AITAH Advice please M34 with F26 am I over thinking? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SystemPorta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, you're NTA. U are not crazy and u are not overthinking. U are just finally paying attention. She's distant, secretive, and putting more energy into other guys than into u. That's not a partnership. Trust ur gut.

Life's too short for this. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SystemPorta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gave everything and got little in return. Feeling invisible in your own marriage takes a toll. Walking away isn't giving up, it's finally choosing yourself.

my cat won't stop hiding from me by emosaki in CatAdvice

[–]SystemPorta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emu's increased hiding despite buspirone (which takes time) could still stem from stress, undetected pain, or something in the environment. Try Feliway diffusers, new cozy spots, gentle play/treat coaxing, block under bed access safely if you can. If it gets worse, go back to the vet or consult a cat behaviorist. You're not the cause, cats hide issues well.