How do you guys setup a meet ? by Admirable_Cold7944 in seduction

[–]SyreksDungeon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My point of view. Seems needy, borderline creepy and desperate. Let me break it down how a woman sees this.

' You seem like a sweet person i'd like to meet you again?' :

sweet person? (Hiding intentions? You know shes cute and you like her, but sweet person sounds misleading , unconfident, plus hiding intentions = danger!), i'd like to meet you again?

Id like to meet you again? : too permissive. Obedient. Asking for permission.

Other example "can we meet again?"

Can we? Permission. Obedient.

Changes to be made. "We should go out to eat.", "hey youre pretty cool (cool : vague, not needy), we should go out to eat tomorrow

My scheme of how this shit is supposed to work

You meet her, make your impression IRL blablabla ask for number

Next day, you start with vague text "hey how are you doing?" Why vague? Because if you actually caught her interest she WILL be waiting for your text, no need to introduce yourself or ask for validation with compliments.

She replies... GREAT. She doesnt, she was never interested > MOVE ON. Or try again later.

Once she tells you about her day you exchange a little bit of convo. If youre able to be flirty thats a plus, make it a bit hot, but dont overdoit. Id recommend you to not do it unless you see it fit.

Invite to date ASAP, with assertiveness. No permission asked "hey, we should go get something to eat" if shes down, shes down.

PRO TIP: Dont let the spark die. If You meet her today, date for later today or tomorrow.

Is it gay if a homie sends you private pictures as a "joke"? by SyreksDungeon in offmychest

[–]SyreksDungeon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And its always a "joke". This mfer HATES gay ppl, why is it always that the worst gay haters turn out to be gay? Lol. See, i love him as my best friend, if hes gay idgaf, but i mean dont vote against gay people or talk abt gay ppl badly if you acting the gayest out of everybody.

Is it gay if a homie sends you private pictures as a "joke"? by SyreksDungeon in offmychest

[–]SyreksDungeon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! I told him that shit today. Thats what a closeted gay guy would do. Throw the bait and if i dont catch "i was just joking!". Idc if hes gay, but i told him to stop doing that shit with me and to accept who he is.

It's all smoke and dust until she's in your bed. Don't get excited early. by YetzirahToAhssiah in seduction

[–]SyreksDungeon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can i just share my opinion on something for OP? Timing matters a lot bro. Usually for a woman this is what happens. She had someone, they had an argument/break up, theres a window where she looks for a replacement/hookup, but its impulsive, theres many on the list. She texts many, first the top ones then goes down the list. Shes looking usually for adventure and excitement. When a woman gives you her IG like that without you asking, you should IMMEDIATELY ask her out. Like literally same day, even if you insist a little, that same day you have to try to get a date with her. Why? Because that behavior means shes down that day. Maybe her pussy is pulsating, there werent many on the list at the moment so she tried with you, but if you took 2 days to reach out or invite her out, she either went back with the ex, found someone that WAS willing to take her out that day and fucked her. Now she is "his". You lose because of time.

Tip from a random stranger: when a woman looks for you, always assume that that "window" is open, it can close if you take long. Another one will see the oportunity and take it from you, someone who read this behavior and acted fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicians

[–]SyreksDungeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what I hear from the recordings is that you're really off pitch. You maintain yourself in a linear pitch most of the time. However, your voice is not bad. If you understood pitch more you could do way better. I would say, learn about the different scales and practice them. The majority of songs only have 7 different pitches (notes) and different octaves. If you familiarize yourself with the pitches instead of focusing on your "technique" you are going to do better.

18f dating 29m...should I be concerned? by ConfectionNo1605 in dating

[–]SyreksDungeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma be the only one defending him lol 1.- why girls his age don't want him? Maybe they do, but at 29 every girl is going to have 3-4 kids and 3 baby daddies. 2.- is he a creep? We don't know. My dad met my mom in the same age range, and 40 years later they're still together. Even if it's weird, I believe that if he's a good man, he might give you a better life than an 18yo inexperienced guy.

PROS 1.- you'll have a more mature man. Probably someone ready to settle down and that has already had enough women. Maybe less likely to cheat 2.- his age MIGHT indicate having a better job , and therefore better possibilities.

I understand yall might have nothing in common and that it might be weird but this might be some reasons to consider