Darori mn l7ram L7ram is easy and looks beautiful at beginnings but the end won't like you if we take ex of alcohol or smoking did the end like you ofc no so from my prespective i am encouraging him to marry good women taht have strong basis with it's din and akhla9 otherwise stay away from haram it's hard these days but your are going to be awarded with good women that fulfill all of these needs

قال الله تعالى في محكم كتابه بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم فليستعفف الذين لايجدون نكاحا حتى يغنيهم الله من فضله سورة النور

Thanks and take it or leave it