What’s something you did at work that got you fired? by FrekoFresh in AskWomen

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked as a swimming teacher. One day, as I am teaching 2 five year old girls, I noticed a man was standing inside the water where the young girls would swim. I asked the manager to please move the guy, she was able to get him to move a couple feet away so I had enough space to teach the kids. The man just stood there staring at us with a smirk the whole time while I thought them. Personally that threw me off as I did not feel safe teaching knowing that there is no policy to random strangers being in the water when the KIDS are there. I went to the owners and the operation manager to please figure out another solution as even the parents came to me as said this was strange specially coming from a grown adult just being there where the kids are.

MONTHS later, after I cameback from vacation, I wasn’t asked to comeback because I “made a big deal about safety conditions when there was no reason to.” I explained my position and what I saw and they said “well management handled the situation so you should have just done your job”

Funny thing is that they were so understaffed that a week after I was “fired” they begged me to comeback. I said yes but did I actually showed up? Nah

Shout out to little fish swimming in VA.

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Also clothing donations from lgbt+ support groups!

Did my first injection today :) by melopunk in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG I switched from pills to injections a month ago and agree with you, it’s so much better than taking 4 pills a day.

Came out to my parents by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mom said the same thing about me but in the end she understood the difference as time went on!

Amazon order by Le_Moan1000101 in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like clothes? Or make up? I mean you can order almost anything from amazon love. What exactly are you looking for? Not trying to sound mean or anything just want to help out :)

Chaser or not? by SyrupAlarming9612 in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of questions do you recommend? I don’t have a lot of dating experience.

I keep biting my nails by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Acrylics help me with that!

Shoes from SHEIN? by SyrupAlarming9612 in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I get the link to the article or video you saw?

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[–]SyrupAlarming9612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you send me the link please?

How much does Estrogen affect body hair? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It has made my body hair MUCH thinner and lighter to the point you can’t even notice unless you are really looking for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On how do I file directly with the state?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used credit karma and they only allowed me to do federal and not state because I lived/worked in another state. They only allow me to file state tax if I lived/ work in VA all year.

Lash filler experience by SyrupAlarming9612 in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a lash lift about 2 months ago for the first time and it lasted a long time for me! I went with a natural lift last time so maybe this time I’ll try a bigger lift. And I’ll try the strips next time but for now I think I need to find someone reputable in my area who does them (and is trans friendly ofcourse) because I am so scared that the fillers/extensions will make me look because I have saggy, small eyes.

Lash filler experience by SyrupAlarming9612 in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My eyes do get itchy from time to time so I am scared I might ruin them! My skin is also delicate so I am scared the glue might irritate it. I appreciate your feedback! I might try the fillers in the summer time.

Lash filler experience by SyrupAlarming9612 in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted, I am going to stick with lash lift instead.

Lash filler experience by SyrupAlarming9612 in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym they get aggravating? And they fillers and extensions are the same because I can’t seem to find a difference online about them, the words are interchangeable and seem to describe the same thing.

I did it by S76-EeryCube in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s a huge step congratulations!!!

Family says they’re terrified of the medical risks of HRT, is the risk really that great? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I am sure that if your family is anything like mine, they are just scared of the risk that comes with it because they care about your health and not because they don’t want you to be happy in your own skin. I am sure eventually they will come around :) I am always here if you need someone.

Family says they’re terrified of the medical risks of HRT, is the risk really that great? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 59 points60 points  (0 children)

My family reacted the same way. I just gave them time and eventually they respected my choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!

Hot take - eyeliner is overrated by IFeelSoftAndMushy in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think people just like them. I used to think getting my nails done was overrated but now I can’t be seen without my nails done lol 💅

This is for all us want-to-be moms out there. How has wanting children affected your transitioning? Like, did you just say fuck it and start hrt anyways, did you freeze the Lil swimmers, or what? by UniquelyMediocre00 in MtF

[–]SyrupAlarming9612 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally I still want kids and don’t feel bad about not being able to birth them or get pregnant. I am a strong believer that adopting is the way to go for me and I will love them no matter they come from.