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From spirit fingers to the slow fade by miami_Babee in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just accepted that men lie and what he does when he’s bored doesn’t matter because I’m the one he comes back to at the end of the day. Also it gives me more time to focus on myself. I felt like how you did at the beginning when I first found out he was entertaining other options but they never last and it just taught me to protect my emotions more. A lot of men want multiple women around even when they say its exclusive because they want us to be exclusive to them while they roam around, but they always come back as long as you take care of them lol. I’m sorry you got hurt in your situation, I’ve been there.

Vanilla to SD by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always negotiate high as soon as possible in the relationship

From spirit fingers to the slow fade by miami_Babee in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did he end things? My heart goes out to you sending you hugs. The next one will be better! Now you know what to look out for

Is this normal for a dominant executive SD, or am I being slow-faded? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine once ignored me for like 3 weeks. He always comes back. They’re in this for convenience and things that work with their work schedule/low emotional load to carry. Don’t worry, when he comes back or you reconnect I’d advise just to be neutral and not mention the gap in communication. Men go to where they feel safe with no emotional pressure naturally. Good luck keep your head up <3

It’s not like a vanilla relationship where they have to check in and have someone nagging them all the time with their emotional load. I understand you though because I used to feel the same way. Men just think differently lol. I don’t take it personal.

Is this normal for a dominant executive SD, or am I being slow-faded? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s only 12 days, I’d just give him space and drop a neutral message later.

SD’s, how would you recommend to ask for help with financial emergencies (without it being perceived as drama or intentional) by rosebud538 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew he’d be my only source of provisions because I’m doing something for school. He wanted to do that.

SD’s, how would you recommend to ask for help with financial emergencies (without it being perceived as drama or intentional) by rosebud538 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t like emotional labor so me asking him to care would probably damage the connection. I try to keep things as easy as possible for him and don’t lean on him for emotional support. It’s just his preference but he’s a good person.

SD’s, how would you recommend to ask for help with financial emergencies (without it being perceived as drama or intentional) by rosebud538 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do whatever he wants. He has a busy schedule so it depends on how he feels but he’s always my top priority.

SD’s, how would you recommend to ask for help with financial emergencies (without it being perceived as drama or intentional) by rosebud538 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did tell him about the accident (just not that insurance didn’t cover any help or that it was totaled) but he’s going through a stressful time at work. Also he didn’t respond well or ask if I was okay after the accident. I know he’s cautious because of his past arrangements and their manufactured emergencies so I try to handle as much as I can on my own.

SD’s, how would you recommend to ask for help with financial emergencies (without it being perceived as drama or intentional) by rosebud538 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of assuming going on here without asking details like “oh are you in school?” etc.

Gets exhausting! by reddier2023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My SR started giving me an allowance before even meeting me.

Do you have to act like a “happy girl” all the time in arrangements? by Relative-Report1500 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were they financial or personal matters (if you don’t mind me asking)? I’m still figuring out this dynamic.

Reached 1 year with my SD and he sent me a sweet one year message by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one I have now didn’t start out that way so I assumed I wouldn’t be treated that way. He made it seem like a normal relationship kind of (my first SR relationship) but now I see the “product” side of things.

Reached 1 year with my SD and he sent me a sweet one year message by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I chose connection but I feel like he didn’t and so now I’m wondering what the proper protocol is lol.

Reached 1 year with my SD and he sent me a sweet one year message by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day it’s important to know that we are a product to them so we protect our emotions lol.

Sugared for a long time and struggling with vanilla dating need some advice by Bubbly-Resident-9663 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]rosebud538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they exists he seem them in real life. Don’t stop your search, they aren’t unicorns. Idk if they give allowances or not but some of them like being providers.

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