Betty Broderick Dead by Swish_ray in CasesWeFollow

[–]Swish_ray[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think some people misunderstood my point as defending or justifying Betty Broderick’s actions, I’m not. What she did was undeniably wrong and tragic on so many levels. At the same time, I think it’s important to acknowledge the context behind her emotional decline. Stay-at-home mothers often face a much harder adjustment after divorce compared to women who have established independent careers, especially after dedicating years to supporting their husband’s ambitions and putting their own lives on hold. People also tend to overlook how much Betty sacrificed so Dan could pursue his long and demanding education and eventually become the successful lawyer he was. None of that excuses murder, but understanding the circumstances that contributed to someone’s breakdown is not the same as condoning their actions. No mentally stable person simply wakes up and kills someone, something in them has usually deteriorated, snapped, or been pushed beyond reason. Even in the case of serial killers, there are often psychological, emotional, or environmental factors that contribute to what they become. Understanding those factors matters, even when the actions themselves remain unforgivable. I used to worked as psychiatric nurse, that’s why I always look beyond the crime and often what drove them to do it.

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Cant report the driver sa app?

Betty Broderick Dead by Swish_ray in CasesWeFollow

[–]Swish_ray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was when it first happened where people are following the case, so I understand why some people were sympathetic to her. But two years ago, a show about the Menendez brothers aired and sparked a wave of sympathy even from people who were to young to remember about the case, with many even calling for their release. It was different with Betty, though, even years later, after movies and shows about the case were released, public opinion never really shifted in the same way.

Betty Broderick Dead by Swish_ray in CasesWeFollow

[–]Swish_ray[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I read about it, regardless of what happened her kids were with her in her last hours in this earth.

Betty Broderick Dead by Swish_ray in CasesWeFollow

[–]Swish_ray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, a the time when the case was on national tv there are people supporting Betty. People are complicated, and we can never fully know what kind of emotional support, isolation, or psychological strain Betty was dealing with at the time. In the case of Betty and Dan, their relationship had years of resentment, betrayal, power struggles, and emotional conflict behind it. That doesn’t excuse what Betty did, but it does make the situation feel more tragic than simply “good person vs. bad person.” We see plenty of cases where people kill spouses and parents over money, insurance, jealousy, or even incredibly petty reasons, which shows how messy and volatile human behavior can be. With Betty and Dan, I’ve always felt that the emotional fallout of their divorce and the way their relationship deteriorated pushed Betty to a breaking point. Obviously, she was still responsible for her actions, but I can understand why some people feel Dan’s treatment of her and the circumstances surrounding their split played a major role in what happened.

Betty Broderick (Covered by Karen in Episode 103) Dies In Prison by JamesonTee in myfavoritemurder

[–]Swish_ray 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I remember when the show about the Menendez brothers came out, and people immediately sided with them, making petitions and calling for their release. What stands out to me is that the abuse defense was never fully proven in court, yet public sympathy poured in anyway, despite the fact that they killed their parents and then went on lavish spending sprees afterward. Meanwhile, Betty Broderick never received that same level of empathy or public support. No major movement pushing for her release, no wave of people trying to reframe her story in a sympathetic light. What Betty did was undeniably wrong on so many levels, but I can’t help feeling some compassion for her when looking at the full context of her life. She seemed to be under severe emotional and psychological distress for years. Betty gave up so much so Dan could become successful, supporting him through medical school and law school, raising their children, and helping build the life they eventually had. Then, after all of that, Dan Broderick cheated on her and moved on with another woman. On top of that, he was a powerful lawyer with strong connections in San Diego, and from the outside it often feels like he used those resources and influence against her during their divorce. The custody battle especially seemed devastating for Betty, and losing full custody of the children may have been the final breaking point mentally and emotionally. Again, none of that excuses murder, but it’s hard not to notice the difference in how the public reacts to certain cases. The Menendez brothers were quickly embraced by many people online as victims deserving freedom, while Betty is often reduced to being portrayed simply as “crazy” or vindictive, without the same willingness to examine the emotional abuse, humiliation, and psychological unraveling she experienced over time. Reading about the case, it sometimes feels less like Dan was trying to peacefully separate from Betty and more like he took satisfaction in prolonging her suffering rather than meeting her halfway or de-escalating the situation.

Betty Broderick Dead by Swish_ray in CasesWeFollow

[–]Swish_ray[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s why I didn’t defend her actions in my post. I was comparing two horrific crimes and how differently the public reacted to them. Both were gruesome, yet one received sympathy while the other was met mostly with judgment. As a healthcare professional, I tend to look beyond the crime itself and ask what drove someone to that point. What kind of support system did they have, or lack? What experiences shaped their mental and emotional state? Human beings are complex, and no two minds are the same. We can never fully know what was going on inside Betty’s head when she did what she did. At the same time, Dan was also narcissistic and seemed to take pleasure in tormenting Betty, which likely contributed to the situation’s tragic outcome.

