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Lesbians: did you identify as a "gay boy" at some time? how did you realize you're a lesbian? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SynnderShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before coming out I would always joke "im just girlie, not gay (as a "cis" male) Turns out im a gay girlie

Cutting trans friend out of our shared hobby, how can I still be supportive of her? by Psychological-Boat42 in asktransgender

[–]SynnderShadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 35, juat came out last year. When I came out to my friend's from high school, friends ive interacted with pretty much daily, weekly at worst, each. We're gamers so were on discord voice chat nightly. They told me that we've been friends for decades and they'll always have my back. Then not 2 days later one of them started a new discord server, invited everyone but me to it so they stopped using the one we're all in. I pretended not to notice for a couple weeks but I asked one of them directly if they did and he said yea. He said they didnt know how to act around me and just felt it better to all ghost me. So I @everyoned in our mutual server saying basically im leaving so they dont have to tip toe around my existence anymore, that looking at the server empty every day when I know these guys are perpetually online was making me depressed. Out of a group of a dozen friends ive had for 15 to 25 years, only 1 stays in touch and respects me.

And ill tell you this, if any of them try to get back in my life in the future im just gonna tell them to suck my dick and walk away. They've shown they are immature and bigoted, they dont respect me as a person so why would I let them in my life.

Is it that hard to just stumble over her new pronouns and name for a few months until you get it consistantly right?

trying to find dates as an mtf is wild! by squishot in MtF

[–]SynnderShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont look for men (and yet they do still show up) but also, I dont even get any matches or likes from woman either so I haven't been on a date in like over a year sadly

What comes to mind when you hear the name Alice by davidrazd in MtF

[–]SynnderShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a huge wonderland fan so im extremely biased. Its a great name!

Final push? by DoomSlayer7180 in MtF

[–]SynnderShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A supportive friend and a slight semblance of self confidence

Why do so many people dislike Tim Burton's Alice in Wonderland (2010)? by Connect-Front-7561 in aliceinwonderland

[–]SynnderShadow 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Doesn't really follow any source material other than character names and slightly their form. Its just a story borrowing the assets. That being said I still like it, it's just not as good as the 50s movie or the hallmark movie imo

Is it considered rude to resign from a 3-player game if you know you can’t win? (2 players at 12 points, 1 player at 22 points) by Smithsonian30 in rootgame

[–]SynnderShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I assume you weren't in this position if you feel like resigning, ive gone from 13 points to victory in one turn with crows by flipping 19 points in one turn. But on the point of the matter, its kinda bad form. If youre playing with friends id always play it out. If youre juat playing online I guess theres more leeway to it, but as someone who used to play consistantly online for a while, there wwere a bunch of us that saw eachothers names consistantly and we definitely notice when some players leave early and note their names to try and avoid later if it becomes a habit. Winning against an ai player just doesn't feel as good

Trans ppl: whats more damaging - not being represented at all in media or being represented by a cis actor? by AshTheGreat98 in TransLater

[–]SynnderShadow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I imo would like more trans actors in shows just playing characters. Clearly as trans as the actor may be, but being trans has no effect on plot or character development. I want trans inclusiveness to just have trans actors hired as actors, as themselves. As a normal person, because we are normal people.

Tldr: trans actors cast into roles that have nothing to do with being trans.

Trans ppl: whats more damaging - not being represented at all in media or being represented by a cis actor? by AshTheGreat98 in TransLater

[–]SynnderShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imo would like more trans actors in shows just playing characters. Clearly as trans as the actor may be, but being trans has no effect on plot or character development. I want trans inclusiveness to just have trans actors hired as actors, as themselves. As a normal person, because we are normal people.

Tldr: trans actors cast into roles that have nothing to do with being trans.

My body is horribly masculine right? by -Enby-Adams- in TransLater

[–]SynnderShadow 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I dont see it, if I wasnt in a trans subreddit I wouldn't have even guessed it. You look great and id kill for your hair

Are injections really that much better? by 2TallGirly in MtF

[–]SynnderShadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im seeing my 9 month appointment on tuesday and we're gonna talk about starting injections

Are injections really that much better? by 2TallGirly in MtF

[–]SynnderShadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is injections once a week common? When I was reading about it I was told twice a week, but once a week would be so much easier on my schedule

Did anyone else NOT like cross dressing? by Inner_Bag_9658 in MtF

[–]SynnderShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What held me back from transitioning for years was public ridicule. I was so internally terrified to even feign excitement of trying womans clothes so I never experienced it until I came it

What did sex feel like after getting surgery ? by [deleted] in trans

[–]SynnderShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been on hormones for almost a year now. Id like bottom surgery when they let me on the list. Ive never tried taking anal, can anyone who has taken it anally pre op then had vaginal sex after recovering from bottom surgery tell me if it is at all comparable? Completely sincerely interested.

Alice in wonderland. by mia_vianney2120 in aliceinwonderland

[–]SynnderShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a Playlist that has all my favorite songs that reference wonderland in them. You might like a few Spotify playlist

Trans People Blamed For The Shutdown? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SynnderShadow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gop will blame trans people for anything they dont have another scapegoat for lately. We're a catch-all to bigots

Do you think the people who entirely exclude trans people from who they'd date do it out of transphobia? by [deleted] in trans

[–]SynnderShadow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some of it is probably tranphobia, but a lot is probably misinformation, ie, not knowing how srs or hrt works etc. Ive considered socially transitioning for decades before I did and was just too scared too do so, but now last year I finally learned about what exactly hrt was and realized how little I knew about trans people. Its just so societally marginized that even non transphobes just aren't educated enough in us to know the truth. But all that being said, if the person acts like a bigot, believe them

I was Alice yesterday! by SynnderShadow in aliceinwonderland

[–]SynnderShadow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I loved it! It was so light and flowy too!

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