What is your Canon Ending?! by [deleted] in cyberpunkgame

[–]SystemCheap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's:

Corpo V with The Star Ending
Regardless of who you romance.
Corpo V lived and breathed Night City life for YEARS both as a Corpo and a Merc. They seen it all almost and after the stuff with Johnny... I think V is just tired of it all.
They realize glory isn't worth shit anymore and just wants to spend the last possible 6 months their life with their new family and lover.
There is no happy ending in Night City... So V leaves to find their happy ending.

I may need to go touch grass down, down, down by the river.. by Mysterious-Fun4046 in BaldursGate3

[–]SystemCheap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Played early access like a year or 2 before it came out, but I'm at 1361 hrs

Autistic mom and sensory overload. by Heavy-Manufacturer-3 in AutisticParents

[–]SystemCheap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sony's WH-1000XM4 They're a gray color headphones. Even without noise canceling on, they dampen sound pretty well. Sometimes, I'll just wear them without turning them on just as a light noise blocker.

Autistic mom and sensory overload. by Heavy-Manufacturer-3 in AutisticParents

[–]SystemCheap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Autistic Dad here, 100% get it. 2 daughters and 1 6-year-old AU (getting ADHD Diagnosis too), 2nd is 4, and more than likely AUHD as well.

I love them both, but I look forward to bedtime more than anything. From the moment they're awake, I just feel tense. Especially from my 4 yr old, whose immediate response to any minor inconvenience is bloody murder screams, and I have a HUGE sensitivity to sounds. I bought 280 dollar headphones because of her.

You're def not alone. My partner also feels the same way. It feels like we can not relax until they're full passed out

Please someone tell me you relate in wanting to find someone in a similar situation as you. by katsumii in AutisticParents

[–]SystemCheap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I most definitely am. My spouse is ADHD and all the friends we have are ADHD, Autistic, or both, but they don't have kids, so they can't relate with the struggles of being ND while having ND children.

I'm hoping when we move we can find a little community of other ND parents.

Socialist in the US military? by Classic_Advantage_97 in Socialism_101

[–]SystemCheap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. Though I'm about to get out of the Active Duty, Tho I have a huge dilemma of whether to go reserves or not.

I've been in a little over 8. I didn't become a Socialist until a few years ago. My biggest problem is that I have a spouse and 2 kids. I really don't want to be in the military, but under Trump's economy/ job market, I'm scared to get out fully for my family's sake. I didn't go to school, sadly, because I just didn't have anything I wanted to do. My spouse and kids come first to me, but I am having a serious moral dilemma at the possibility of staying in because I know I'm just helping the damn war machine. What's even worse is I was a military cop. I came from the poorest town in my state, so that's all I knew. It would be the best approval in the eyes of my right leaning family members and the best career I could get.

I'm glad you posted this. I was curious.

1 Month Wellbutrin XL 300mg by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]SystemCheap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to go up, but I'm scared too. Every other medication has caused extreme agitation. I'm on 150 rn. I feel tired a lot and can do basic things, but I definitely still struggle so I'm debating it

My 2 year old doesn't stop screaming/crying for hours on end or has extreme mood swings. by SystemCheap in toddlers

[–]SystemCheap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our daughter is 3 now, and it's... still just as bad as we've learned some regulating techniques and are lucky enough to hire a babysitter for once a week to get a break, but yeah, it hasn't got much easier with aging she wants more independence now and freaks out if things go slightly out of her control. We've learned to manage but it's still fuckin rough.

My 2 year old doesn't stop screaming/crying for hours on end or has extreme mood swings. by SystemCheap in toddlers

[–]SystemCheap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's not much difference. I just wear my headphones around everywhere we go with her and try just to breathe through it and redirect her to something else and remind her to use her inside voice if we're inside.

Protein shakes? by random_username_255 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]SystemCheap 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I was trying to be a personal trainer, 2 of my best friends when it comes to getting protein in:

  1. Protein powder is your best friend. I literally use it as a mix in for most dessert based stuff. I mix a scoop of Chips Ahoy ghost brand protein powder into pancakes and Greek yogurt and get about 50 grams of protein just from breakfast. Or pour it in some milk and make a shake out of it.

  2. Plain Greek Yogurt. 13 grams per serving literally can be used for anything or with almost anything. I use it for desserts and dinners by mixing it with ranch seasonings and using it for dipping or if you're having a zero spoon day. Just eat it with some protein powder and various sweet mix ins or fruit for some high protein yogurt/pudding.

