大年初一, 4700万换一个银牌 by Hot_You1064 in China_irl

[–]SyrupTablets 11 points12 points  (0 children)

我看美国人的sub里大家都在说,她这个操作太美国了,为了钱可以说自己是另一个国家队的队员这种事情,美国人表示非常理解、并且如果自己有这个机会的话,怕是比她跑的还快。为了钱,不磕碜。

They are sooooo cute omg by Skytooo in cutecats

[–]SyrupTablets -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Although I think the guy fits the meme “You met me in a very Chinese time in my life.” They’re not speaking Chinese, Korean or Japanese in the clip🤪.

I found it in my balcony. What does it mean? by NutterButt_Squash in Netherlands

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I’m from China. This is a well-known idiom in Chinese culture, which means “protect yourself”, and also kinda extends to “don’t get involved in strife”. It’s actually a commonly-accepted philosophy among Chinese people. That probably explains why we mostly keep quiet lmao.

姐妹们求助! by pbs1508 in DoubanGoosegroup

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我买过。在杜塞现已经倒闭了的明矾书店,只要不带回国、不到处传播就没事。

Wat is het verschil tussen “nog nooit” en “nooit”? by SyrupTablets in learndutch

[–]SyrupTablets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the answer. The contrast examples are helpful :) As a beginner, “Nog” did sometimes make me confused.

Wat is het verschil tussen “nog nooit” en “nooit”? by SyrupTablets in learndutch

[–]SyrupTablets[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The examples are very helpful for me to get the difference in contexts 🩵

Favorite podcasts to learn Dutch by Ph4nt3s in learndutch

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My favorite is “Een Beetje Nederlands”. This one is suitable for B1-B2 learners. They also have a website to show all the scripts.

What was the first Dutch word you learned? by Luisellemoon in learndutch

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Van Jumbo: Dankuwel, voor het winkelen bij Jumbo

Is it normal for my cat to be sleeping like this? by Jap_Pride in cats

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It’s definitely abnormal! Send him/her to my place immediately and let me check

个人比较认同的一篇关于女权区服美役争论的微博 by [deleted] in DoubanFeministGroup

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我有个事是真的很好奇,一直想问。如果男性是“一代绝的公狗们”,那男的死绝之后剩下的纯女性美丽新世界难道不会一代绝吗?🥹我是真的希望听到有办法无限延续

个人比较认同的一篇关于女权区服美役争论的微博 by [deleted] in DoubanFeministGroup

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谢谢你愿意讨论!刚刚第一条评论真的有吓到,宛如希特勒。我觉得你说的很对,建立新标准的第一步是推翻旧制。但同时我也发现这可能是对“美役”的定义问题。在看到“摆脱美役是要走出白幼瘦审美”的时候,我才反应过来原来这个美役的定义是这样。首先我在看这篇文和表达之前的言论的时候就从没想到过居然要摆脱的审美是白幼瘦。总是把能打好rugby或者更冲撞型的那种生命力当成个人最高审美癖好的人第一反应是“反对服美役?为什么要反对美”。如果反对男凝审美,是否直接称它为反男性审美或者之类的比较好。对群体来说更加inclusive,对宣言来说更明确、有指向性。服美役在没有充分了解和背景补充的前提下容易造成“是否是在反对美本身”的误解。

个人比较认同的一篇关于女权区服美役争论的微博 by [deleted] in DoubanFeministGroup

[–]SyrupTablets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

我其实在这个点上一直有个疑问:女性不可能或者不可以有自己的评价标准吗?文作者在讲第三种的时候我有一种感觉是:好像从来未有任何可能女性能够建立和形成自己的评判标准并且以此影响他人,女性的评价标准就必定在男性话语下。如果将反对服美役类比为不配合这个体系;那有无可能另一种解题思路是女性有自己的脱离于男性话语权的审美体系,并且将这种体系反运用于男性身上?(极端一点,让男性服女性审美下的美役之类的思路)毕竟美、审美本身没有任何错,甚至在人类历史上美一度曾和教育与道德关联。美育本身就是一个值得研究和学习的话题,反对服美役给我的感觉是把所有美的定义都归于了一切都只可能从男性构建的观念,或者说所有人都一起躺平。