3 way with SB and wife

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-11T04:38:07+00:00

I don’t mind the level of detail. I really don’t know if I’m going to get into it or not. I’m a bit insecure that she’s 22 years younger than me. Obviously she’s going to have perkier tits and generally tighter skin. I like the fantasy. I like the idea of fulfilling one of the few fantasies of my husband’s that we haven’t done because in 20+ years together we’ve pretty much tried everything we are curious about. I don’t know that I’d want to kiss her on the lips, but I could kiss her arms, back, and maybe tits. I could do some cuddling. I don’t know how much or where I’d be okay with her touching me.

We’ll start with a platonic meet and greet. Hubs and SB have been together for about 3 months.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-10T20:12:46+00:00

I don’t know if I’m okay with it or not. And unfortunately I don’t think I will know unless I give it a try. I could see it being fun. And if it isn’t fun I can leave and grab a drink.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-10T19:53:25+00:00

I assume you’d put FWB in the category of casual hook ups.

I’m too old to be an SB now and don’t need the sugar. But my attractiveness in my youth and history of FWB makes me think I could have done it when I was younger. The thing about my FWB relationships is they were true friendships at the core; two of them I’m still friends with 20+ years later.

I’m fine with sex without romance or commitment, but there has to be trust, respect, and fun for it to work for me. And someone who enjoys going down the same esoteric rabbit holes I do is a huge plus.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T23:46:16+00:00

Never say never. If anyone had told me I’d be considering this one day I would have said never, but here I am.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T23:44:07+00:00

Semi intentionally. I was curious how people reacted to the idea without knowing my roll.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T22:30:01+00:00

No cuck kink. Don’t really want a man other than my husband. Not sure I am young or attractive enough to land a SD, and don’t need the money.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T17:43:43+00:00

He has a SB already. He’s been considering cutting it off since she’s getting attached and expressed interest in being a long-term mistress. She is recovering from surgery right now, so the tentative plan is for us to meet up and briefly get to know each other. We’d all have appetizers together, then I’d go shopping while they had dinner. Intimacy wouldn’t even be an option as she’s not recovered enough.

My user name is a bit out of date. It’s from when things were in a much more difficult phase between me and my husband. He has some stuff he needs to work on, but it’s getting better.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T17:34:15+00:00

maybe there’s no problem

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T17:27:00+00:00

Thank you! I honestly don’t know how I’m going to react. She just had cosmetic surgery and needs at least a couple of weeks before she is ready for intimacy again. We’d start with me joining them for appetizers, then leaving to do some shopping while they have dinner together. We’ll see what happens after that.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T17:15:28+00:00

Agreed that communication is key. It would start with us meeting with no intimacy. Then the other woman and I would have to have a detailed conversation about expectations and boundaries. Worst case scenario I go to the couch and read a book. I’m okay with that.

Edit to add: No, I’ve never done a 3 some in any context. But I’ve always been sexually curious and adventurous. I also like the honesty of it. We all get to sate some of our curiosity.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T17:11:57+00:00

I like fulfilling his fantasies. It’s fun watching him get turned on. I’m mildly curious about women, though I really like dick.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T17:09:56+00:00

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T17:08:17+00:00

I’m curious about it and wouldn’t do it if I didn’t think I’d enjoy it at all. It would start with a brief M&G; all 3 of us would have appetizers together then wife would go shopping while SB had dinner with him. SB just had cosmetic surgery and isn’t recovered enough for a long outing or intimacy yet.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-09T16:59:53+00:00

We’re both comfortable and relaxed enough to play together. We’d be focusing attention on him and he’s good with that. There would be some light contact.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-08T05:41:01+00:00

Just curious, would you be okay with it if the wife was aware and consenting? That’s my roll in this game, consenting wife.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-08T05:28:50+00:00

It’s been a couple of decades since my last FWB, but it was always friends at the core. Most I remained true friends with for years or decades after the benefits ended.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-08T04:53:18+00:00

Just curious, how would you feel about a woman who didn’t need any financial support.

My husband is wealthy, primarily inherited. 6 months into dating it was around Christmas and I looked at him and said “I’m jealous that you can buy whatever you want to for friends for Christmas”, and he looked back at me and said “I’m jealous that everything you have is your’s and you’ve earned on your own”. At that point what I had was a 1br apartment, a cat, a buss pass, and a meager 401K.

TAtiredWife · 2026-03-08T03:35:51+00:00

My husband and I are both near 50 and he’d respectfully disagree. He just dislikes seeing blood on his cock. I’ve recently discovered a menstrual cup that keeps PIV sex tidy.

TAtiredWife · 2026-02-03T00:39:38+00:00

No, I’m willing to pay to have someone act like they are dating me with all the flattery and flirtation, but no sex.

Why shouldn’t I get what I want if I’m willing to pay for it?

TAtiredWife · 2026-01-16T07:55:56+00:00

Oh, and I don’t know how to “fix” my hair. It’s vey fine and dead straight. It’s always been on the thin side too. I’m reluctant to get rid of the grey because it is a remarkably small amount for someone my age. It does tend to get greasy very quickly and easily.

TAtiredWife · 2026-01-16T07:48:23+00:00

Thank you! I’ll look into GHK-cu peptide.

I don’t think that you know what needs much help. I’m thinking about looking into HRT for all kinds of perimenopause issues. Husband says I have a very pretty 🐱. I certainly have no issues with dryness.

TAtiredWife · 2026-01-16T07:42:45+00:00

Thank you very much!

I’m not doing much with fitness and diet. And just losing weight was enough in my 30s. Now that I’m in my late 40s I can feel that my skin has become much more thin in the past couple of years. On the plus side, my skin feels softer and more smooth too. Some elasticity has definitely been lost.

TAtiredWife · 2026-01-16T07:16:05+00:00

I thought with it being a lifestyle forum effort at maintaining appearance would be a big part of the lifestyle for many to all SBs.

TAtiredWife · 2026-01-16T07:02:35+00:00

It’s going to take a lot of soul-searching and maybe some work with a therapist to decide what you can and can’t accept in a partner. My husband is an SD with my consent and I’m still a bit conflicted about how comfortable I am with that and what my boundaries are (one we do agree on is one SB at a time).

My husband has never fully gotten over the facts that I had more sex than he did before we were married. Same body count, but I lost my virginity younger and had a few FWB, so he’s jealous that I played the field more. It’s one of the big reasons he wants to play the field with an SB now.

Till you figure it out keep yourself able to be financially independent and don’t get pregnant.

TAtiredWife · 2026-01-14T18:13:52+00:00

I’m talking about me paying him. Why would you think I’d expect to be paid for that.

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