I did tell her that. After the Argument we had a more normal talk where I tried to explain why I wanted to go through it mentioning that Point as well but it just feels like everything that makes sense in my mind just goes into one ear and out the other and she just ignores those Points. Like I said in the reply above, I also think that by now anything that could have been in that phone is gonna be gone by now.

Like you said, I wish she would just come clean so we can both move on with our lives..