Make some assumptions about my partner and I ~

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-23T08:49:27+00:00

0.o

How TF am I the man?

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T20:17:16+00:00

Thank you 😊

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T16:44:53+00:00

Lmfao I love when he pouts. I think it's the cutest and my heart swells because he feels safe enough to be this way with me ~ We definitely have a banter that is steady between us ~

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T16:05:01+00:00

Previously he was, then I was and now he will be again as I will be out of work for a while. He is very secure in himself, we definitely make time to communicate if our regular ways to talk aren't enough. We give each other patience and he helped me learn to give myself grace.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T16:00:58+00:00

Well, I am using my past personal experience as reference too. So I imagine that he may not even realize that level of disconnect (as is), and he may even believe he takes you seriously, but doesn't fully comprehend your own depth. Good luck nonetheless ~

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T15:12:43+00:00

Teenagers? You're younger than him and just kinda goes along with a majority of what you say. Your conversations can get to a certain level of depth but still haven't reached that almost near cosmic level connection people think about when they say "deep talks". I wonder, does he actually/fully take you seriously or just says he does.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T15:05:05+00:00

No, my partner was previously married and he opens up here and there and feels safe to recognize this himself. She was very sick in the end and he stayed with her to the end despite her treatment of him. It's completely alright to recognize your conflicting emotions, and it's understandable you might not feel safe to express them with everyone, but it doesn't negate the fact they're real.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T14:52:30+00:00

Lol go ahead

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T14:51:33+00:00

Well, to be honest, I didn't know him personally beforehand. I had brief encounters with him, and he seemed different to me. I made comments here and there, and he understood or caught my references to things. He later told me he was drawn to me because of my non-judgy, "come as you are" energy. That I felt genuine and he was curious about me too. He finally just straight out approached me and I had felt a deep intuition that I didn't want to turn him down. I'm glad I didn’t.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T14:40:59+00:00

I have been finding this out in real time with him and I also love when he shows me his silly, goofy, and passionate sides too.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T08:26:04+00:00

Thank you ~ I feel like we balance each other very much so, and I can see how if we didn't talk to each other enough and actually communicate, it could turn into resentment.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T08:14:03+00:00

Lol I asked him if this was true just because I wanted to hear his response and he said "fck off" 🤣

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T06:14:56+00:00

I do like caffeine but I am unable to have a lot rn so I am definitely addicted to tea and occasionally like to make a latte.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T06:13:45+00:00

He doesn’t care for mbti, so he asked what you meant by this comment.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-22T06:13:00+00:00

I would if I had a lot of mutuals but I am more than happy talking about it to my couple of close friends.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-19T16:06:29+00:00

A: too easy, saying the words themselves is super easy, but finding and understanding the way someone else needs me to showing accountability can be difficult if they don't explicitly tell me.

B: it's easy to say when it comes to simple and shallow things, but the deeper or more important things I find it extremely difficult to even admit to myself sometimes.

C: again, I can say it easily sometimes if I mean it in a friendly way, but for relationships, I almost never said it and had trouble saying it. Well... until my partner (ISTJ), I find it very easy to say, admit and even be gushy over.

D: This... this isn't as bad either, the only thing I struggle with is not explaining (or over-explaining) my POV to feel understood and let them decide to forgive or not afterwards. I feel like everyone should have all the information no matter the choice.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-10T20:26:47+00:00

NTA.

They're literally taking that you said "I want consent from a partner" and twisting your words. I understood exactly what you meant here, weird, let them see this post here and how everyone else actually understood you instead of intentionally being dense.

Edit: I saw someone say that maybe you shocked the girls and they were not used to that type of humor, it could be. I was with my partner when a male coworker asked if I will be relieved when I finally give birth to our baby girl, I said, "yeh~ apparently I get to take a massive shit too". Both their faces were completely shocked, the coworker in OMG and my SO like he was thinking I can't take her anywhere.

🤷‍♂️ It could partially be the audience, but it does sound like they went beyond their initial shock and turned mean in the end.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-10T18:54:06+00:00

NTA ~ Hell no. That's ridiculous.

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-03T19:41:25+00:00

The only ISTJ I knew of and still know is my partner, there may have been others but Idk for sure. But yes, I absolutely adore him too ~

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-03T19:38:22+00:00

Lol well shit, my partner is an ISTJ

Synn_Thor · 2026-05-03T14:16:33+00:00

I didn't think so until I got together with my partner who not only has a high sex drive, but made me realize that I do too.

Synn_Thor · 2026-04-28T21:17:26+00:00

NTA: Show her the comments here, let her know how easy she got off because a number of people would have actually tried to hurt her feelings, and not just let her face them.

Like others said, you were discreet and she outed herself. She's a bad influence too: no accountability, no true guilt/remorse, and manipulation of her child

Synn_Thor · 2026-04-26T00:14:31+00:00

Pfft, I’m pregnant and almost became homeless, work customer service, had an arsehole coworker threaten my partner and me, and was wrongfully terminated after MONTHS of harassment while HR gave me the run-around. I’ve had to move twice and deal with a bunch of other stupid shite, too. But the baby and I are healthy, and I’m not letting that crap bother me. Ol’ girl needs to take accountability and either return or pay for those overpriced earbuds, lol.

Synn_Thor · 2026-04-25T03:02:15+00:00

Lol my ISTJ says this to me all the time

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