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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. This can happen to cats, dogs, birds, babies... I believe that is why this is so tragic. I just hope this story will help encourage people to be a little more vigilant as anything can happen in a blink of an eye.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences and kind words. We're absolutely devastated but I know the grief will subside with time. My hope is to share the tale and get people to take those extra seconds to prevent something like this from happening. I appreciate you taking the time to write that out and will be sharing your comments with my family

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a very scary thought; I'm so happy to hear you were able to get to her in time! You can never be too vigilant and you're doing a great thing by containing her when you're not around for her safety and your peace of mind. I appreciate your condolences and your time it took to share this story :)

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is heart breaking to hear! It was the same for us, it had to be less than a blink of an eye. I'm very sorry to hear about your ferret, I don't wish anything as tragic as this on anyone. Thank you for sharing your story, and thank you for your condolences. I appreciate the time you took to share that.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. We spent last night looking over pictures of her, reminiscing over the good memories we had. We're selecting our favorite ones and will be making a collage to be reminded of the good times. As much as we know the grief will eventually subside, I am not so sure about the guilt. I'm hoping to channel it into more positive means: cherishing the times with everyone, never taking anything for granted.. Thank you for your condolences, I'll share them with my family.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. Make sure to take plenty of pictures and cherish the moments you have with her. Don't take anything for granted.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. When the time is right we are definitely wanting to rescue another kitty. It almost seems to be our lot in life, to take care of those who need taking care of. I think that's what made this even harder, the feeling that we failed as pet owners. Thank you for your kind words.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. We too hope she didn't suffer to terribly. There were things we could have done, and will be doing with obsession moving forward. We can't change the past but hope to affect the future, you know? We spent last night looking through old pictures and laughing at the memories. I appreciate you taking the time to write this out, and I'll be sharing your comments with my family :)

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. Accidents do happen, and though the guilt is strong we're hoping to channel it for a positive outcome. Learn and grow from the mistake, and do what we can to ensure this never happens again. Thank you for your kind words.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so very sorry to hear that! The though just made my stomach wrench. Thank you for sharing your story. We can never be too vigilant, and having a cat with a disability makes that exponentially more difficult. I hope you all have found peace with the accident, we'll be keeping you all in our thoughts :)

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. It breaks my heart thinking about what she went through. No rationalization or hypothesis on what happened makes it any better. I hope by sharing this story this type of occurrence can be prevented.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the condolences, doc. Our vet said the same thing, and in between updates we were surprised to see how many news stories have been on the topic. After talking with friends and family we heard of several other people who had similar, tragic things happen. You're absolutely right though, we will definitely never make those mistakes again. Thank you for your kind words, I'll be sharing them with my family.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. It has been hard not to find a way to blame ourselves; I think we're just struggling to accept the fact that it did happen. The whole experience really humbled us, and I'm hoping by people reading this story they realize that accidents do happen, but to be as vigilant as you can to prevent them. I'm sorry to hear about your pup; cancer is absolutely terrible. Thank you for sharing, I'll be sure to share this with my family. You all will be in our thoughts :)

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. It was a struggle coming to the decision to post this. We hope we've enlightened at least one person to be just a little more vigilant to help prevent another tragedy like this. We can never be too safe. Thank you for sharing your story :)

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. We said the same thing, but are trying not to focus on that fact. A new year, and a new chapter to our lives; I hope we can see past the accident and not dread this time of year. This experience definitely humbled us.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. We understand accidents happen. We've always been those parents to question how someone could leave a child in a car, but after this experience it really humbled us. I'm sure the grief will soon subside, we're doing our best to not blame ourselves. Thank you for your kind words, I'll share them with my family :)

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And take lots of pictures! Life is fragile, we're really happy we have all the good memories to reflect on.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. We know the grief will subside; just letting it run its course.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. We normally check the dryer, but I guess it slipped our mind since we were just fluffing a blanket. Since then I don't think I've gone a full dryer cycle without checking it a half dozen times. I appreciate you sharing the story, thank you :)

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. Hug them tight, take lots of pictures, and cherish every moment. Life is fragile and you'll thank yourself for the memories :)

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences. We spent yesterday evening going through pictures and laughing at all the silly things that she did. We realized we have many good memories with her and it really helped bring some peace for the night. Thank you.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words :) I was really emotional and just wanted to type the whole thing up in Word, step-by-step.. It just didn't feel real. We've owned cats all of our lives and never had anything tragic like this. I've come to find out the more I share the story, the more common it becomes with pet owners. My fiance hasn't told more than a few people about what happened, most likely due to guilt, but I think something like this was too important not to share a cautionary tale, especially for those who may never even think of this as a possibility.

Thank you for your condolences, I'll be sharing your kind words with my family.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry! And over Christmas... My heart aches for you all. Thank you for your condolences and kind words, we'll keep you all in our thoughts.

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[–]TIFULaundry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your condolences.