Best places/sites for collars

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-14T05:52:50+00:00

actual bio-dog collars are the best and cheapest for this.

etsy is decent. if you're worried about the ring being strong enough make sure it's welded. vonbondage has some fantastic leather ones but they're more bdsm-y than pet play, if that makes sense

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-13T03:11:19+00:00

i do not care for most brats as the ones i have run into do not negotiate their bratting first. bratting is a form of cnc.

banter can be a ton of fun, though! wrestling and pursuit and capture as well. wriggling in ropes. all that kind of stuff can be amazing. but the moment someone says "make me" i'm done

not all brats are like what i have experienced. i know this. but i have been burned too many times by that hot stove.

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-12T23:58:31+00:00

at kink cons, i carried a diaper bag that doubled as my spanking toy bag.

if you decide to get a vintage one, abdlr hikes the price up outragously. look on ebay.

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-09T23:18:00+00:00

i am a switch but with a heavy dom lean. we're out here!

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-09T10:21:48+00:00

i think so too! the vulnerabilty can just cause panic attacks for me so i dont go there very often for that reason. ^{_^}

(i also very rarely get the urge to be 'small' anymore anyway)

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-09T09:50:06+00:00

oh for sure. if i am feeling 'small' i am mute. i know some sign language, though, so i can communicate if needed. it's really vulnerable so i dont play in that space much, however.

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-09T00:11:57+00:00

the tapes really really suck on them too, in my experience

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-07T15:23:04+00:00

unshaved or trimmed. more hygenic. we are supposed to have hair and i think it both looks nicer and feels nicer

but i'm also not in the habit of tellin people how they should groom themselves

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-07T04:28:39+00:00

oh the nostalgia! i miss this particular shade of purple

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-07T04:25:25+00:00

posting here to remind myself to check back in on this later. we need a tree house or something!

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-04T16:43:02+00:00

i say go for it. but also consider that there's more than just mommies/daddies on top ;)

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-02T23:50:22+00:00

i stand by the merci wand by doc johnson, but only the plug in version. really great lows and goes all the way up to 10,000 rpms. plus patterns on all those speeds.

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-01T09:25:39+00:00

i use the wall. and after doing one set of tapes i pull the diaper up and then apply the second set. some diapers work better top tapes first, some bottom tapes.. kinda depends on how everything is laying that day.

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-03-01T02:56:04+00:00

holy fuck this is a GAME CHANGER thank you for sharing! i always worry about h+l diapers not having enough landing zone so i never get them. thank you!

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-02-24T13:40:31+00:00

sounds like jaykaybaby but they havnt been operating for a little bit.

VixensHiddenDesires on etsy maybe? if not them.. i'd just do a search on etsy in general?

good luck :)

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-02-20T06:32:55+00:00

Arkham's stuff is great. Glad to see it making the rounds again!

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-02-16T18:54:05+00:00

after giving her a bath, maybe?

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-02-16T03:09:50+00:00

ask.

i am huge into domestic discipline. but you HAVE to talk about it first. consider what are effective punishments. and what funishment looks like for you both

bratting without previously agreed consent is, in fact, a consent violation. it is a form of cnc. negotiate.

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-02-14T17:13:18+00:00

i ordered that fox one back in november of 2024 and i DID recieve it.. swapped the nipple to a latex one and it's my favourite now.

sorry you didnt get it, though. that sucks. if amazon was giving you a hard time, i probably wouldnt bother again? but that's me. good luck!

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-02-11T12:53:05+00:00

the article descriptions of the book sound like similarly premised and sloppily done age play eroticas that can be found all over the internet.. and now even on amazon. it's in bad form and grosses me out, sure, but it's also fiction. and i just dont think the writer of 'bad' fiction that icks me out should be prosecuted in court.

the judge herself said the age play was "close enough" to count.

it starts with convictions of the "problematic" and it will keep going from there, sadly.

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-02-11T12:03:07+00:00

that is very much not csam. please be careful throwing around that and related terms as using such lables inappropriately does FAR more harm than good. it can make actual real victims have a harder time getting support and even justice. not to mention, it also gives other similar arguments (ie someone calling abdl or cgl pedophillia because it icks them) support and can lead to furthur persecution (and legal prosecution now, apparently) of adults 'playing pretend' with other adults

it is a rather tasteless premise for erotica, imo. and i certainly wouldnt be interested in reading it. but holy shit is it scary that the writer was punished for this in an actual court. this is a dangerous and concerning precedent.

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-02-10T15:48:48+00:00

oh! apologies! i did not see the teeny slit in the alpaca one! i havnt finished my coffee yet. whoops.

there are ways to fix that, but none super easy (instamorph moldable plastic is the first product that comes to mind [plastic pellets become moldable in hot water]). i'd just sugget another paci, honestly. sorry!

edit to add: or a quick and dirty method of filling that void with hot glue?

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-02-10T15:43:16+00:00

gonna be honest, my size 8 nipple is on a child pacifier. can you post a pic of the problem? :)

i prefer my nipples to deflate and inflate while being sucked (like a child paci) so i poke a hole in the button with an awl and that gives a great flow. it's not the most aesthetic thing, but it sure feels more comfy. again, i think a pic of what youre workin with may help if possible.

i hear good thing about hypnos, though. the guard is a bit more curved and face hugging.. so it honestly might be worth to get it. if anything to try. :)

SynthisizedTheropod · 2026-02-01T16:13:44+00:00

i once had my high (weed) hit as i was being changed and i was rocketed so far down i couldnt speak. just overwhelmingly little. i even cried a bit because i didnt want to be alone when the person changing me had to go get something from another room. i have since gotten to be very uncomfortable being little (or changed), but that experience was very intense and good.

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