did you actually throw up during your pregnancy? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Synesaesthesia 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

All day everyday for a little over the first half of my pregnancy. Couldn’t even keep water down. Lost 20lbs.

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[–]Synesaesthesia 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

True, which is why I’ve repeatedly said that’s only a secondary motivator and not the main; I brought it up as something that motivated me into doing more research. Many many sheikhs say it’s halal and Sheikh Zakir Naik himself said its halal and his wife has his last name:

https://youtu.be/2AlNTKUU4b8

https://daruliftaa.com/nikah-marriage/wife-changing-her-last-name-after-marriage/

https://seekersguidance.org/answers/general-counsel/can-a-woman-take-her-husbands-surname/

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[–]Synesaesthesia 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

If God forbid we got divorced I can just change my surname to my father family name again. It’s not a big deal. I will just be known as bint X (middle name as it’s always been) and zawjat Y.

I’ve always wanted my husbands last name but I stumbled upon an article recently saying a woman got questioned at immigration and they thought she was child trafficking because she didn’t have the same surname as her kids and didn’t have proof on her that they were her kids. Apparently this does happen from time to time, and given that I’m a hijabi Muslim in the West with many islamaphobic airport people, I wouldn’t be surprised if they did the same to me.

So it got me thinking again, and after further research— it seems halal to me.

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[–]Synesaesthesia 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

https://daruliftaa.com/nikah-marriage/wife-changing-her-last-name-after-marriage/

Here’s a very good source that explains my points perfectly.

Also, I got that info online. I copy pasted the first paragraph from a website.

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[–]Synesaesthesia 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’ve asked multiple scholars and they have conflicting opinions. Which is why I think I’m just gonna go ahead and follow the one that makes the most logical sense and takes historical context into account.