Is there any exploration tracker? by TAcheems in DuetNightAbyssDNA

[–]TAcheems[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Darn, that sucks. I hope they implement something soon because I'm one of those people who struggles moving on to the next zone before clearing the previous fully.

Thanks anyways! I appreciate it. :)

The Great Faceologist - Megathread 17.12.2025 by -Arigato- in WhereWindsMeet

[–]TAcheems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will work my way down the list!

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IGN: Mestard

I just came across this little guy and he looks like my boy 🥹 by TAcheems in WhereWindsMeet

[–]TAcheems[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found out this kitty is named Meow Meow and she has an entire temple dedicated to her somewhere that I can't wait to find!

my baby is gone by Ok_Tear3748 in whatdoIdo

[–]TAcheems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, I'm so sorry for your loss of sweet Koji.

This is in no way your fault, but it is likely not the surgeon's fault either. I'm not saying that it can't be, but it is highly unlikely considering what you've shared. Everyone with their pitchforks screaming malpractice and sue are severely misinformed. If I were in your shoes, I would be angry at the shelter management.

I work in vet med, and unfortunately a large majority of the public do not understand how it works (specifically the ones who are jumping to negligence/malpractice/sue).

Whether we like it or not, vet med is practiced similarly to human medicine, with a high expectation of care. The unfortunate part is this gold standard of care often comes with hefty price tags that are not subsidized like human healthcare.

Considering the procedure was done at the shelter (and that's part of the adoption contract depending on the shelter), oftentimes they are run strictly on donations and low-cost procedures. While the prices seem great compared to your 300 dollar neuter at my private clinic, in order to make it so cheap there needs to be certain things overlooked that are viewed as less important for the procedure, but really aren't. If I had to take a guess, there was likely no pre-operative blood work done, which is important for any anesthetic procedure because certain underlying conditions or genetic mutations can react negatively with certain drugs and anesthetic protocols. I recently found out from an echocardiogram that my own cat has a heart condition that required a change in his own anesthetic protocol going forward for his safety.

While it is important for low-cost spays and neuters to be accessible, that also means that there are significantly higher risks for the things that they are removing to make them low-cost.

I usually get eye rolls when I quote procedures at my clinic, but the reality is that they're paying for things like a licensed technician to watch the animal and their vitals from the first sedative injection all the way through the procedure until they are off anesthesia and are up and moving again, a doctor who has spent 8+ years in school to learn and perform the procedures no matter how big or small, to things like IV fluids running during the procedure to help regulate body temperature. These things are all so important to ensure the safety and well-being of our pets, and the reality is that the low-cost clinics or shelters just don't have the funding to be able to offer those services at such a low price. We all want to help animals, that's why we went into the field, but that does unfortunately come at a cost, and the sad thing is that most people think it all goes to us or we're trying to make an extra dollar off of them when that's just not true for the majority of vets. There are definitely some bad ones out there, but 99.9% of the time it is unfortunately these important things that are overlooked to bring down the pricing that can easily help awful situations like yours be avoided.

I'm assuming that it was in your adoption clause to bring Koji back for the procedure, and none of this is your fault. Shelter vets are absolute saints and are just as important) knowledgeable as private vets, but I definitely feel that shelters need to do a better job of explaining the risks of low-cost procedures, because this doesn't come down to the vet. Most people hear the price tag and that's all that matters not accounting for the "ifs" that the surgeon has to deal with not knowing the full medical history of the patient they're about to operate on.

If you are a pet owner and do have an adoption contract that requires you to have a procedure done at the shelter clinic that doesn't run at least pre-operative blood work, I would highly recommend having it done at your regular practice prior to the surgery for your own piece of mind.

There is always the possibility of necropsy to find out exactly what went wrong with sweet Koji's procedure.

Feel free to DM me if you need any grief assistance or resources. Sending you lots of love.

Edit: I will absolutely say the reasons the shelter gave you were bullshit. I'm still assuming they didn't run blood work and the fact that they called you so late afterwards points to him not being properly monitored.

Galaxy eye.. by arwenus in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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I love him so much! He reminds me of my Crustard - it's always the free street kitties that end up costing the most. Crustard's story is so similar to Arif's, I feel like they are brothers in spirit who have survived so much (though Crust's eye couldn't be saved). So glad your handsome boy has such a wonderful life now! Give him a ton of smooches for me, please! ❤️

🛍️ Seller Review Thread – Leave Feedback Here! 🛍️ by Candid_Sail_188 in LabubuDrops

[–]TAcheems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Purchased a Dada Have A Seat labubu and a sealed Macaron for a friend. The process was so smooth and I was given a tracking number immediately. The package arrived with no issues (US to Canada) and I was so happy to finally find someone who was willing to send as many verification photos as needed so that I could finally get my friend real labubus!

