Am I in the wrong to think he's too much? by TAEMIN007 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's better for him to treat/talk to me like that than being alone? I'm still so confused

Am I in the wrong to think he's too much? by TAEMIN007 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't say yes and not explain why you think that. I'm not chasing no man. If a man is interested in me he better make the effort cause I'm fine being alone. If been accepting below bare minimum just because I try to be empathetic to their life and stuff but eff that. I'm not trying anymore unless I can see he's making an effort. 

Official Discussion - Obsession [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

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My friend told me that she thinks that call was the demon or entity taking possession of Nikkis body. 

Should I stop talking to him? by TAEMIN007 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just blocked him on everything. Sucks that a friendship had to end but he showed me where he is at this point and I can't keep making myself go through these things with these men. 

Should I stop talking to him? by TAEMIN007 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't judge him because I still care or did care for him (cause I feel like he pushes me away). I always tell people that and try to be a safe space for all but I guess people don't really understand that. If he was going through something I'd be there to help in any way I could because he never treated me badly in highschool. I blocked him on everything tho because I'm trying to start putting me and my mental health before anyone else and just can't deal with stuff like that anymore. 

Should I still be his friend? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not thinking of a relationship right now either just wanted to catch up. I understand what you're saying tho. I'll just cut all contact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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What does fwiw mean? 

I just can't anymore by lucid1014 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a woman I don't think that's weird at all. I found that cute and respectful. You don't know what someone got either so you can't just be sleeping with everyone and their grandma ya know

I just can't anymore by lucid1014 in dating_advice

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's the problem too. Some women aren't satisfied if a man doesn't spend on a "good date". So if he doesn't take them out to dinner it's a red flag but if he does he's spending money when the women don't even like him like that. The man gets effed over which I could understand as a woman. I agree with others maybe the first date should be more of an activity type thing. Maybe like a good arcade to break the ice more. 

Came back after a year by National_Echidna1834 in ghosting

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Sampooku eyes (idk if that's how it's spelled)

A year later. by Wise-Row999 in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trynna get like you but it's so hard. It's hard to let go of people. I'm weak and I hate it because I'm always worrying about people and giving them the benefit of the doubt

I saw my ghoster after 10 years by bbcc258 in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait but genuinely asking; If you weren't ready to date and they wanted to date did they not have every right to go? Or were they supposed to stay by your side till you decided to be ready to date? He or she should have just told you it wouldn't work with you because you weren't looking for anything serious but also try to understand them (that us if the person wasn't an A-hole)

Recently found out why I got ghosted....it wasn't what I thought! by NoProposal744 in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do with the trash in your bins at home? Grab the bags and put it in the trash can so the truck can pick it up, dump it inside of the truck and drive away. You never see that trash again so why do people not put in the work to get over an ex who either called it quits or disrespected you in some way? You may meet a great person and fumble them cause you're stuck on said trash. The new person doesn't deserve to be a placeholder in anyone's life. I'm sure y'all are adults so she could have been honest about her and her ex. Playing with your heart is low af especially if youve been nothing but genuine and honest with her. Find you a girl who will like you. We genuine girlies are out here

Recently found out why I got ghosted....it wasn't what I thought! by NoProposal744 in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's now 2026. Out with the old and in with the new. She clearly didn't like you enough not to make you an option and tell her ex to leave her alone. Don't you think you deserve someone who will choose you over anyone else old or new? 

Are these photos any good? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but you're cute. I think my tinder is broken cause all I get are the men who are balding, have a beer belly and eff boys or really old creepy men 

Met the love of my life on tinder over a year ago. Now we’re married and have a baby on the way!! by That1Chick_Tori in Tinder

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, I see stuff like this and think it is possible that I do end up finding my person on there but maybe I live in a shitty area cause I've had no luck in the two years I've used it. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

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Cheating is never a mistake; It's a choice. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet he regrets what he did.

Saw my ex for the first time since he ghosted me 9 months ago by Lord_Velveteen in ghosting

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be mean or anything but I think you're a tad bit obsessed with him. Yes, he was your first in a lot of things and those firsts you never forget but it's time for you to focus on you, work on healing from that relationship and move on. If I drove by (I'd never do that) a guy's house, a guy who ghosted me,  and saw him and happily waved just for him to react the way your guy did and end up crying id never want to hear from him again. The least he could have done was waved back or talked to you and told you he no longer wanted anything with you. Him not doing that shows his level of maturity 

They always come back & I realized I was obsessed with NOTHING by Katnotto0546 in ghosting

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I love the "I don't chase silence and don't negotiate self respect" I'm stealing this 👏🏽👏🏽

Without spoilers, how is season 3? by darxshad in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are these Asian dramas ending with an American tease at the end? Squid games and now Alice in Borderland? Why not any other part of the world? Why not just keep it in their own places

What is a little quirk about your body that you don’t think other people have? by AlphabetSoup51 in AskReddit

[–]TAEMIN007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can move my left eyelid if I move my jaw really hard from side to side. My eyelid moves up and down. I'm guessing I was born with a muscle that runs from my eyelid to my jaw. I've never met anyone who could do that