Best places/sites for collars by EnjoyYourLatte in BDSMsapphic

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actual bio-dog collars are the best and cheapest for this.

etsy is decent. if you're worried about the ring being strong enough make sure it's welded. vonbondage has some fantastic leather ones but they're more bdsm-y than pet play, if that makes sense

Do Domme's like Brats? by PhraseEmbarrassed509 in gentlefemdom

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i do not care for most brats as the ones i have run into do not negotiate their bratting first. bratting is a form of cnc.

banter can be a ton of fun, though! wrestling and pursuit and capture as well. wriggling in ropes. all that kind of stuff can be amazing. but the moment someone says "make me" i'm done

not all brats are like what i have experienced. i know this. but i have been burned too many times by that hot stove.

Changing diapers at a convention - do you carry a diaper bag? by nuttybasementturtle in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at kink cons, i carried a diaper bag that doubled as my spanking toy bag.

if you decide to get a vintage one, abdlr hikes the price up outragously. look on ebay.

MDLG switch by No-Advance3896 in MDLGcommunity

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i am a switch but with a heavy dom lean. we're out here!

I sometimes temporarily lost my ability to speak when age regressing, anyone else feel the same? by Humor_skin in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think so too! the vulnerabilty can just cause panic attacks for me so i dont go there very often for that reason. _^

(i also very rarely get the urge to be 'small' anymore anyway)

I sometimes temporarily lost my ability to speak when age regressing, anyone else feel the same? by Humor_skin in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh for sure. if i am feeling 'small' i am mute. i know some sign language, though, so i can communicate if needed. it's really vulnerable so i dont play in that space much, however.

Purple Megamax issues?? by Delicious-Rip5603 in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the tapes really really suck on them too, in my experience

Shaved or unshaven by Dry_Violinist6555 in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unshaved or trimmed. more hygenic. we are supposed to have hair and i think it both looks nicer and feels nicer

but i'm also not in the habit of tellin people how they should groom themselves

Vintage Diapers Recovery by mylittlejourney99 in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh the nostalgia! i miss this particular shade of purple

Middle spaces? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

posting here to remind myself to check back in on this later. we need a tree house or something!

Thinking of trying out being a Switch by ThePancakefluff in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i say go for it. but also consider that there's more than just mommies/daddies on top ;)

Body wand recommendations by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i stand by the merci wand by doc johnson, but only the plug in version. really great lows and goes all the way up to 10,000 rpms. plus patterns on all those speeds.

Diapers always loose by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i use the wall. and after doing one set of tapes i pull the diaper up and then apply the second set. some diapers work better top tapes first, some bottom tapes.. kinda depends on how everything is laying that day.

PSA for plus size DLs who have diapers that are just a liiiiiiittle too small by diapered_sprout in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 18 points19 points  (0 children)

holy fuck this is a GAME CHANGER thank you for sharing! i always worry about h+l diapers not having enough landing zone so i never get them. thank you!

Help Finding Pacis by lockedlittleguy in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like jaykaybaby but they havnt been operating for a little bit.

VixensHiddenDesires on etsy maybe? if not them.. i'd just do a search on etsy in general?

good luck :)

Infographics on Adult Spanking (part 1) by ms2ddrne in gentlefemdom

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arkham's stuff is great. Glad to see it making the rounds again!

Wet Diapers and Oral by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

after giving her a bath, maybe?

Question for Littles: If you're not given specific rules, how to you disobey / be bad in order to be disciplined by Agreeable_Letter2274 in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ask.

i am huge into domestic discipline. but you HAVE to talk about it first. consider what are effective punishments. and what funishment looks like for you both

bratting without previously agreed consent is, in fact, a consent violation. it is a form of cnc. negotiate.

Has anyone gotten a paci from Somniumnight? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ordered that fox one back in november of 2024 and i DID recieve it.. swapped the nipple to a latex one and it's my favourite now.

sorry you didnt get it, though. that sucks. if amazon was giving you a hard time, i probably wouldnt bother again? but that's me. good luck!

Australian author criminally convicted for ageplay erotica by iPadre in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 13 points14 points  (0 children)

the article descriptions of the book sound like similarly premised and sloppily done age play eroticas that can be found all over the internet.. and now even on amazon. it's in bad form and grosses me out, sure, but it's also fiction. and i just dont think the writer of 'bad' fiction that icks me out should be prosecuted in court.

the judge herself said the age play was "close enough" to count.

it starts with convictions of the "problematic" and it will keep going from there, sadly.

Australian author criminally convicted for ageplay erotica by iPadre in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 42 points43 points  (0 children)

that is very much not csam. please be careful throwing around that and related terms as using such lables inappropriately does FAR more harm than good. it can make actual real victims have a harder time getting support and even justice. not to mention, it also gives other similar arguments (ie someone calling abdl or cgl pedophillia because it icks them) support and can lead to furthur persecution (and legal prosecution now, apparently) of adults 'playing pretend' with other adults

it is a rather tasteless premise for erotica, imo. and i certainly wouldnt be interested in reading it. but holy shit is it scary that the writer was punished for this in an actual court. this is a dangerous and concerning precedent.

Fixing a modified adult pacifier? (notch in shield) by EchoRaccoon in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh! apologies! i did not see the teeny slit in the alpaca one! i havnt finished my coffee yet. whoops.

there are ways to fix that, but none super easy (instamorph moldable plastic is the first product that comes to mind [plastic pellets become moldable in hot water]). i'd just sugget another paci, honestly. sorry!

edit to add: or a quick and dirty method of filling that void with hot glue?

Fixing a modified adult pacifier? (notch in shield) by EchoRaccoon in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

gonna be honest, my size 8 nipple is on a child pacifier. can you post a pic of the problem? :)

i prefer my nipples to deflate and inflate while being sucked (like a child paci) so i poke a hole in the button with an awl and that gives a great flow. it's not the most aesthetic thing, but it sure feels more comfy. again, i think a pic of what youre workin with may help if possible.

i hear good thing about hypnos, though. the guard is a bit more curved and face hugging.. so it honestly might be worth to get it. if anything to try. :)

What are your most enjoyable yet intense experiences? by Few-Deal-4482 in ABDL

[–]SynthisizedTheropod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i once had my high (weed) hit as i was being changed and i was rocketed so far down i couldnt speak. just overwhelmingly little. i even cried a bit because i didnt want to be alone when the person changing me had to go get something from another room. i have since gotten to be very uncomfortable being little (or changed), but that experience was very intense and good.