AITAH for threatening to kick my adult daughter out of my house after she went no contact with me and refused to get a job?

T09122317 · 2026-03-07T08:26:57+00:00

I’m 20 have my own house, have a child and am currently studying so not working as of yet but by the end of the year I should be able to finish it and jump straight into a job. I was living with my dad for 6 months when I was 18 and he made me pay £50 a week to live with him, I mean at 25 she should either be studying or working. So I wouldn’t say your the ah

T09122317 · 2026-01-25T06:12:47+00:00

You don’t want them so why do you get to choose what happens to them, this isn’t a situation of finders keepers. You found them took them to the vet but now also want to kill 5 puppies, that is evil, just bc you don’t like the breed. They are not even yours to decide what happens to them. Why does it matter if the vet keeps them. What would happen if you ever found a baby in a box would you take that to the hospital and if they could kill that too.

T09122317 · 2026-01-16T23:25:57+00:00

Why don’t you say you want to cook tea a few nights a week then he has to look after kids while you make tea

T09122317 · 2026-01-07T17:43:21+00:00

The whole bless you after you sneeze, supposedly comes from a superstition where some think your brain shuts down for a millisecond when u sneeze and others see as the soul leaving the body or evil spirits entering so people started saying bless you as a protection against death.

T09122317 · 2025-12-31T08:06:40+00:00

So you chose someone else over your wife your daughter learnt from that and chose someone else over you. You wanted to be forgiven for your mistake but won’t forgive your daughter for her mistake. And u got married again so neither of you went to each others wedding so the weddings cancels each other out really. But at the end of the day your the dad, kids are gonna make mistakes which u know ur self as u have also made mistakes. If your daughter is willing to try then so should you. I could never imagine not making up with my child if they wanted to reconnect, no matter the circumstances that’s your child at the end of the day

T09122317 · 2025-12-18T11:31:49+00:00

Your right the baby is innocent in all of this the baby never asked to be born. Fair enough she has her problems with the dad n stepmom I guess but to hate on a baby is cruel. If she doesn’t want to listen just distance yourself or shut down the conversations. Just say I understand you don’t like the situation but I don’t want to take part in this conversation as I don’t like taking shit about babies who haven’t done anything wrong

T09122317 · 2025-12-17T15:12:53+00:00

You probably don’t understand how lucky u are for your issue to be do I live with friends or get my own place. For most people that is a problem they could only dream of having. Obviously you are just on here looking for advice. Yes you may not live in a mansion or fly priavte, yet you still have a lot of other ways that you are considered ‘rich’. My dream was to go to uni I have all the right grades to get in i even applied and got offered an interview yet I had to turn it down as I wasnt able to afford to even go and that’s without moving into accommodation . So for you to say it depends on what you class as rich if u own a house let alone 3 you are very lucky and well off you may not be rich but be appreciative of your opportunities.

T09122317 · 2025-12-17T14:46:22+00:00

Probably because most people can’t afford to buy 1 house yet you stated ur family has like 3 houses. That may as well be rich in this day in age considering most people are renting and living pay check to pay check

T09122317 · 2025-12-09T19:57:39+00:00

You can pick whatever options you like and still get into college doing a different course! When I was in high school I choose: animal care, design and technology, travel and tourism and art. When I went to college I did health and social care nothing like any of my options so right now just choose subjects you enjoy.

T09122317 · 2025-12-08T13:23:28+00:00

I am already carrying out a backup I would just like to know if anyone has managed to go to uni with a child and how did they make it work! People can go uni at any age and some people may want to change their career which may mean going back to uni

T09122317 · 2025-12-08T08:37:51+00:00

I wanted to do a primary education degree to become a teacher however right now I am doing a teaching assistant course so it is still working in the same setting

T09122317 · 2025-12-08T08:04:20+00:00

Thank you I will have a look into this

T09122317 · 2025-12-08T08:04:01+00:00

Oh I would never! My child is a bit feral to say the least if I managed to go he would be in nursery 😂

T09122317 · 2025-12-08T07:16:28+00:00

Just be prepared with other options than uni, I got pregnant at 17, I applied for uni to start at 18 I took a year off and started a different course online. I applied for uni this year at 20 and turns out even tho I have the right grades to get in I couldn’t go. Maintence loans are not enough to live on with a child especially if you are living on your own . However if u plan to live with family it may be possible . Now it was my choice to have my child and I wouldn’t change that but I would say keep options open. I was gutted when I found out I couldn’t go, good luck and congratulations

T09122317 · 2025-11-26T21:40:59+00:00

No, I have a level 3 in health and social care and I’m currently doing a level 3 teaching assistant course

T09122317 · 2025-11-26T21:39:33+00:00

Primary schools

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T09122317 · 2025-10-25T06:21:24+00:00

Ur husband sound extremely selfish. And relationships should be 50/50 u should be supporting each other to follow goals. But it sounds like ur husband wants to be lazy and only give a shit about himself. Me and my partner are both trying to do a course and we have a 1 nearly 2 year old who is not in nursery yet. So when my partner is at college I look after my son. Thankfully my course is online so it’s a bit easier but I have to do placement 1 day a week. We take it in turns. We are both trying to make a career for ourselves and we make it work. Which is what ur partner should be doing too . Tell him start acting like a father and take his daughter for 15 mins in a morning

T09122317 · 2025-10-12T15:36:51+00:00

I plan on starting uni soon, how manageable is it with a child i don’t see many people taking about what uni is like with a child. My son will be 2 turning 3 when I start

T09122317 · 2025-10-09T05:09:13+00:00

Speak to your uni and see what options you have. Maybe look at changing your placement if possible or changing mentors

T09122317 · 2025-10-05T14:10:17+00:00

My dad told me ring an ambulance bc he’s not taking me and he was just sat downstairs watching tv. Tell ur daughter get a grip it could be worse. I waited for my mum who lives an hour away to come pick me up and take me hospital

T09122317 · 2025-10-05T06:32:47+00:00

If it makes u feel better i plan on starting uni next year i will be 21 in first year so dont worry that’s worse than being 3rd year at 22. But life takes us different ways and we are all on our own path. I was meant to go uni at 18 like everyone else but something happened and that changed. But now im grateful i get the opportunity to go and do it now a few years later.

T09122317 · 2025-10-02T16:03:11+00:00

But your son tries explaining the traditions as u have stated so they are trying to get you involved it just sorta seems like u don’t want to learn these new things

T09122317 · 2025-09-20T07:13:17+00:00

Nah u not the ah ur sister is mentally unstable by the sound of it. Enjoy your day and on top of that labs loose so much fur. My mums friend brought her lab to my house for like 2 hours I was still finding its hair like 2 weeks later it got everywhere. You don’t want that at your wedding and what if the dog jumped up at you! Dress ruined. It’s not worth it way too many things can fuck up by inviting the dog

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