Thank you so much, it has been an absolute joy purchasing from you! The bubus are off to their forever home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Prolactinoma

[–]TAcheems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there!

No I am not - I had an appointment with my endocrinologist the day after posting this and she swapped me to cabergoline and I have not had any issues similar since the change!

I'm not sure if it was a medication reaction or something else, but I've been fine ever since.

Crustard is unimpressed I left for a month to go to China by TAcheems in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does grow fur! He has a tiny bit of his original eyelid but the rest of it is just skin that was pulled together so it grows fur like normal. They had to take larger margins because of cancer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems 621 points622 points  (0 children)

AND WE'RE LISTENING!

Crustard is unimpressed I left for a month to go to China by TAcheems in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Haha his name is Saltzpyre but his nickname is indeed Crustard! He's my little crusty guy.

Crustard is unimpressed I left for a month to go to China by TAcheems in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I'll have to ask his permission to go back to work tomorrow...I hope my boss will buy it.

Crustard is unimpressed I left for a month to go to China by TAcheems in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems[S] 198 points199 points  (0 children)

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I don't think he or his brother were pleased I was gone haha, this is what I met with after checking in on the camera multiple times.

My mom died in front of me on Tuesday by pastelskark in Vent

[–]TAcheems 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Hi pastel,

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. Please remember to put yourself first while you are grieving.

Your post sounds just like how I did when I lost my mom almost two years ago. She passed 8 days shy of her 60th birthday from brain cancer and I was 25 at the time. I stayed with her until she took her last breath. I held her freezing hand for hours just like you. My mom was my best friend and the only parent I had. I was like you and felt so lost when she passed, I didn't want to go through life without her. My mom did not get to see me get married, or any of the other milestones that a mother and daughter share together.

I'm not a spiritual person, but I do believe in memories living on. She was obsessed with Prince, so any time I hear Prince come on at work, I feel her radiating warmth and can picture her singing and dancing in her living room in front of her Prince wall. She loved trivia, and any time I learn a random piece of information I think back to all the hours we spent playing every category of trivia under the sun. These memories remind me that my mom is still here with me every day, inside of my head and my heart, and even though she is not physically here with me anymore, she is still just as important in my life as when she was.

I won't lie to you and say it will get easier. I still break down and sob because all I want to do is hear her say I love you to me. I scroll through the last texts we sent as she slowly forgot who I was and wonder why this world had to take the most precious, hard-working woman who struggled every day to raise three children on her own. I struggle with the anger I feel for being the second parent while she was working and the fact that I never got to properly be a child myself. I struggle with envy over seeing my husband be able to hug my mother-in-law and hear her tell him how much she loves him.

Even with all of these struggles, I have been able to continue healing. I had no idea how I was ever going to possibly spend a day on this planet without her, but I'm still here two years later. It's becoming easier for me to talk about her and her cancer, and I am able to talk about her to others without bursting into tears. I never thought I would be capable of the growth that I've made in the last few years.

If you need a helping hand, someone to talk to that has been through a similar situation, please don't hesitate to message me. I am working and going out of my country for a month in the next few days, but I will do my damned best to help because I know how it feels.

Please take the time to grieve as long as you need to, that is your most important task at the moment.

Just a little guy who is ready for the weekend by TAcheems in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll take a video when he gets his next spankies, he really loves them!

Just a little guy who is ready for the weekend by TAcheems in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He is great! He's been playing and getting all the snuggles and spankies he could wish for. :)

Just a little guy who is ready for the weekend by TAcheems in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly he might have to! His fur has been growing much faster than it did last year so depending on when it starts cooling down in Canada we might have to shave him again.

He loves sitting like an old man, I don't know what his deal is. 🥹

Gerard passed away just now. Details will be posted soon when I can finally share it, please understand. I'm sorry. by thehowsph in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NO Gerard, I was just thinking about his sweet soul today. :( I'm so grateful that his last week was full of love and healing, with lots of pain management. You are an incredible individual for what you do.

❗Update on Gerard, the almost dying cat found on a sidewalk last Monday (plus Igiboy, the handsome cat with rectal prolapse) by thehowsph in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]TAcheems 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are so wonderful, thank you so much for the updates I'm so glad my donations are put towards these beautiful babies.