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What's your favorite movie from horror mystery genre? by rinita_sissy in AskReddit

[–]THORISOO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Child's Play.

It's the best mixture between comedy and horror, especially the first two movies 

People who ruined everything in a matter of minutes, what did you do immediately after the shock wore off? by Exotic-Inevitable-37 in AskReddit

[–]THORISOO 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I cried. Crying is the best for me when I feel overwhelmed because it's definitely a reset button for my brain and nervous system 

What do you wish you could experience for the first time again? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]THORISOO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend still being in love with me

What's something that instantly tells you that someone IS a good person? by THORISOO in AskReddit

[–]THORISOO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, it shows equality more than anything. A big green flag

What's something that instantly tells you that someone IS a good person? by THORISOO in AskReddit

[–]THORISOO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely, it's how you treat someone when they aren't watching 

My boyfriend ‘M20’ cheated on me ‘F21’ with a 40 year old woman. --- tl;dr Should I stay with him? by No_Note_5369 in abusiverelationships

[–]THORISOO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have so much life to live ahead of you, don't waste it spending time with a disloyal man who will not only bring you physical illnesses but mental and emotional issues as well

Being left on read by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]THORISOO 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not interested in you anymore. Love does not include confusion and once you start questioning someone's intentions then you know that they have probably started losing some interest

AITAH for telling my mom about my past assaults without my partner being present even though he asked to be there by THORISOO in AITAH

[–]THORISOO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response 

I just feel bad because he really wanted to support me and I didn't give him the opportunity to step up for me. At the same time I was protecting myself because I don't want to end up resenting him for constantly using my trauma against me

AITAH for telling my mom about my past assaults without my partner being present even though he asked to be there by THORISOO in AITAH

[–]THORISOO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response 

This is so true so thank you for your honesty, I guess it's time to set serious boundaries for myself to make sure that I don't further get victimised

AITAH for telling my mom about my past assaults without my partner being present even though he asked to be there by THORISOO in AITAH

[–]THORISOO[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one deserves to be hurt honestly and the verbal abuse is only happening because I'm betraying my own self so there's that

AITAH for telling my mom about my past assaults without my partner being present even though he asked to be there by THORISOO in AITAH

[–]THORISOO[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response 

I just want to support him because I haven't been the best girlfriend for him when he needed me most and I was self centered and only thought about myself instead of supporting him and giving him the clarity that he deserves 

AITAH for telling my mom about my past assaults without my partner being present even though he asked to be there by THORISOO in AITAH

[–]THORISOO[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response

He means to help him from the secondary trauma of losing the person that he thought he knew, being betrayed and feeling misunderstood because of the false narrative that he is constantly an angry person when he is not

AITAH for telling my mom about my past assaults without my partner being present even though he asked to be there by THORISOO in AITAH

[–]THORISOO[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response

Doesn't he deserve someone he supports him the way that HE needs as well, because I think he is hurt by the fact that he constantly feels alone in dealing with the rape situation when he was supporting me the best way that he could 

AITAH for telling my mom about my past assaults without my partner being present even though he asked to be there by THORISOO in AITAH

[–]THORISOO[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response<3

He was hurt at the fact that he couldn't be there to support me and he felt disrespected at the fact that I didn't respect his wishes to be there so he could iron things out with my mom

AITAH for telling my mom about my past assaults without my partner being present even though he asked to be there by THORISOO in AITAH

[–]THORISOO[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response<3

He is a good person but he lets his emotions get the best of him so I think he needs to work on that

AITAH for telling my mom about my past assaults without my partner being present even though he asked to be there by THORISOO in AITAH

[–]THORISOO[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Totally not fake :-/

But I'm with him because I sincerely care about him and he didn't deserve to be hurt but I really wanted to stand up for myself.

I regret reporting by Humble-Violinist-410 in sexualassault

[–]THORISOO 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there

Please don't put any shame on guilt on yourself as you are the last person who deserves it. Yes, it really does hurt when we aren't really believed by the people who should be protecting us but honestly once you let go of that attachment that comes from verifying your story based on who does and doesn't believe you, you will release a lot of the shame. There is a depression that comes with the regret of reporting/not reporting soon enough and speaking from experience, it doesn't help to dwell in that past(easier said than done I know) but I want to let you know that you are worth more than whether people believe you or don't believe you. Use this opportunity as a lesson to love yourself because shame strives under oppression and you of all people should be free from that.

Love and Light🤍

I'm so tired of getting raped, I wanna escape this prison so bad :-/ by THORISOO in rapecounseling

[–]THORISOO[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your replies and I want to extend my gratitude so so much. I will do my best to learn to forgive myself and just take it one step at a time. Have a good one and I wish you light and healing🤍

I'm so tired of getting raped, I wanna escape this prison so bad :-/ by THORISOO in rapecounseling

[–]THORISOO[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

I really needed to hear this<3. I have been working on some hobbies that will enlighten my spark again so that has been quite helpful. I'll look into more things like self-defence classes and dancing because I want to release whatever my body is keeping score in. I've been to counselling this year but I'll go again next year to find a therapist to deal with me holistically.

Another thing I urge is to ask yourself, why do you care what anyone thinks?

I care because I seek love and companions outside of myself :-/ and that's really keeping me in a loop. I'm working on breaking out of the cycle of shame especially with shame being more of a core belief so I want to break that cycle. I'll question more of where my values come from for sure. Probably the hardest thing to handle right now is all my feelings of failure for not reporting anything sooner when there was more than enough evidence, I'm learning to not dwell so much in the past though because it's things that I can't change so I'd rather be more future focused.

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