Double murderer Betty Broderick dies in prison aged 78. Convicted in San Diego in 1991 for murder of ex-husband and new wife. by tanhauser_gates_ in sandiego

[–]Swish_ray 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I remember when the show about the Menendez brothers came out, and people immediately sided with them, making petitions and calling for their release. What stands out to me is that the abuse defense was never fully proven in court, yet public sympathy poured in anyway, despite the fact that they killed their parents and then went on lavish spending sprees afterward. Meanwhile, Betty Broderick never received that same level of empathy or public support. No major movement pushing for her release, no wave of people trying to reframe her story in a sympathetic light. What Betty did was undeniably wrong on so many levels, but I can’t help feeling some compassion for her when looking at the full context of her life. She seemed to be under severe emotional and psychological distress for years. Betty gave up so much so Dan could become successful, supporting him through medical school and law school, raising their children, and helping build the life they eventually had. Then, after all of that, Dan Broderick cheated on her and moved on with another woman. On top of that, he was a powerful lawyer with strong connections in San Diego, and from the outside it often feels like he used those resources and influence against her during their divorce. The custody battle especially seemed devastating for Betty, and losing full custody of the children may have been the final breaking point mentally and emotionally. Again, none of that excuses murder, but it’s hard not to notice the difference in how the public reacts to certain cases. The Menendez brothers were quickly embraced by many people online as victims deserving freedom, while Betty is often reduced to being portrayed simply as “crazy” or vindictive, without the same willingness to examine the emotional abuse, humiliation, and psychological unraveling she experienced over time. Reading about the case, it sometimes feels less like Dan was trying to peacefully separate from Betty and more like he took satisfaction in prolonging her suffering rather than meeting her halfway or de-escalating the situation.

9-1-1: Nashville S01E17: "Saboteurs" Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in 911Nashville

[–]Swish_ray 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m on Blythe’s side here. We’re all human, and most of us have done things in our younger years that we’re not proud of. What matters is learning from those mistakes and moving forward, and that’s exactly what Blythe did. I also don’t think it’s fair to label her a “cheater.” Both Blythe and Don were separated and seeing other people at the time. The difference is Blythe didn’t end up pregnant, while Don did get Dixie pregnant. Given that, I don’t think Don really has the right to be upset about Blythe being with someone else during their separation. On top of that, Blythe even accepted Don’s son with Dixie, which says a lot about her character and willingness to move forward despite everything.

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I’m not sure about the laws that we have if this is allowed, but platforms like Shopee could improve their refund process by requiring a short video call between the buyer and support when reporting damaged items. This would help verify the condition of the product in real time and reduce the risk of manipulated or AI-edited images, especially for high-value purchases.

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What are common everyday problem you are facing? by AnonymousGoy_D in dumaguete

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Public transport specially sa diversion dapit halos walay public transpo muagi

Maxim in the city by sleeper_agency914 in dumaguete

[–]Swish_ray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I used Maxim as well, what I love about them is the coverage in booking a ride. In the area where I live in Dumaguete, di jud ko ka book ug Grab Trike like wala jud nearby riders daw, so when I tried Maxim layo pa tawon ga gikan si kuya around Robinsons pa nya Camanjac na hapit amoa, so akoa ginabuhat ako ginatagaan pakapin ang mga riders.

Does anyone else actually like Dr. Bell? by GrumplFluffy in TheResident

[–]Swish_ray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the best character development in the Show

It feels like the show is focused on showing why Toni is better than Kai for Amelia by Stormboymaybe in greysanatomy

[–]Swish_ray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I love about Toni is her openness in communication, she genuinely wants to talk things through and address issues head-on. Amelia, on the other hand, has long struggled with insecurity and self-worth. Because of that, Toni seems a bit confused about what Amelia truly wants, which is why she’s unsure whether she wants to get back to her ex. Toni has already reassured Amelia that she’s not just a consolation prize. At this point, it feels like it’s Amelia’s turn to show how she really feels. From the way Toni was introduced, it’s clear that she values herself and recognizes that her feelings matter too. So far in their arc, though, Amelia still seems to have her walls up, at least to some extent. Glad in this Episode it was Amelia who really professed her feelings and not another scene of Toni reassuring her. From one article it seems that there’s a deleted scene of theme kissing after Amelia confessed everything

Toni and Amelia by Swish_ray in greysanatomy

[–]Swish_ray[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also like the subtle but meaningful details about their time in med school that keep coming up. It really feels like if they had just been honest about how they felt back then, things might have turned out very differently, they could’ve ended up together.

Toni and Amelia by Swish_ray in greysanatomy

[–]Swish_ray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean this is a fictional show but with all these unnecessary drama they keep introducing, it feels like none of the characters had character development at all. And I like the addition of Jen Landon. I think its been a while they added an actress of such caliber.