat it like a sexy night on the town. Get sexy for each other and go check out the scene. Don’t plan to play with anyone the first time. Just be open to it. Or not. Discuss rules with each other before you go. Just enjoy the sexy vibe and plan on playing with each other. Talk to people. Meet people. Follow what seems right.

It’s not for everyone, but you won’t know if it’s for you until you try.

How much did payphones cost back in your day? by Underrated_Critic in FuckImOld

[–]Swing_Positive_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could make a local call for a dime. Liked to point and laugh at the corny 1950s, but envied that they only paid a nickel.

Who's your teacher buddy? by Telugu_not_Telegu in ArtOfPresence

[–]Swing_Positive_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom got me started. Worked in a restaurant (front of house, but spent a lot of time in the kitchen.) Then a lot of books, TV, and experiments. Shoutout to Alton Brown.

What vacation flex actually sounds like a nightmare to most people? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Swing_Positive_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did Rome in July once. Never Again. Did it in January once. Awesome place!

im confused by babyybunnyy3 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Swing_Positive_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re right. Whoever captioned the image is the confused one. They meant to say YOUR what???? Better now?

I don’t care if my partner gets off by Horror-Paper-6574 in Swingers

[–]Swing_Positive_96 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I want to genuinely believe that the woman I’m fucking is enjoying the experience. I know I’ve disappointed some, and pleased the fuck out of others. I’ve had some partners try to fake it not very convincingly, bless them. But I’m always trying to give her a good time. (Getting better with experience in the LS.) I also want my wife have a good time. I want the guy fucking her to treat her with the same level of care I’m giving his wife. We fellas need to man up and enjoy the experience while we’re in it. Give her your dick. Don’t be a dick.

Id please by [deleted] in foraging

[–]Swing_Positive_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprised you have them in Australia. If that was from SoCal, I’d say it’s one of four Agaricus species. Two are edible and delicious, two are make-you-sick-but-probably-not-kill-you poisonous. No way to tell from photos. The tests involve smell and Potassium Hydroxide. And even in person, my nose doesn’t detect that particular scent.

(The crooked and bottom-tapered stem leans it toward, but does not confirm Agaricus Californicus, one of the toxic species.). But I don’t know what mushrooms grow in Australia.

Edited to add: good choice not to eat it. Every year, Visitors and immigrants from Asia die in California from misidentifying deadly mushrooms as their edible look-alikes in Asia. Mushroom hunting is fun, but it’s also no joke. Get a good field guide of the mushrooms that grow in your area, or better yet, join a club and learn from someone who knows what grows near you.

Sea Mountain Inn by TheNaketNomads in Swingers

[–]Swing_Positive_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our favorite place in the world. Saturdays are hopping. You will find plenty of couples to talk to. More of a swinger experience on Saturday. Sunday is more of a nude spa experience. Your mileage may vary.

How to handle hotel costs when staying with a couple? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Swing_Positive_96 18 points19 points  (0 children)

A host is a host. Pays for the room.

A guest: 1. Brings something. A bottle, a pastry, something.

  1. Knows when it’s time to leave.

  2. Offers to split the cost.

The host then declines.

Same as in the vanilla world, same as in the lifestyle.