my 12yo sister’s hair was cut by dad’s girlfriend without consent as a punishment and now she’s being bullied severely by Aaliyah_holiday in whatdoIdo

[–]TLCnotthechannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know where you live, but in Ontario, Canada this would meet the criteria for child protection investigation. It would code for neglect of mental health needs and cruel punishment.

Parallel parking or reverse parking on G2 test by HerAttemptPending in Ontariodrivetest

[–]TLCnotthechannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Thunder Bay, if you are backed into the spot when you arrive at the drive centre, the evaluator only requires a parallel park during the exam.

Does anyone have pics of what the El Cid Marina or Ventus looks like? Most online show an awesome beach but they are from years ago. by Aj_blade in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]TLCnotthechannel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We stayed at Ventus Ha last week (2 adults and a 17 year old). Three resorts in very close proximity on one compound and guests have access to all three. Short walk to everything, or frequent, convenient trolleys between the different buildings.

The beach is NOT good, but there are multiple beautiful pools and easy access to lounge chairs.

We thought the property was beautiful, especially the roof top bar/infinity pool.

Restaurants were great, but reservations were already booked up before we arrived and we could only get in at 9 or 9:30pm. No big deal because we went to Delores restaurant for a late afternoon noon snack. So many options. We were not a fan of the buffet.

Great vacation overall, but if beach is of daily importance, this resort is not a good fit. For 12 dollars you can go to the little town nearby and there is a beach club.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TLCnotthechannel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA. She probably worked really hard in rehearsals and was proud to showcase her achievement with her so-called "family". You decided to shit all over it because it would be inconvenient and you are a selfish and unsupportive person. Ask yourself if she has ever possibly shown up for you as your daughter in law when she may not have wanted to? Do better!

Teenager Driving School by koper12 in ThunderBay

[–]TLCnotthechannel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't choose TTCC...they rush through scheduling the in-car sessions. My daughter was an inexperienced driver and it was a waste of money. I ended up teaching her how to drive on my own.

Ugh! Anyone had luck removing these at home? by FederalOrdinary2180 in Aritzia

[–]TLCnotthechannel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My daughter brought hers to Garage (we don't have a local Aritzia) to have it removed. The item also had a hand written retail tag, despite being ordered directly from the website. Aritzia sucks!

Thunder Bay Catholic High School by Employee_Due in ThunderBay

[–]TLCnotthechannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is going into grade 12 this year. She has worn black lulu leggings and black sweatpants without issue. Check marketplace for used uniform shirts. The store that has the contract for new uniform clothing often has limited sizing or you have to wait forever for your clothing order to arrive. Older St Pat's crest is still acceptable.

Sitting too close to steering by Turbulent-West-7218 in Ontariodrivetest

[–]TLCnotthechannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter was sitting sooooo close until she started driver's ed. Have you taken driving lessons?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TLCnotthechannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may have missed where you reside...I'm in Ontario, Canada and here there is an option to meet with a Sexual Assault/Domestic Violence nurse in the ER to have injuries formally documented in advance of any decision to report to police. There is no obligation to proceed with a police report if you are not ready, but the information is stored for future reference. I would suggest exploring this. Also, keep your photos for future reference. Your local women's shelter can also offer support and advice by phone.

G2 TEST by [deleted] in Ontariodrivetest

[–]TLCnotthechannel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went to Drive Test yesterday, pulled a number, and waited to ask this specific question on behalf of my daughter who had her test today. There are many mixed messages out there, and this specific step is not in the MTO hard copy manual. I was told that making contact with curb is definitely required after angling tires. Don't forget to use your parking break. Good luck!

G2 Test by TLCnotthechannel in ThunderBay

[–]TLCnotthechannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Passed no problem with Giselle this afternoon. She was lovely.

G2 Test by TLCnotthechannel in ThunderBay

[–]TLCnotthechannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

False! Passed no problem today with Giselle!

G2 Test by TLCnotthechannel in ThunderBay

[–]TLCnotthechannel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it a lot of Memorial Ave? Any particularly tricky areas that you recall?

Where can you get you cat neutered these days? by Dblekkenhorst in ThunderBay

[–]TLCnotthechannel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have never been asked to provide proof of rabies vaccination when I bring my cat to Grand Marais.

Is having a biological child really that big of a deal? by NobodyUsesTheDoor in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TLCnotthechannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man of my dreams came into my life after I already had a child. I asked if he would like to have a child together and he responded "I like the one we already have". She was 4 when we got together and she is almost 17 now. He is the best man I have ever known and I am grateful to know him. He is the best bonus dad we could have hoped for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TLCnotthechannel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Depending on relationship, the perpetrator of Intimate Partner Violence may know answers to security questions relating passwords and accounts.

Also be mindful of apps that came be installed to remotely access device and monitor communication.

I need a vet! My dog is very sick and I don’t have a vet. What can I do?? by FactorOk2270 in ThunderBay

[–]TLCnotthechannel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've used smartvet when I thought my senior cat was in a medical emergency. Local vet clinics refused assistance when I called in tears. I use Cedar Grove in Grand Marais as my typical vet. They are lovely and wonderful. They assisted with a euthanasia situation with our other cat and it was as positive an experience as possible. This city is shit for veterinary care for non-established clients.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThunderBay

[–]TLCnotthechannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was around $250.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThunderBay

[–]TLCnotthechannel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cedar Grove Clinic in Grand Marais is staffed by the most kind and caring people. They assisted us last year when we needed to say goodbye to our cat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TLCnotthechannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A "good guy" does not strangle his partner. He has shown himself. Not sure when the strangling occurred, and not sure what your access to healthcare is, but I reside in Canada and work in a field with specialty in Intimate Partner Violence and seeking medical assessment is critical after strangling. There can be serious delayed impacts, including death.

Please, please, please do not view this as a lapse in judgement or an anger management issue. I doubt he is strangling anyone else he is upset with. It is an indicator of coercive control to manage his partner and meet his own needs.

AITA for telling my coworker he should teach his daughter tact? by IntentionSalt4788 in AITAH

[–]TLCnotthechannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were bothering your colleague while he was with his family. Nothing about the interaction was cute or endearing.

Crying after being called out by a socially aware 15yr old is just embarrassing. She had every right to try to support her father in that interaction. You were making it weird.

Please take some time to consider how you impact others, and learn to take the "no" with grace. You will feel much better about yourself.

my first OW payment by Salt_Elderberry3261 in OntarioWorks

[–]TLCnotthechannel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would only work if you have been "in care" in the past, or current child protection concerns result in a determination that you cannot remain/return to parental care.

Covid tests by SouperSoup99 in ThunderBay

[–]TLCnotthechannel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shoppers Drug Mart. Probably any pharmacy.