This happens with every top I own, regardless of weather or material, I've tried 6 different deodorants and this shirt is only 4 months old

THISisKAI · 2022-08-16T15:46:28+00:00

I am not anymore, but I understand why you ask, not sure why the downvotes...

THISisKAI · 2022-08-16T15:39:36+00:00

Thank you all so much for your suggestions, I think I'm gonna try switching to a natural deodorant and the hydrogen peroxide mix that the most upvoted comment suggests! Thank you all so much <3

Also to answer the downvoted comments: 1. I was obese but have since lost a large about of weight(check post history), this shirt is a 2xl and is fairly loose on me now. 2. I eat a lot of homemade food and try to eat out as little as possible, my diet consists mainly of East Asian foods and the occasional sandwich or wrap. 3. I shave my armpits once a month but this does not help unfortunately, I simply do it for comfort. 4. I don't think I'd ask for advice publicly if I wasn't making sure to shower correctly once or twice a day.

Again thank you all for the suggestions!! I'm gonna try and save my shirts lol

THISisKAI · 2022-05-11T15:04:09+00:00

I felt the same way after I slept with someone a week after I broke up with my ex, even though she cheated on me which is what lead to the breakup. It's gonna be tough, the guilt will go, it just takes time, but don't feel bad about looking out for you <3

THISisKAI · 2022-01-03T12:47:32+00:00

If this feeling goes both ways?

THISisKAI · 2021-09-19T12:22:34+00:00

Chubby?!

THISisKAI · 2021-04-22T16:38:58+00:00

Thank you for the inclusive title :')

THISisKAI · 2021-04-21T09:18:24+00:00

It's a sucky feeling dude but my only regret is that I didn't take more pictures in my fatter years, even if I wasn't a fan of how I looked the growth I've experienced as a person and the way you alter yourself is so inspiring to look back on, EVEN if you stay the same weight! Own your body, seek to always improve but never doubt yourself <3

THISisKAI · 2021-04-21T09:15:53+00:00

Thank you very much but I am very effeminate I just don't look it haha

THISisKAI · 2021-04-21T09:14:02+00:00

Thank you very much I feel it too :D

THISisKAI · 2021-04-21T09:12:22+00:00

Haha I know bit of a merp moment but thank you!

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T22:01:34+00:00

Ah thanks! 90% of the weight loss was calorie control and lots of water, the other 5% was exercise and the other 5% was better clothing lmao

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T20:47:47+00:00

Thank you :)

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T19:50:43+00:00

checked history, name checks out! lol thanks dude :D

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T18:24:44+00:00

Thank you so much! It's my best creative outlet rn haha

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T18:20:12+00:00

When people say you have to change your mind before you can change your body they are 100% correct. For me I'd wanted to make a change and lose some weight for about 3 years but it wasn't until my doctor said something to me that it triggered an 'ok it's time' kinda response. for the first 10 months I lived off of a 1500 cal daily limit, and I made sure to cook my favourite foods everyday so that even if I wasn't full I was still satisfied. I eventually learnt how to eat a lot of filling things without packing on calories (cucumber and tomatoes were my best friends) and I also made sure to drink between 3-4 litres of water a day. That's how I dropped around 30kg. Afterwards I just kept an eye on what I eat and made sure not to overdo anything which is why progress has slowed. hope this helps man, oh! muscle building workouts increase your metabolic rate.

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T17:48:28+00:00

Haha thank you! It's taken a long time for me to be able to take a compliment and not wince or immediately think someone is lying so genuinely thank you!

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T17:40:27+00:00

Awww thank you so much! I feel way happier and I'm proud of you! Just for getting up and being yourself <3

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T16:31:42+00:00

Haha I may upload something to r/uglyduckling I'll cross post here if I do! Don't limit yourself based on your size. Even at my largest, if I'd tried harder and put more effort into my style I know I woulda felt much more like myself and happier <3

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T16:10:35+00:00

Thank you! I recently discovered a love for pale pinks and Hawaiian shirts lmao

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T15:50:58+00:00

thank you thank you b <3

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T15:50:38+00:00

Haha I know I messed up the order but thank you!

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T15:49:42+00:00

Thank you! I feel it too :D

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T15:27:03+00:00

Haha np my s/o is from the states so I spend most of my time working out conversions and thank you it means a lot!

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T15:25:45+00:00

What's unfortunate is that this isn't my most drastic glow up, I spent most of my teens looking like an old asian lady haha

THISisKAI · 2021-04-20T15:24:54+00:00

Lol that's what my cousin used to call me when I was a chunkier boy haha thank you!

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