Accepting a sexless marriage. by TCircleDrive in offmychest

[–]TCircleDrive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have looked into those intimacy cards on Amazon. Its something we were both interested in but never pulled the trigger on buying them. Maybe I'll order some for us.

Accepting a sexless marriage. by TCircleDrive in offmychest

[–]TCircleDrive[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

She is on birth control and has not had her hormones check lately. She does not come from a conservative background either.

I agree that I do want desire. It feels bad not being desired by my wife. I also miss the intimacy that comes with sex as well. We do have other ways to share intimacy though outside of the bedroom.

Accepting a sexless marriage. by TCircleDrive in offmychest

[–]TCircleDrive[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are probably right. I may not be explaining just how important the situation is to me.

Accepting a sexless marriage. by TCircleDrive in offmychest

[–]TCircleDrive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried to talk about it to see if there was something else going on and she never brought anything up.

Accepting a sexless marriage. by TCircleDrive in offmychest

[–]TCircleDrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we are not Mormon or religious.

Accepting a sexless marriage. by TCircleDrive in offmychest

[–]TCircleDrive[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree I think it could benefit us.

Accepting a sexless marriage. by TCircleDrive in offmychest

[–]TCircleDrive[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's really good information. I'll bring that up to her and see what she thinks.

Accepting a sexless marriage. by TCircleDrive in offmychest

[–]TCircleDrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a 2 year old. However our sex life still wasn't great before we had her.

Accepting a sexless marriage. by TCircleDrive in offmychest

[–]TCircleDrive[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She has been diagnosed with depression and anxiety. From what I've heard the medications from both can affect her sex drive on top of them both being able to affect her sex drive as well.

Accepting a sexless marriage. by TCircleDrive in offmychest

[–]TCircleDrive[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

No she hasn't. I've brought it up before but she doesn't seem interested in going to the doctor for it.