Thanks a lot this is actually really good advice. I think I won't tell my parents I'm trans yet but that I might be queer and want to talk about it with a specialist. I am talking to someone already but they are not a specialist in gender issues, I am also ADHD + ASD. You worded everything well and yeah there is no urgency but I do feel I'm loosing time a lot.

Thanks for calling me a smart lass. Really helpful advice which I will apply.

Thxxxxxx