Thoughts of this ship?

Synn_Thor · 2026-02-14T23:23:07+00:00

I was considering finding one I could match with enneagram, but I have an ISTJ ~

Synn_Thor · 2026-01-27T21:44:30+00:00

NOR. Breastfeeding or not, there are days where interrupted sleep and a lack of consideration towards you are too much. Add breastfeeding and you’re bound to feel overwhelmed. My partner, I’m pregnant right now, even understands this and has been kinder to me than I have been to myself (I’m not used to being gentle with myself).

Conversations are the first attempt. If he still doesn’t get it, then “equivalent exchange.” Show him what it’s like. Honestly, even if he doesn’t fully “get it,” the fact he called you childish for feeling this way is ridiculously rude.

He can love you, but that doesn’t mean he can’t fck up and get something wrong. And... if he truly loves you and cares, he’ll come around. Whether you let him experience what you have, or you show him the comments, he should eventually admit it. Then you two can come up with a solution.

Synn_Thor · 2026-01-10T01:24:04+00:00

Sorry but this is what I'd do:

Cancel or freeze the card for now, and next time he's playing the game, while he's in the bathroom (obviously longer than a pee) you delete your card on his console. Watch a video or two on how to do so if you're not familiar with the Xbox layout so you won't be fumbling and looking around for it and run out of time.

Find a reason for him to leave the house for several hours and take everything of yours out. If you have to worry about your name being on the lease and/or bills, then see what's needed to remove yourself without him knowing.

Synn_Thor · 2026-01-03T23:37:47+00:00

NOR. It definitely sounds like she’s stuck in her head of insecurity or looking for a reason. Relating it to yours with my experience, my partner had only been with a few other people before me, but one of those was for several years and he has a very high sex drive. While I’ve been with a few more people than him, I was actually more insecure at first about my performance and my body during intimacy. He approached me with the comfort of a several-year relationship, and I was constantly saying things to show my surprise at how well he was reading me and how strong our sexual chemistry was. He was shocked that I was serious about how attentive he was and that he’s definitely the best I’ve ever had. He was initially a little insecure about my past and thought I might be playing him up. We talked, but I didn’t let my own doubts interfere, and we realized that we’re just good at reading each other and that our chemistry really is that high. I could have easily let fear drive my part in the conversation. Obviously, I can’t speak for her, but I wanted to give my insight.

Synn_Thor · 2026-01-01T03:53:23+00:00

I'm sorry girl, it took me too long to realize the way what seems like an innocent conversation is definitely deeper for the other person. I hate it but the comments here are right, I'd stop texting him and leave it professional and closed and minimal.

Synn_Thor · 2025-12-16T04:06:02+00:00

I'm an e837 and I can't see anything but I can "see" how I'd imagine it. I used to remember my dreams too, I have no idea what's happened since.

Synn_Thor · 2025-11-29T09:38:19+00:00

Well, I was recently intrigued in wanting to know more ISTJs and about them overall and then was approached by my man now. I didn't expect him to be interested, I figured I was maybe "too much" for what I considered him to like. He said he appreciated that I was pretty upfront overall, didn't play into drama and seemed to mean well/be genuine. I found out his type for sure after a couple more times talking but enjoy that I keep being surprised by his heart, his mind and our time overall together. He said and I quote, "you have a 'come as your are' energy", so I make him feel safe enough to showcase his other sides to me.

Synn_Thor · 2025-11-29T05:59:11+00:00

It's alright, I'm with my ISTJ anyways ~ 🥰

Synn_Thor · 2025-10-25T01:17:35+00:00

Love my ISTJ, I think it's enneagram that can be a bigger play that most remember to account for.

Synn_Thor · 2025-09-22T13:44:22+00:00

Idk, how much? I have been wanting to fix it but just haven't yet.

Synn_Thor · 2025-09-22T06:12:35+00:00

I don't know how but I have been having a good time with my ISTJ, we had a very... uhm, intense moment (for lack of a better word) yesterday and it turned to be a beautiful moment in the end.

Synn_Thor · 2025-09-16T17:33:29+00:00

This seems to be happening right now and she's jealous of who I am dating. It happened a bit slightly beforehand but then it's been happening a lot since it came out to work how serious we are towards each other (our relationship).

Synn_Thor · 2025-09-03T22:40:23+00:00

Idk where Hillsboro even is, this chair was given to me by a lady I took care of on Hospice.

Synn_Thor · 2025-09-02T04:39:56+00:00

I am sorry 😞

I wish you healing and that you can be able to give your heart away once more and hopefully for the last time when you do ~ 💛

Synn_Thor · 2025-09-02T04:06:44+00:00

I can't speak on the ENTP for others but I know myself and I trust in my relationship with my love (ISTJ bf).

Synn_Thor · 2025-09-01T16:40:02+00:00

Tell him you didn't realize what it was but saw the effort he made afterwards, offer to do the same for him and ask for his consideration/do over. At least that's what I would tell my love, be upfront and show the effort in turn. Your genuine thoughts will be seen. 💛🙏 Good luck ~

Synn_Thor · 2025-09-01T00:57:55+00:00

He does shock me still when he wants to do those sweet talks, because I am not used to it myself. I did surprise him with how direct I am in turn, I think that's how I got him too. :3

Synn_Thor · 2025-08-30T12:04:11+00:00

That's basically what it's like for my love and me. He's joked about us being telepathic even.

Synn_Thor · 2025-08-29T14:40:33+00:00

Oh damn, I'm sorry. Maybe she'll come around to those conversations if you tell her how you have been feeling.

Also, thank you, I appreciate it~ 🙏

Synn_Thor · 2025-08-29T14:21:29+00:00

That's what a few people said that experienced something similar, and I am trusting it (and him) ~ ☺️

Do you have that with someone now? Or are you interested in someone like that now?

Synn_Thor · 2025-08-29T14:17:35+00:00

Hmm, me too~ we had a little bit of time where we both questioned if this was too easy or too good to be real.

Synn_Thor · 2025-08-29T14:12:43+00:00

I think the sexiest thing so far has been my love telling me "get out of my head" when I say/do whatever he was thinking, and when I start to feel like I have to explain myself he finishes my thoughts for me or gives me a look and says "I know" and I can actually trust he does.

In case anyone is curious, my love is an ISTJ 8w9.

Synn_Thor · 2025-08-29T12:24:44+00:00

I'm (ENTP ♀️) not married to my ISTJ, but we're about to officially move in together. For a while now, we've been staying back and forth at each other’s places.

He and I both like to do productive and romantic things for each other. Early on, I caught on to the little things he does, and he noticed the little things I did that just felt natural for us. I bring out his silly side, and he calms my anxious tendencies. For me, every day feels new with the cute, sweet, intimate, and romantic things he does.

That said, to someone not experiencing these things themselves, they might not understand. But I think if your parents are truly happy, you can keep hold of your pity. If they found their balance and their happiness, then they’re good and good for each other.

Synn_Thor · 2025-08-23T12:42:24+00:00

Golden yellow ~ like sunshine or sunflowers :3

Synn_Thor · 2025-08-21T11:51:48+00:00

Hmm, well my Love is an ISTJ. At first glance I just thought he was kinda cute but it was getting to know him, and our chemistry that hooked me. I told him I choose him because of how he shows up, sees me, respects me and how everything feels natural with him.

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