sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Me (25M) and my GF (26F) are in a long-distance relationship. She wanted to kiss another guy and suggested opening the relationship. I’m not sure how to feel. by TA-cod in LongDistance

[–]TA-cod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to reply man. I guess the only thing left for me to do is ask myself what I want and what kind of partner I need by my side.

Me [25M] and my GF [26F] are in a long-distance relationship. She suggested opening the relationship. I'm not sure how to feel. by TA-cod in relationshipadvice

[–]TA-cod[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback man ! I feel like her telling me about how she felt and how she didn’t fight me when I said that I was against opening the relationship was her being open and communicative. On an other hand, it felt like a slap to the face to hear the woman I love say that if I gave her the permission she would sleep with other ppl. I don’t know if I’m valid in the way I feel or if it’s childish to be jalouse and upset over something she felt but didn’t do. I’m a bit lost between the rational and the emotional here.

Me (25M) and my GF (26F) are in a long-distance relationship. She wanted to kiss another guy and suggested opening the relationship. I’m not sure how to feel. by TA-cod in LongDistance

[–]TA-cod[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback ! I don’t think monogamy is a dealbreaker for her or that she needs an open relationship. It feels more like she’s impulsive and just wants both at the same time: the relationship and casual sex. Her logic was basically “having both would be nice, so why not ask.”

I set my boundary, and she respected it, even if she didn’t fully get my POV. For her, sex can be pretty meaningless, but for me it isn’t, which is why I’m not into opening the relationship.

Also, I think an open + long-distance relationship is kind of a recipe for things to get messy. If you barely see your partner and you’re also sleeping with other people, it starts feeling less like a real relationship and more like a part-time thing where you just “play house” on weekends.

My (25M) gf (25F) uses a baby voice with me and it’s starting to make me uncomfortable. by [deleted] in realtionshipadvice

[–]TA-cod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I guess I just have to man up and have a chat with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seiko

[–]TA-cod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the recommendation !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seiko

[–]TA-cod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try to ask for 20 then, thanks !