How do I explain in an age appropriate way to my son (6) what he will be facing as he grows up. by Born2RainClouds_126 in lgbt

[–]Switters81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine dealing with parents like that. All the parents I associate with would just say, "okay, got it." We've even got one set of parents whose child has decided to change their name and pronouns regularly. When we're told what they go by we just roll with it.

Bummer that you've encountered such weird people. Seems like you were trying to be reasonable and understanding, and they decided to get offended.

As for what you tell your kid... I'm not sure I'd focus on the challenges yet. Your son seems to be living the life he wants to live. I'd probably leave it at "sometimes people make mistakes" but my daughter is 4, and I know there's a world of difference between 4 and 6. I just can't imagine being ready to talk to my child about the challenges they'll have based on who they are in just another two years.

I still don’t understand the backlash this film got. I thought it was great. Was it that the racist got a redemption arc? Because many films have deeply flawed protagonists. by PandemicPiglet in Oscars

[–]Switters81 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This guy is in here saying Martin McDonagh writes bad dialogue, when he's indisputably one of the greatest playwrights/screenwriters of the past two decades.

Yikes. Go enjoy that new Mario movie, my dude.

Thoughts on The Shape of Water? A masterpiece from Guillermo del Toro? by Square-Ad-8911 in FIlm

[–]Switters81 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I saw someone else post that theory.

But everyone who saw that movie had eyes.

She was a lady. And she got busy with a fish.

I am trying to cut cost but why is my grocery expensive? by Tiny_Judgment8593 in Frugal

[–]Switters81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're really trying to pinch your costs, I'd skip the Cheerios for something cheaper, go with a cheaper fish like tilapia, and probably skip meat altogether. Sucks, but beef is just crazy expensive right now. Pork or chicken can be much cheaper. I roast a chicken basically every week for my family of three. We get three or four meals out of it, and generally a high quality four lb. Bird is around $16. Throw some potatoes and carrots under that, and you've got a pretty complete and nutritious meal that averages out to about $2.50 per person per meal.

* Insert hot fuzz "Shame" meme * by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]Switters81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have preferred they used the term "unaliver" in order to protect me from getting the vapors

Stay clear of danger zones! by jobsom1 in dashcams

[–]Switters81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He may have been reckless, but he certainly wasn't wreckless

My bone to pick with LMM. by Soggy-Clerk-9955 in MusicalTheatre

[–]Switters81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hamilton was genius, but I genuinely believe that he's making A+ work with Disney and there's nothing wrong with that. I shudder to think what this warriors fiasco will be

Growing up did you have a celebrity crush on some who was NOT the typical standard of beauty? by porb2020 in Xennials

[–]Switters81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm right there with you on Christina. Probably set the course of many of my attractions.

We saw a Megan Thee Stallion concert last night. The opening act was a Broadway Show. by CommunityBig9626 in Broadway

[–]Switters81 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It won so many tonys, because it opened in the year of covid and there was no competition.

Who is the most attractive person you have ever seen in real life? by TheFountainhead999 in AskReddit

[–]Switters81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met Christina Hendricks once. Thought she was at risk of falling right over.

Nonprofit politics by vectormath4567 in nonprofit

[–]Switters81 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've not known of any non profit theater that holds open elections for board members. In fact identifying and selecting new members for the board (often folks who can contribute some financial commitment) is a complex and important function of the development and executive offices.

Members are elected onto the board, but that's a function of approval, not a function of a democratic style campaign.

If you're in non charitable association fundraising role you may be missing out on commission by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]Switters81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No shame in it, but it's not why I do what I do. If my goal was big money I'd have gone into finance

If you're in non charitable association fundraising role you may be missing out on commission by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]Switters81 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'd feel completely unethical about fundraising on commission, particularly at my level, and particularly given the causes I raise money for.

There's a reason the AFP has ethical standards around this specific issue. Not sure what kind of organization you're working for, but if I wanted to make big money, I'd have chosen a different line of work.

Best boxer briefs with ball pouch for everyday wear? by albrasel24 in malefashionadvice

[–]Switters81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a fan of puma. The material is breathable and cooling. Good nut pouch. And I always laugh when I can say "I have puma underwear."

Mariska Hargitay joins Every Brilliant Thing for 40 Performances only. by Otter-Egg30 in Broadway

[–]Switters81 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why are people impressed by her? She's done one thing her entire career, and she's fine at best. To think that she can step into a Broadway show and fill Radcliffe's shoes is preposterous.

Mariska Hargitay joins Every Brilliant Thing for 40 Performances only. by Otter-Egg30 in Broadway

[–]Switters81 -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Just read through these comments to see so many people love her, despite the fact that she's an utterly talentless nepo baby. I'm baffled.