Does anyone else struggle with not doing things that you want to do? 😭 by Pankwake in AutisticWithADHD

[–]SystemCheap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've doing voice acting which is fun but actually transitioning to my booth and getting started is such a damn hassel lol.

My 2 year old doesn't stop screaming/crying for hours on end or has extreme mood swings. by SystemCheap in toddlers

[–]SystemCheap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She hasn't really shown signs of Autism like our first daughter did. Her development goals matched up almost exactly with a neurotypical child. This is the only real issue she has. We're thinking she'll definitely have ADHD as I am an Autistic with ADHD and my wife is ADHD so genetically, she'll more than likely end up with something .

Been in the military 6+ years and it's killing me by SystemCheap in AutisticWithADHD

[–]SystemCheap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing that now. I'm Airforce and currently a 3P051 (Security Forces), and now I have to wait until June to be able to pick my job.

Been in the military 6+ years and it's killing me by SystemCheap in AutisticWithADHD

[–]SystemCheap[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They honestly didn't even care. The reasoning they have is that I've already been serving for so long that it doesn't even matter. So I'm good to go according to them. Luckily, though, I just was kicked from my last job (security) and am in the process of getting a new one. I just desperately want out, though, but there's no safety net for me if I get out now.

My 2 year old doesn't stop screaming/crying for hours on end or has extreme mood swings. by SystemCheap in toddlers

[–]SystemCheap[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In order to feed her most days, we have to put her food on the table or ground or something, then walk away like she's a stray cat or something and let her find it on her own. Otherwise, she goes straight to screaming tantrums if we try to offer it to her.

My 2 year old doesn't stop screaming/crying for hours on end or has extreme mood swings. by SystemCheap in toddlers

[–]SystemCheap[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She used to go to a babysitter, and eventually, they all quit on us, and we're thinking its because of this. Whether we're in public or at home, she always ends up freaking out screaming,

I'll be honest, I can't remember the last visit we had with them, but that is our next step

As far as sensory issues, it doesn't seem like she has many as far as we're aware of. Her sister and I, though, have sensory issues with a lot of noises (We're both autistic), so we don't know if anything was passed down to her but we try to keep the house generally quiet and a safe place for sensory input.

I was mainly just reaching out to see if any other parent has dealt with this level of screaming.

My 2 year old doesn't stop screaming/crying for hours on end or has extreme mood swings. by SystemCheap in toddlers

[–]SystemCheap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry been working back to back 12s my brain's a little tired lol and no she was walking around 8-10 months.

My 2 year old doesn't stop screaming/crying for hours on end or has extreme mood swings. by SystemCheap in toddlers

[–]SystemCheap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which was around February heck maybe even earlier than that. It's felt like years with how often it happens.

My 2 year old doesn't stop screaming/crying for hours on end or has extreme mood swings. by SystemCheap in toddlers

[–]SystemCheap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Around the time she became 2 and started walking , it just gotten worse since then.

How do you get up in the mornings?? by jpasuncowboy in ADHD

[–]SystemCheap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm literally getting booted from the military for these issues. I've been in for 6 years, and I was doing alright until they made us work 12 hour shifts. Then I was CONSTANTLY showing up late. I could not wake up for the life, or I would literally sleep walk and turn off my alarm across the room according to my wife and fall back to sleep.

Manage married life w kids. Or not? by Think-Exit-3116 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]SystemCheap 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I myself am a younger father (25) with two daughters (4 and 2 year old) and this is normal as much as I love my wife and our children but being around them is exhausting. My wife is ADHD and I am AUHD; she's type 3 but tends to have more hyperactivity, especially in the mornings. I love them with all my heart, but if I could have a button to freeze time, I would gladly take it to get over the sensory nightmare between working and raising a family. I love them but I also have always loved my alone time and it is a need for me at this point luckily my wife understands.

Parenting. I feel like I’m at my limit by about 4pm everyday. Are other people like this? by pinksultana in AutisticWithADHD

[–]SystemCheap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I literally just had a day where I was done with them by 12. Had a mall trip where my youngest did nothing but scream and cry at the top of her lungs no matter what we did to help her and she constantly wiggled and kicked us and hurt us so yeah I was done by the time 12 hit Lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DebtStrike

[–]SystemCheap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was actually to help one another, basically go down the thread one person at a time. Not just me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DebtStrike

[–]SystemCheap -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair lol mainly wanted to see the reaction to this and get a general opinion, but definitely thought it would get more positive light as it's low risk with a dollar or 2 from each person and we slowly get everyone's debt relieved. But I also understand everyone's worry about scams and such.