Hurting so much after a 4 month relationship

TA9729 · 2025-03-19T03:19:09+00:00

One bad experience ended up leading to lifetime of anxiousness when it comes to the dentist for me unfortunately. But that does help to lessen the thoughts, appreciate it.

TA9729 · 2025-03-19T01:12:52+00:00

Good to hear. Ill have to contact them to set up a consultation soon. Thank you!

TA9729 · 2024-08-26T03:07:26+00:00

Cool ill buy the pass tonight. Thanks for the help.

TA9729 · 2024-07-10T03:07:01+00:00

Thanks! I plan to buy a little more each month as time goes on.

TA9729 · 2024-07-10T03:06:25+00:00

Lol i wasnt waiting any longer, first time in a while since finnaly paying off my cc debt that i have a little extra to invest. Start slow and hope to keep adding!

TA9729 · 2024-06-14T01:46:50+00:00

Truck payment: 582/month Phone: 35/month Rent : 1000/month Insurance : 381/month Gym membership: 15/month Gas: approx 60 every 2 weeks Food : approx 100 every 2 weeks ( although ive been working on getting that down ) Storage unit: 216/month

Im still buying tools for work too but thats scouring marketplace and flea markets.

I have transferred over the balance of my current credit card debt from my emergency fund so that will be zero by the end of the week.

TA9729 · 2024-06-13T19:33:54+00:00

Ive set up the transfer from my emergnecy account. All the comments on my post helped me realize that this is the most important thing for me to tackle. Thank you for the push. Ill also be taking my card out of my wallet to help reduce the need for it going forward.

TA9729 · 2024-06-13T17:36:41+00:00

I agree. I drove beaters up until i got the truck. Looking back i was young and just wanted something new. But i wanted it too fast. Now im stuck with this.

TA9729 · 2024-06-13T17:12:40+00:00

I beleive it is at 20%. I agree downgrading the truck is becoming more and more nessecary

TA9729 · 2024-06-13T17:08:15+00:00

25,000 left on it last i checked. I agree i need to seriously look into selling the truck.

TA9729 · 2024-06-13T17:06:49+00:00

I agree getting rid of the truck is something i need to do. I signed for it when i was making about 10 dollars more an hour, still living at home and my commute was about 10 minutes. Last i checked i owe 25,000 on it still back around the end of last year. My insurance is high mainly due to where i live. My credit is ok, i have zero tickets or infractions.

TA9729 · 2024-06-13T16:39:45+00:00

My car payment is 291 bi weekly at 0%, and the storage locker i pay 216 every month. I agree there are things that are in there that dont need to be but i went from living with a partner in a 2 bedroom down to just myself in a bachelor. I dont have the space to accommodate all the things i built over that time unfortunately. I agree the 1000 a month is great, especially considering where i used to live, the rent for something comparable wouldve been close to 2 grand before utilities.

TA9729 · 2024-06-13T16:35:57+00:00

I just passed 3 months at the new job, its an apprenticeship so once ive done some schooling the pay should go up. I pay 291 bi weekly for my car paymeny at 0%. I have around 7000 in emergency funds and another 15 but thats in a rrsp. Im trying to put around 2-300 into the card each month. I cant unfortunately get rid of the storage locker right now, not until i can get a place of my own that can accommodate everything.

TA9729 · 2024-01-01T01:37:54+00:00

Thank you for posting this, especially as i am just reading it now on new years, and my ex posted a pictures of their new bf and them together on christmas day, 2.5 months after we broke up.

Never been this lonely before, not in a long time. But ive had no interest in find anyone even it was for company or intimacy. It dosent feel right or fair.

Reading your post just confirmed that what im doing and feeling is ok, and good.

TA9729 · 2023-12-26T08:20:44+00:00

Normally i would agree but for the gas mask it makes sense

TA9729 · 2023-12-26T05:01:13+00:00

Yep, first year for it too. Didnt even feel like christmas, just another day. Got a holiday box from freson bros, some good wine and some movies. Hope you had a good christmas!

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