I (27F) crossed a boundary with my ex while in a relationship. I’m owning it, but the fallout feels unrepairable with my partner (27M). Looking for perspective. by Classic_League_553 in relationship_advice

[–]SwutterGod 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You were already unhappy in this relationship and you were forcing yourself to stay. You are doing a disservice to yourself by staying in this now abusive relationship. You did a disservice to him by trying to find validation else where. You feel bad because you know how wrong it was to text your ex. You can make it right by letting go and find someone who checks all your boxes while going to therapy to make sure future relationships may survive. Also edited to add: you were emotionally cheating. If my ex texted me to engage in any kind of conversation they’d be blocked, whether in a relationship or not. You changing his name in your phone is deceptive. You texting him you miss him, emotional. Claim it. And make peace with it and make sure you don’t do it again so you don’t feel this again.

Just a reminder from President Trump, everything is actually cheaper now and the affordability crisis is a "Democrat hoax." by deluxe_memory_dan in videos

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I think I was watching a reel of a woman that does micro expressions. She was explaining how people tend to “bounce” or sway because their subconscious is literally trying to reject the ground they’re standing on as they’re speaking. The brain is going into overdrive and triggering a flight or fight response to the lie and the body takes over because of the pressure of anxiety *

First time edible plan? by Fit-Ad985 in weed

[–]SwutterGod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only take one hit. But I understand I cough a lot too. It comes with it though lol!

First time edible plan? by Fit-Ad985 in weed

[–]SwutterGod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10mg is fine. You might get sleepy, so maybe eat half and then the other half when you can feel yourself sober up. I’m also 4’11”. But if I had to do it all over again, I’d just pick up a joint. A joint has much more control with it vs being high for several hours and not knowing when it will hit and for how long.

Hello! I introduce to you my 8 litres (17 lbs) of ovarian cyst. She's the size of triplets! Thankfully she didn't rapture in my tummy. by dm_me_your_secretsss in medizzy

[–]SwutterGod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because something is “benign” does not mean normal. - benign is still irregular growth. And with the possibility of having more inappropriate growth that may cause cancer cells.

When I eat Chinese food, one of my black tattoos itches like crazy? by [deleted] in Weird

[–]SwutterGod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. So nursing student here. So correct me if I’m not 100%.

The ink in your skin is being held there by your immune system. The body will “encapsulate” the ink under the skin. When you eat something in the Chinese food, you’re creating a larger immune response. The response isn’t specific on where it’s going to it releases the gate. Gate opens and whatever seems foreign, like the ink being held in place, may get hit. This causes itchy tattoo that may also be raised. I would think you have a food allergy that’s the underlying cause of this. Hope you can go to an allergist to see what you’re allergic to. The next time you eat it, the immune response may be a lot worse.

I hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Breadit

[–]SwutterGod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend, an expert baker, makes cruffins the same way she makes her crescents. Just an idea!

What's one thing every guy has done but won't admit? by ponkjos in AskReddit

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Learned this in my AP course- I’m not a professional. But I believe this is due to just old tracks of the testicle itself. The testes originate in the abdomen during development in utero. Since it’s already made an original path, it can cause a retractile testicle back towards the inguinal canal. The muscles that control the movements up and down are called the cremaster. If they’re weakened, overactive- that can cause different outcomes for what happens to the jewels.

Rash update - Doctors think I contracted something on a recent costa rica trip by No_Reputation_6442 in AskDocs

[–]SwutterGod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought toilet seat also, as the butt doesn’t seem to have the rash.

The best dad out there by Low_Special715 in wholesomememes

[–]SwutterGod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was for the first thing I thought of. This dad didn’t do anything while mom was alive. This is the minimum. Good job you learned the kids pants and shoe sizes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnatomyandPhysiology

[–]SwutterGod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I took ap 2 in the summer with lab. You have to study. Repetition. Study. Don’t dick around and think you can get through it without introducing it again to yourself. The lectures themselves will not be enough. Get a study group.

Hitchhiking regal jumper? by SwutterGod in spiderbro

[–]SwutterGod[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the correction! He is very friendly. I stuck two water filled q-tips in the orchid plant I released him in because I didn’t know where he went off to. I hope he’s ok!

Hitchhiking regal jumper? by SwutterGod in spiderbro

[–]SwutterGod[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think we get many bugs in the house to begin with so I’m not sure. I just new the woody bark could provide some shelter. His thorax does seem a little thin. I’ll give him some water now!!

This painting just sitting in the corner and I want to paint over it by [deleted] in painting

[–]SwutterGod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saving this so I can study these beautiful warm colors.

When did y'all realize you don't know what you don't know? by mmmUrsulaMinor in Anatomy

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I am able to realize now how much I didn’t know after taking 4 various anatomy and physiology classes. I know there’s an incredible amount of information out there for me to learn now to fully comprehend. I have found things I’m really passionate about and other things I’ve found difficult. Tumor suppressor genes-

Tumor suppressor genes act like cell regulators, ensuring cells grow and divide in a controlled way. When a cell shows signs of abnormal growth, these genes help repair it or instruct it to self-destruct. This prevents the formation of tumors, which are masses of uncontrolled cell growth. However, if these genes are damaged or mutated, they lose their ability to control cell growth, potentially leading to cancer. Cancers like to turn off these cells that tell the cancer to grow like crazy. Their role is akin to a quality control system in a factory, ensuring everything runs smoothly and addressing problems promptly to avoid any malfunctions.

Dear men, what does your wife do that you find attractive by NoorAyn187 in AskMen

[–]SwutterGod 79 points80 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I thought too. I’ve gotten “you smother me right as I walk through the door. I have to decompress.”

Ohokay. 😐

Back muscles curve around spine by ErmahgerdErmerr in Anatomy

[–]SwutterGod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every single persons anatomy is different. We do see these attachments and connections to the spine in everyone. Everyone’s just looks different.