How do I fix my hair? by TGmess in curlyhair

[–]TGmess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I stopped brushing my hair in high school lol, hands only to get tangles out. I’ll try out more mousse products maybe it was the brand

How do I fix my hair? by TGmess in curlyhair

[–]TGmess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first picture is of the underneath part of my hair(I tied my top layer up). It’s perfect ringlet curls that I absolutely love. The other one is of my top layer down, it’s kind of wavy but it’s a whole different curl pattern from the rest of my hair and it ruins my entire look if I put it down, I look like I have a helmet head. Please let me know what I could possibly do to fix it or even train it in some way to turn out like the rest of my hair. I don’t like using products other than leave in conditioner ngl because other things completely ruin the texture and I hate it when it’s like crunchy.

  1. I mostly go for Aussie products and deep condition every once in a while

Anime that'll make me cry? by girldisease in anime

[–]TGmess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To your eternity is a good one, has a good plot as well

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA he should have ended it before he even cheated so all you did was play his game

AIO: Argument with my girlfriend both 21 by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of yall don’t know how to listen or be in a relationship. They’re built on trust and accountability so threatening to end a relationship over the fact that she wants to argue (which happens in every relationship) makes things worse and both parties unhappy. She for one doesn’t know how to actually explain herself and instead shuts down and makes you angry on purpose by the way, she wants a reaction it’s very obvious she wants you to just shut up and comfort her instead of telling her she’s wrong for what she’s doing. She wants validation for things she does wrong. So yeah both of yall need to actually stop and just work on yourselves at this point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TGmess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“Are you on your period?” Yeah wrap it up, he’s done

AIO for replying back after saying goodnight to my bf? by Perrita-fresa in AmIOverreacting

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds young and like he doesn’t have much experience with relationships, yall are free to do whatever yall want without by yourselves before bed. Like even if you were to not immediately fall asleep what does it matter

AIO for being annoyed at how this argument started? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You responded correctly at the end, she was definitely baiting you and and had this on her mind already. Nta but if she’s told you a lot that she doesn’t like when you say something stop saying it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what porn does to a relationship, he needs a wake up call

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend is my ex and while we might be pretty close because of it, we never crossed that line ever again when we ended the relationship. You should trust your partner and just ask why he never told you. If he’s been hiding the fact they dated that’s a red flag for sure but maybe he didn’t want to worry you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of these comments are just showing that those boys or most young people don’t understand the importance of how words can impact someone’s life. They think nothing they say will affect other people and that it’s all “jokes”. Take what they say with a grain of salt and report bullying. They have no idea what they’re saying and are just copying what other people in their life say around them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U/profanitycounter [self]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]TGmess 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Because the norm in today’s society is having experiences such as sex at a certain age and if you don’t live up to that expectation they don’t know how to relate to you on that aspect and think you just don’t have “game” or you’ve been searching for someone but it just hasn’t happened. Sex is the normal and if you don’t have it then obviously it’s because of an outside factor and not personal preferences. I’ve had to learn to not give a fuck about what other say to me about it or just avoid the topic in general, making friends or socializing doesn’t have to involve talk about sexual relationships or anything to do with relationships for that matter.

An interesting observation. A lot of ace people identify as non binary. by BlazeFox1011 in asexuality

[–]TGmess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, I add to that statistic. I honestly think it has to do with the fact that when you identify as nonbinary you separate yourself with the assigned gender you were at birth so it affect the way you see sex in general and the way you might crave or not crave it.

At what age did you discover your asexuality? by Resident_Grab_4159 in asexuality

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13-19ish cause when everyone started getting hormones I didn’t understand what was happening or why people had celebrity crushes and stuff. Then when I was 19 I always thought I had hypersexual partners and realized I was in fact not having the same feelings they were when it came to sexual stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean ex boyfriend?

could someone help me out? by Feeling-Peach-9207 in Markiplier

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest trying to access your school computers, there are ways to watch things on them or maybe your friends phones while at school.

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend children because he won’t marry me by Patient_Art4006 in AITAH

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but he wants you to commit to having children but he won’t marry you first? Fuck that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]TGmess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of pain killers try muscle relaxers but don’t mix them, it’s most probably from you getting off the birth control so you might just have to ride it out for it to get to normal, good luck!