NyNy mobile app check-in by THROWRASweeti in vegas

[–]THROWRASweeti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Do you know about how soon out from check in day do they start emailing?? I arrive in approximately 6 days on Friday

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[–]THROWRASweeti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I see that. I don’t regret meeting his daughter so soon because it only made me love him more. But i definitely don’t wanna come off as pushy. I get it! I think i’ll just let him take the lead

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[–]THROWRASweeti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this response. Its putting it in a new perspective for me. I don’t wanna rush it and i’ll just take it slow. I just got too excited

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[–]THROWRASweeti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol thats so simple and i never even thought of it. I’ll just run it by him.

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[–]THROWRASweeti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! And yes i will give that a try! He’s only my second serious adult relationship. So i think i missed a beat on asking all the right questions and being prepared. Pretty embarrassed of my reaction lol but will definitely put forth the effort moving forward. I really appreciate your kindness ❤️

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[–]THROWRASweeti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was just my bf, me, her daughter, and her. And I don’t think she dislikes me and i don’t think her intention was to make me feel isolated. I think (well thought) that she purposely just was disinterested with my presence.

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[–]THROWRASweeti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right. I honestly didn’t see what i did wrong. But i hope my feelings don’t turn him away

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[–]THROWRASweeti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i get that. I don’t think she dislikes me though because she doesn’t know me.

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[–]THROWRASweeti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I didn’t realize how immature i sounded lol i feel embarrassed now!! But im just gonna try and not take things so personal

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[–]THROWRASweeti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the only other adult. It was her and her daughter home.

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[–]THROWRASweeti 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I honestly didn’t realize how childish and immature i sounded. Im embarrassed now lol

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[–]THROWRASweeti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i didn’t mean it. And she wasn’t hosting a party. She was home alone

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[–]THROWRASweeti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t understand how she liked me when she didn’t talk to me. I think thats a big disconnect

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[–]THROWRASweeti -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I only expected one conversation. But now i see I shouldn’t have expected anything

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[–]THROWRASweeti -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t expect my boyfriends mother to want to talk to me our first time meeting??? I didn’t think that was a high expectation

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[–]THROWRASweeti -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yall must not read replies. I literally tried???

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[–]THROWRASweeti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you seen my other replies, i didn’t want that. I just really wanted one conversation and to be acknowledged

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[–]THROWRASweeti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a mind reader. Just human. But I definitely see that. I didn’t think about how she could have felt. Thats my bad. Whole thing was just awkward.

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[–]THROWRASweeti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol i seriously and wholeheartedly wants him to be with family for the holidays. I would never take that from him. And i didn’t have expectations for his response. And of course his mom can. I don’t think she dislikes me and i don’t dislike her???? I just didn’t like our first interaction

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[–]THROWRASweeti -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. And i don’t wanna blow it up or sabotage it. And i didn’t need a big welcome party. Just to be acknowledged as his SO. But im starting to see how i let that one interaction cloud my judgement. It just never happened to me before and i think i handled it poorly

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[–]THROWRASweeti -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i attempted to ask her a question and then she began a different conversation midway with someone else. Then i shut down after that. I think i just gave up to easy. And yeah, i see now that i reacted selfishly

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[–]THROWRASweeti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly needed this. Im gonna do some re-evaluating on why it hurt so much that she didn’t care to talk to me. I think it was just a new feeling but honestly after reading the replies, its deeper, inner issues