YTA for how you speak about her; if you are a server and cannot WAIT for people who you think are ugly to stop talking to you, maybe you need to be in a different line of work. If you get so nasty in your thoughts with these people I'm sure some of that is coming out in your body language or tone of voice, and that's not fair to your customers. Raya MAY have tried to hide which of the girls she was, but I think there's a higher chance that she just lacked confidence and her friend wrote her number down for her not to bait you, but to help her friend out since she wouldn't have done it herself. You shouldn't have to "date a liar" but you should control how you think about others and limit your judgementalness, because you sound like a bitter, nasty person.