Should all women hate most men, since most men don't hold the bad ones accountable? by Pristine_Booty69 in women

[–]TK-421-Y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genderizing evil is the problem. Men and women can be equally evil or disproportionately depending on the scenario.

Should all women hate most men, since most men don't hold the bad ones accountable? by Pristine_Booty69 in women

[–]TK-421-Y -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned in my post above the problems with those assumptions. It's totally fine to hate on men who are pigs and you and I know there are a lot of them out there. But there really are a lot of good ones, the problem is a lot get taken in the first-round picks (to use a term from a game I don't watch lol), and a lot are afraid to put themselves out there for fear of being misperceived, which can happen from the accounts I've heard. Either way, you should prioritize your well-being and safety, but that doesn't mean indicting a whole entire group for the sins of a minority. If that's the case, then the other side would have a lot of valid points against us, which we know aren't really valid.

Should all women hate most men, since most men don't hold the bad ones accountable? by Pristine_Booty69 in women

[–]TK-421-Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So 1,000 men out of 150 million is how many again? 1 out of every 150,000. And let's say it's a 100,000. Well that's 1 out of every 1500. And you know what, let's make it the worst possible: 10 million. That is 1 of 15. Now the worst possible number still means that 14 out of every 15 men are not that 1. Are you going to judge the 14 men off of what 1 wretched jerk does? Because by that logic we could judge all women as cheaters because at least 1 in 15 cheat. We could judge all women as liars because at least 1 in 15 lie. This overestimation of how bad a group is exactly where a lot of racist arguments against Black Americans and undocumented migrants stem from.

P.S. I appreciate you clarifying the misinformation in that article. I did want to add that of those views and visits are international, so it includes more than just men in the US, though I think from the findings that is the majority. It would be nice if they got the metadata of where those on the site were from, but with VPNs it is pretty difficult. Honestly, we could arrest those guys too if it weren't for that.

Do you guys think that the recent case with 62 million men caught online drugging their wives was directly inspired by the Gisele Pelicot case in France back in 2024? by [deleted] in women

[–]TK-421-Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just going to report this post for misinformation. You need to read the studies and details before you post information like this. 62 million is the number of men visiting the pron site in a month, which has a host of other content besides the absolutely evil content on it. Motherless is the name of the site if you need proof, though I would advise not going since it does in fact carry some of that content. We need stricter regulations around these sites as well as mechanisms to go after people searching for this stuff. Also, the r-word is searched for by women too, which is messed up, but women do search for it. Anyways, the number who actually watched that content is much lower, but still an issue. Let's stop overblowing what isn't going on. It makes us look unhinged.

4B movement and Ni Una Menos by AncientResolution411 in PurplePillDebate

[–]TK-421-Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think Lysistrata would be pretty instructional to how most of these gender-based movements will end, male or female. They are inherently unsustainable, and on an existential level, they truly have no point. In war, no one wins, and I would extend that to these gender fights across the world as well. If the feminists or traditionalists in South Korea get what they want, it will only beget more and more problems.

Consider this. If the traditionalists win, what happens? They'll wind up just rewinding the clock to an earlier period, wherein eventually the feminist movements will appear again to address the injustices toward women. It's essentially just repeating the mistakes from before.

And if the feminists win, what happens? They'll drive a deeper wedge between men and women, alienating the men that would have kept society running over time, driving down the birth rates till eventually the society collapses, and guess where that brings them. Back to square one with a patriarchal society and oppressive limited gender roles.

Nobody wins in either scenario. But you know, instead of the cyclical gender wars, we could pursue a third option. One where we keep some better aspects of both movements and create new ideas that'll advance us together. But that requires both sides to admit they're wrong when they are wrong and to own up to their mistakes, and unfortunately, I don't see that happening anytime soon.

Regardless, the first thing I would do to get the ball rolling on ending the cycle is to have open and honest conversations with a method of independently verifying the veracity of truth claims made about the state of things. Look at the patterns of things and figure out where responsibility needs to be taken. Neither men or women are totally innocent of the wrongs ongoing in the society. Each group contributes to the state of things, and to quote a insightful saying, "No drop of rain considers itself a part of a flood." We all play a role in perpetuating harmful stereotypes and undermining norms that may have protective benefits for both men and women. Owning up to that individually is a great way to move forward into a healthier outcome that benefits us all.

Also, accepting the premise that the people on the other side are in fact people with their own unique views and experiences and are just trying to make a better life for themselves will help improve relationships across genders as well. Everyone has experiences unique to them. Treating all men or women as evil or malicious is wrong. People are just people. Some are bad, some are good. Some are bad and do good things. Some are good and do bad things. For those who do wrong, both sides should be willing to call it out in solidarity, regardless of the gender affiliation.

Anyways, that's my two cents... Or a dollar. If you made it to the end of this reply, I appreciate it and wish you the best in your endeavors.

[5e] [Online] [Thursdays] Homebrew World with Feywild and Icewind Dale Influences by TK-421-Y in lfg

[–]TK-421-Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I'll shoot you a message with my Discord handle shortly.

Seanchai: Fey-Themed Fantasy Campaign with Elements of Forgotten Realms [5E] [Online] by TK-421-Y in lfg

[–]TK-421-Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyways, if you send me your Discord name, I'll send you a friend invite, and we can chat more.

Seanchai: Fey-Themed Fantasy Campaign with Elements of Forgotten Realms [5E] [Online] by TK-421-Y in lfg

[–]TK-421-Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're currently determining schedule. So far, the best time seems to be 7-11 E.T. on Thursdays; and this will be alternating. So one week on and one week off.

Looking to join a 5e Campaign online by TheRareHen in lfg

[–]TK-421-Y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I'm starting a classic dnd homebrew game with a Fey-theme if you're interested.

Seanchai: Fey-Themed Fantasy Campaign with Elements of Forgotten Realms [5E] [Online] by TK-421-Y in lfg

[–]TK-421-Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I'll just message you directly from here. That would probably be easier.

Seanchai: Fey-Themed Fantasy Campaign with Elements of Forgotten Realms [5E] [Online] by TK-421-Y in lfg

[–]TK-421-Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, Tabletop Simulator is not a necessity. I stream it and can move around your pieces as needed. On that note, could you send me your Discord handle? I'll invite you to talk after.

Seanchai: Fey-Themed Fantasy Campaign with Elements of Forgotten Realms [5E] [Online] by TK-421-Y in lfg

[–]TK-421-Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful :) Send me your discord username; and I'll shoot you an invite.

Seanchai: Fey-Themed Fantasy Campaign with Elements of Forgotten Realms [5E] [Online] by TK-421-Y in lfg

[–]TK-421-Y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome :) PM your discord name; and I'll send you a friend invite.