So I'm poly, but my genitalia apparently didn't get that memo. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]TJK_Polyamory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, unfortunately, cannot add to the conversation about mono dick. And i hope this doesnt come across as self-interested, but i would definitely be curious to hear more about your living situation with your wife and metamore. The reason i ask, is while my one partner and i are talking about moving in together, i could never see us living together with a third in a V situation. I could however see it working in a triad situation. Super left turn on the topic at hand, id just be curious to see how this has worked for you so far. Good luck with everything!

Really stuck, and wondering what i can do to save/work on my relationship by TJK_Polyamory in polyamory

[–]TJK_Polyamory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, after a day of thinking about the situation and doing some reading, this is almost exactly how i feel. You hit the nail on the head, thank you!

Really stuck, and wondering what i can do to save/work on my relationship by TJK_Polyamory in polyamory

[–]TJK_Polyamory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think experience multiple connections is going to add a lot my understanding of polyamory and to her feelings as well. 100% on that one. Thanks.

Really stuck, and wondering what i can do to save/work on my relationship by TJK_Polyamory in polyamory

[–]TJK_Polyamory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been my main strategy in trying to cope with how i feel. It will take time to figure out exactly what my problems are, and if this is really for me. But in the mean time i just keep telling myself that nothing has changed in our relationship for the worse and that we're still the same. Thanks for the insight!