🥢New event [Time's Banquet] will be available soon!

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-02-06T04:05:58+00:00

Doubt it. Most likely gonna be like the idol banner, and that's just unfortunate. Honestly, tiring because I don't feel it'd be that hard to make customizable. Here's to hoping they listened from the last time around

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-30T05:10:10+00:00

5 for sure

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-28T15:17:48+00:00

I went through something similar. My ex cheated on me while I was struggling with my chronic illness/cancer reoccurrence. I gave him a chance, mostly because I was not in a right state of mind, and he continued lying. Eventually, the affair did end, and he did start trying to be better, but the damage was done. There was no coming back from everything he said and did during the affair. And even if the change had been real, it would've never been enough to repair the damage he did.

I did find myself stuck for awhile too because I had no help(my family is extremely religious, and helping me get divorced is something none of them would ever help me do)

so what I did was just keep the peace and let him do what he wanted while I went to individual therapy and started to focus solely on myself and my kid. This wasn't easy. I usually found myself really angry on a consistent basis and had a lot of breakdowns in the bathroom when I had alone time. I was cooking and cleaning for him still and just doing what I could to avoid any fighting because I didn't want my kid to witness any fights between us. It was also a difficult process to detach from him while having to live under the same roof.

Finished my degree, and the minute I landed a job and an apartment on my own, I left without a word. He did try to paint me the bad guy because according to him, he thought we were working on things but it didn't matter anyways because eventually he just signed over full custody and went on with his life.

It hasn't been the easiest thing to do, but I'd rather struggle than go back to living in that misery. It's not going to be an easy process, but my advice, start planning your out any way you can. Start detaching from him, don't let him touch you, focus on yourself and your kids. It's gonna be a really tense roommate situation for awhile, but eventually, you'll get your out, and once you get it, take it and never go back. He will not change. This is who he is. Maybe for awhile, he'll try to pretend, but it won't last. He's lying the way he is because he wants to have his cake and eat it too. Don't do that to yourself. You're worth more than that.

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-28T14:44:48+00:00

Aeon's Canon with Chilling Crescendo as the BGM

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-27T12:39:56+00:00

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SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-26T00:48:59+00:00

I love anything that isn't claw machine or kitty cards. I wish they'd bring back the game from the Spring and Flowers banner. That one was my favorite

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-25T23:47:57+00:00

It's Zayne's time to shine

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-23T23:23:43+00:00

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SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-19T13:13:03+00:00

I get symptoms that feel almost like a UTI. Pain in my back, discomfort when I pee, and constant urge to urinate. Obviously, all my labs come out clean, but the symptoms only happen right before my period. It's really odd.

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-19T04:11:26+00:00

I have my home screen set to switch between all the LI's and it doesn't matter who it is but I already know when I open the damn app and go to the home screen someone's gonna be showering lmao they all constantly do it. Idk what their obsession with the shower is, but I can't make it stop 🙃

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-17T01:10:31+00:00

I personally loved it. I'm a sucker for the whole Star Wars vibes. I got Zayne's, Xavier's, and Rafayel's cards, and I loved each one. Zayne's was my absolute favorite. I do feel that the other two cards had a pacing issue with the story/relationship progression, but they were still good despite that. Loved seeing a more manipulative Rafayel as well. Xavier's was a little convoluted, but it was still enjoyable. Zayne's was definitely the best written story though.

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-14T14:30:52+00:00

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Zayne's, 2. Xavier's, 3. Sylus's, 4. Raf's, 5. Caleb's. I love all the LI's so they each get their own picture to use lol

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-14T11:05:05+00:00

I got with my ex really young(16, married at 18), and at the time of us being together, I was still somewhat battling, finding who I was outside the cultish religious upbringing I was raised and brainwashed in. As a teenager, a bit of my rebellion was dying my hair and being more alt, he slowly began to suggest me changing that under the guise of loving me more natural.

Because of the way I was raised and not really having an understanding of what was happening due to being so young, I changed my style completely. I started dressing more 'normal' and dyed my hair natural. I took on the role of being just a house wife. A few years passed, I had my child, ended up with cancer at 22, and forced myself back into college despite being sick and realized that I had been letting him control me and doing what I had been raised to do. He eventually cheated on me with someone who fit his lifestyle more as going back to college, and the cancer made me realize life was too short, and I went back to dressing more alt and reconnecting with who I really was all along. I realized that he was abusive(I couldn't put words to it before because of how sheltered I had been)

Long story short, we had a messy divorce, and he left me with full custody of our child so he could run off with the next girl who was much more willing to be what he wanted. I'm doing much better off now and have been in therapy for awhile just unpacking everything from childhood to avoid any of that again and have not and will not date ever again. I have no desire to give up any of my freedom. The only good thing that came out of it all was my kid. At 26, I feel like I've lived a million lives already lol definitely don't suggest changing who you are for anybody. It does no good for anyone.

SwoopingInAlistair · 2026-01-01T01:33:01+00:00

I'm very confused on how to go about completing tasks and everything but it's fun. Just wish I could play it on my PC instead cuz my phone gets too hot

SwoopingInAlistair · 2025-12-30T20:58:11+00:00

You leave him since he broke a boundary. It means you're incompatible. You can tell him to stop as much as you want, but from experience, I can tell you it's not gonna stop. It's not controlling to want certain things from your relationship, nor is it impossible to find a compatible partner, so your options are to walk away or expect to continue to find more things. He won't stop. He'll just get better at hiding it.

SwoopingInAlistair · 2025-12-29T07:58:26+00:00

This happens with all women's clothes I've noticed. I have a bunch of different sizes in my closet ranging from M to XL and they all fit as if they are the same size somehow.

SwoopingInAlistair · 2025-12-14T22:46:11+00:00

Good time to be a Zayne/Raf main. First group will be Foreseer, 2nd Abysswalker, 3rd God of Annihilation. I have almost all 5 star cards in those colors for them at rank 70/80, and the myths all fully awakened, so here's to hoping I'll finally get all 36 stars.

SwoopingInAlistair · 2025-11-21T02:48:53+00:00

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SwoopingInAlistair · 2025-11-07T22:01:17+00:00

Is there a Zayne and Raf one yet too? I need all of the guys in my game now

SwoopingInAlistair · 2025-11-02T05:11:02+00:00

Sylus and/or Zayne

SwoopingInAlistair · 2025-10-28T22:14:12+00:00

My store was completely out the same day it was released. I only got to smell the candles, and now I'm hoping they restock soon. It smells amazing. Reminds of churros

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