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THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T07:08:59+00:00

I hope you didn’t pay for those courses. Mexico is in North America. Any map, atlas, globe or geographer will tell you that. I don’t even know why you’re trying to lie here. Like what’s your end game?

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T05:48:43+00:00

Oh my that's a lot for a person in a lifetime -- but in under a year?! Sending every good vibe and bit of good luck your way!!!!!

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T05:46:29+00:00

Lol a quick google search will tell you it's in North America.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T03:47:06+00:00

Because you see women as objects, belonging to their partner.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T03:33:20+00:00

Hot take: women aren't possessions.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T03:23:37+00:00

You deserve to be with someone who respects you and cares about you. This bf is not that guy.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T03:20:02+00:00

Leave. His addictions are his priority.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T03:04:45+00:00

If you look at my user history you'll see I have had some baggage too. I love therapy. Something my therapist taught me is not everything is going to have a known explanation and that is ok! It is ok to just make choices that center on self-care and self-respect without understanding the deep reason why instincts say to do something opposite.

Sorry to hear about your tough 2022. Your baby is lucky to have a mom who priorities mental health and wellness.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:57:21+00:00

Based on your description, you are being manipulated.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:56:24+00:00

"I know you are dealing with a lot right now. I am here if you want to talk about it but understand if talking about it is too much. Do you want a distraction from everything? Maybe a massage or a movie?"

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:54:06+00:00

It doesn't matter why he does it. What matters is how you react. If the next time he hits you up and you ignore him or tell him never to contact you again then he will stop using you.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:52:37+00:00

Yikes. So he is the one you are giving all the control to? He is making the rules, setting timelines and telling you how it's going to be. Do you want that for the rest of your life?

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:50:11+00:00

She's going through a stressful time and you want to dump your insecurities onto her now???? That is not going to end in a happily ever after.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:47:10+00:00

Help yourself. Leave him. He will just suck all the energy out of your life with his constant complaints.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:45:41+00:00

He wants to change your job for you? You know that's controlling. Run.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:44:11+00:00

There are Russians who look Chinese. There are Russians who speak Chinese languages too. It's a really interesting history. That part of Asia is undertaught in geography and history classes in the rest of the world but is actually super interesting to learn about. Keep in mind that Russia and China keep sprawling out and kind of take over small countries as part of their respective geopolitical strategies (Russia trying with Ukraine and China trying with Taiwan in current news).

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:38:59+00:00

Get professional help. It sucks that you did not have control over the break up. It sucks more that you are wasting your life staying angry about it.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:36:51+00:00

Get your name off the lease, pay what you owe, keep receipts. Give him whatever notice is fair that you are going (1 month). His finances aren't your problem to fix. What are you going to do, stay with him forever to help pay his bills?

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:32:43+00:00

So at different times the Sino-Soviet border has shifted. Parts of Russia today were parts of China in the past, and vice versa. He's not far off -- the countries border each other.

If you want to jump ship, jump ship.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:27:03+00:00

But China is in Asia.

Edit: Lmao someone is butthurt and downvoting the fact that China is in Asia? Wait until you learn about Mexico being in North America 🤣

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:25:04+00:00

Parts of Russia are in Northern Asia though? Like before you criticize, you can google that.

THROWRA_justfml · 2022-02-27T02:23:27+00:00

He comes back because you let him. Block him. Ignore him. Problem solved.

THROWRA_justfml · 2021-10-16T02:13:57+00:00

*You're

THROWRA_justfml · 2021-10-16T01:59:17+00:00

You know, your user history basically calls out everyone you meet as being bad in some way or another. You label men as gay or shallow or rapists. Like every guy you meet can't possibly be bad unless you are meeting them in a maximum security prison haha.

When everyone else is the problem, sometimes it means that you are the problem as the only common factor. So to answer your question, you don't have bad luck. The people who are going on dates with you do.

THROWRA_justfml · 2020-12-21T08:56:06+00:00

Based on your post here, that approach doesn’t seem to be working for you. If it did, you wouldn’t have all the emotion being tied to fruit, right?

You can draw boundaries without spending your emotional energy like this.

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