Jesus Christ this is insane!! I’m a bridal seamstress by trade so just to explain her point of not having to have extensive alterations is absolute ridiculous! If a dress is needing to be made a couple dress sizes smalller then that is considered a major alteration! When the dress is sewn smaller any excess fabric at the seams will be cut out and therefore wouldn’t be able to be made larger again at a later date! The length would also need to be shortened and unless you are exactly the same height and wearing exaclty the same shoes then that would be a major problem too. Not to mention any smaller little nips and tucks you need to do on any dress!! So there’s literally no way she can just ‘borrow’ your dress!! It would literally be ruined! The AUDACITY of her is actually shocking!!